Cowgirl position and grinding on top

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Cowgirl-Miserable failure for this klutz, can't keep up a rhythm and I try to change positions as quickly as possible!

 

I'm sorry, this made me giggle. I can't do that bouncing up and down thing but I do a grinding motion that tends to make me squirt because things hit just the right places. Have you tried that?

[CalendarGirl 148]

I'm sorry, this made me giggle. I can't do that bouncing up and down thing but I do a grinding motion that tends to make me squirt because things hit just the right places. Have you tried that?

 

Don't ever apologize for laughter, it's a joyful noise! I have not tried a grinding motion, but it sounds like I should. I tend to only try cowgirl with those I trust since I know I'm not very good at it and I'm without a trusted partner at the moment. Once I get my "stable" built up I'll give it a shot! Thanks Sunny!!

[SwingSetWife 444]

Don't ever apologize for laughter, it's a joyful noise! I have not tried a grinding motion, but it sounds like I should. I tend to only try cowgirl with those I trust since I know I'm not very good at it and I'm without a trusted partner at the moment. Once I get my "stable" built up I'll give it a shot! Thanks Sunny!!

I used to hate cowgirl as well and would avoid it at all costs.... until I started doing the grind!!!! Sun is right, it's great. And it feels so good you won't be worried about your performance.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Cowgirl-Miserable failure for this klutz, can't keep up a rhythm and I try to change positions as quickly as possible!

 

I've found that cowgirl can also be very successful is the woman doesn't move much and the man thrusts upward. It can take a little shifting to get the angle right but I've found that I can maintain the rhythm while my partner straddles me. Just another thought on the subject.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

 

I've found that cowgirl can also be very successful is the woman doesn't move much and the man thrusts upward. It can take a little shifting to get the angle right but I've found that I can maintain the rhythm while my partner straddles me. Just another thought on the subject.

 

Actually, this is a fantastic thing for the man to do when a woman is on top! Mr. Sun will thrust upward and stay in that position...combine it with the grinding and mmmmmmm! Of course, it is hard for the male to maintain for a long time but if he can hold it as long as possible it will provide quite an enjoyable ride for the female on top.

[oc1234 435]

Actually, this is a fantastic thing for the man to do when a woman is on top! Mr. Sun will thrust upward and stay in that position...combine it with the grinding and mmmmmmm! Of course, it is hard for the male to maintain for a long time but if he can hold it as long as possible it will provide quite an enjoyable ride for the female on top.

 

That's my wife's favorite, especially after she has been straddling my face with her hands in the wall at the head of the bed and I have been been giving her oral. That's one of the best ways for a guy to make her cum.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . Of course, it is hard for the male to maintain for a long time but if he can hold it as long as possible it will provide quite an enjoyable ride for the female on top. . .

Hmmm. Actually, I find it easier to keep it up while on my back. The woman, after all, is doing all the work.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

Cowgirl-Miserable failure for this klutz, can't keep up a rhythm and I try to change positions as quickly as possible!

 

I've found that cowgirl can also be very successful is the woman doesn't move much and the man thrusts upward. It can take a little shifting to get the angle right but I've found that I can maintain the rhythm while my partner straddles me. Just another thought on the subject.

 

This is what I like because I also feel like I'm rhythmically challenged.

[LFM2 1,482]

This is what I like because I also feel like I'm rhythmically challenged.

 

I told Dave the same thing. I'm a Gracie Lou Freebush. Can't chew gum and walk at the same time.

[Mochacino 188]

I will have to try the grinding thing! I am the same where I feel like my rhythm is off or awkward! And that bouncing thing makes me way tired!

[JandKinBoise 858]

We used the cowgirl for a long time before we learned how to do it right. She likes this position for the flexibility of going from oral to penetration and back every 30 seconds or so.

 

Bouncing is a great porn visual but ineffective in home use. I grab her hips and hold her tight to me and grind and thrust into her. This will bring a very wet orgasm, very quickly. Cowgirl looks like a female dominate position but really the guy has to be the driving force.

[couplers 4,645]

Hi, this is Petra. Being on top gives me the greatest sense of control, particularly between choosing to stimulate my vagina or my clit. I can cum pretty fast this way if I want to. Doing it missionary or doggie makes the guy do more of the work, however, and gives me the feeling that I'm being "taken," which I like.

[MrDiscover 802]

As a man, I like the view this position has to offer. Plus we can look each other in the eyes which is not only a huge turn on but also give so much information about how things go. We better keep in sync that way. Not only rhythmically.

 

She loves it when I keep her up under her arms, so she hangs on my arms so to speak, and I pound hard and fast for a few minutes. Makes her come almost always.

 

As for reverse cowgirl, I get all the nice views and she gets only a wonderful view of my curled toes. Plus it is harder to stay connected, not only physical. Not a favorite position in this household.

[kikonkrome 844]

So one of our favorite variations of the cowgirl position is to basically help her 'booty pop' while I'm inside. Basically grab an ass cheek in each hand and work it. My wife loves it! It's like you are thrusting really quickly, because your not really thrusting just kinda vibrating. Does that make any sense?

[ErikaAndPeter 104]

Although I am pretty fit, I tend to get tired quickly while bouncing, too. Grinding works well to stimulate my clit and my G spot at the same time. After doing vaginal, I frequently switch to anal. The only problem is that sometimes I come too quickly.

[Shore2Please 612]

I am new on here and still exploring the posts. I find this post interesting because I am figuring this is the way we most often have sex. Sure we change things up but me being on top has been the best for me. I can control the rhythm and the angles, he gets to play with my boobs, we can look at each other, and it is the position that as long as he doesn't cum and can a few times. Also if he does cum I can still grind as long as I need to.

[Sophy 569]

I get he best orgasms when I am on top: I can control the speed, the rithm and how deep the penis goes.

I also tent to be in constant communications with the guy to make sure I am not "loosing him too early"

[longun45 115]

LOL I recently ran across this. Reboot Your Sex Life Cowgirl can provide for full body orgasms with out lots of work. They have videos that show how you can improve your orgasms. Guys love it when a woman has a full body orgasm on top of them.

[Lee714 81]

Bouncing. Don't try this at home. :fun

[Guest]

I think some men like to see you facing one way so they can see bouncing boobs and others like seeing an ass-end view of it all. Husband and I typically do it front facing but when we are at a couples club or party he’ll have me reverse so others can see the bouncing boob thing.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Although I am pretty fit, I tend to get tired quickly while bouncing, too. Grinding works well to stimulate my clit and my G spot at the same time. After doing vaginal, I frequently switch to anal. The only problem is that sometimes I come too quickly.

Seeing that your avatar and your Swingersboard profile picture both show "cowgirl", I will consider you authority on this subject.

[Ems1485 37]

I don’t really like the bouncing on top, I’ve always done the grinding method since forever, i find the harder and deeper I grind on his dick the better it feels that causes me to orgasm pretty quickly usually. I can’t do the deep grinding with very well endowed men though as it just hurts no matter what I do to try get comfortable on it.

 

My favourite has always been missionary, or with my ankles over his shoulders. I love a good pounding, I’ve been with a lot of men in my time and have yet to tell any man to slow down or stop when he’s power jackhammering furiously into me even those with huge dicks, I really love proper rough sex. I’ve often been told I would’ve been a good female pornstar haha.

 

I love it from behind too but missionary is my thing if he has a lot of fit stamina.

[Idahocouple6969 294]

Well I just learned something new. I thought I was the only one that felt awkward trying to do the porn site bouncing and would avoid cowgirl. I just wasn't sure he was getting much out of the grinding. Duh communication. Guess what will be doing tonight.

[EastInWest 1,524]

The grinding method is very satisfying for me, but at least for Mrs. E, what stimulates her the most is using my arms to hold her up ramrod straight on my dick and letting her bounce that way. I can use one hand to hold her torso up and another under her ass to help her bounce.

 

It's hard for her to do on her own because the spot I hit is, in her words, "psychedelic" and it's hard to even will herself through it, but stimulating her that much is as much for me to watch as it is for her to feel.