Do testicles get the attention they deserve?

[couplers 4,636]

I may have brought up the topic once or twice over the years in posts on threads, but want to ask specifically in a poll: if a woman, do a man's testicles turn you on, do you like to look at them hold them, suck them, etc.; if a guy, do you feel that your source of masculinity gets the credit it deserves? For me, it is a huge turn on for me to see a guy with large, separate, distinct balls that hang down real low and play with them. Yet it isn't given the amount of discussion that breasts, penises, labia or even pubic hair. So, what are your thoughts?

[sunbuckus 3,567]

What an interesting question, Petra. For myself, I guess I don't really get "turned on" by them but I know that they are part of the package (haha!) so I try to remind myself to pay attention to them during oral. However, I'm the opposite of you in terms of "large, separate, distinct balls that hang down real low"...I've seen those on occasion and they are the absolute opposite of what I am used to so when I see a set like that, I wonder if they are the equivalent to "saggy" breasts.

[divenaked 325]

You know you are getting old when you have to hold your balls up when sitting down so as not to sit on them.

[couplers 4,636]

...I'm the opposite of you in terms of "large, separate, distinct balls that hang down real low"...I've seen those on occasion and they are the absolute opposite of what I am used to so when I see a set like that, I wonder if they are the equivalent to "saggy" breasts.

 

Then you would like my husband's sack! He has what I call a "uniball," a single, neat sphere that holds his testicles, not too large, not too small. Red is the one with the saggy scrotum, but maybe I find it more attractive because it was my first "hands-on" encounter with that part of a guy. The only other two guys I've had sex with (and I did explore their balls, probably more than a normal girl) were somewhere in between.

[couplers 4,636]

You know you are getting old when you have to hold your balls up when sitting down so as not to sit on them.

 

Ha! Red has done that (I mean only when naked) since I first knew him. I didn't know it was a lack of youthfulness.

[Guest]

Interesting topic. I think all guys like their dicks sucked but I find that maybe half the guys like having their balls sucked and half don't. I also get the impression that its not something a lot of ladies do. Maybe those are two follow-up questions.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

I talked to Mr. Sun about this thread and he said that he doesn't like them "flopping all over the place" so he gives them support by wearing briefs. Any studies out there that backs the hypothesis that low hanging sets are because of lack of support?

 

You know you are getting old when you have to hold your balls up when sitting down so as not to sit on them.

 

I didn't know it was a lack of youthfulness.

 

I'm not sure if it's strictly an oldness/youthness thing. It might be a combination of age plus genetics whether they hang low or not...kind of like breasts. The lowest hanging set I've witness was with the youngest man I've played with.

 

Red is the one with the saggy scrotum, but maybe I find it more attractive because it was my first "hands-on" encounter with that part of a guy.

 

Perhaps that is the way it is with me since Mr. Sun was my first.

 

Interesting topic. I think all guys like their dicks sucked but I find that maybe half the guys like having their balls sucked and half don't.

 

What men like to be done with their balls does vary. Some are so sensitive about it that they don't want anyone to touch them. Others like a lot of touching and sucking. Others like sucking but not handling (or vice versa). Others like them played with during oral but not when you're riding them.

[Lionheart72 2,190]

As a guy, I enjoy having some attention paid to my testicles. They are a sensitive area, and require gentle handling, but those very facts make some handling quite pleasurable. It is one of those things that just come up much. As I frequently do, I blame porn. You don't see a lot of porn which involved testicles and when you do it's usually presented in the manner of "suck my balls, bitch" which is generally not encouraging.

[oc1234 435]

My wife and I have been doing MMF threesomes with our friend Bill for years. They always involve some MM play. One of the things that really turn me on big time is to be lying on my back with me inside my wife thrusting away and having Bill reach down and play with my balls.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . . Any studies out there that backs the hypothesis that low hanging sets are because of lack of support?

 

No study of which I know. But I did see on a serious TV science program that a male mammal's scrotum shrinks and relaxes in response to temperature. This is an evolutionary adaptation that maximizes production of spermatozoa.

 

I know a couple of women who like to play, squeeze and tease until they get a reaction from me. Does nothing for me but seems to entertain them so I go along with the game. None of them have taken it too far (yet).

 

Don't know what it might imply, but I wear briefs. Exception: for a party. Not that I want or need anything to 'hang'. Just want one fewer article of clothing needing removal when it's time for action.

[couplers 4,636]

My wife and I have been doing MMF threesomes with our friend Bill for years. They always involve some MM play. One of the things that really turn me on big time is to be lying on my back with me inside my wife thrusting away and having Bill reach down and play with my balls.

 

When two of us having M-F sex and another is around, the 3rd will undertake to increase the pleasure all around by making a contribution to the act. Occasionally, and to varying degrees (me the most), the girls will play with the guys balls by hand or mouth. While the guys aren't shy, they don't engage in direct M-M play, although a lot of ball bumping goes on during DP.

[Guest]

I've always been of the impression that playing with the testicles gets you a lot more pre-cum to play with or taste which, to me, is a bit of a reward for the effort.

[81lizard69 470]

I like my testicles dont get me wrong.. but for me being a guy there is just not to much excitement going on with those two guys.. They seem to be more of a liability than a asset. They are so fragile and moody.. if you dont treat them right the smell like ass and if you pump to hard they hurt.. Some women seem to love to put them in their mouth's... but that just frightens me. Why couldn't t god have tucked them up in my abdomen where they started in life? I vote two thumbs down for the hairy twins.

[couplers 4,636]

...my testicles ...seem to be more of a liability than a asset.

 

You would think otherwise if they walked out on you.

[yorktownvaguy 76]

I love having mine played with, and when I am about to cum when getting oral, I like mine held firmly (not squished).

[two4youinswva 3,068]

I'm not much on having mine messed with. Having them sucked on is unpleasant, and slightly painful for me. A soft touch is OK, especially when I'm approaching orgasm. Otherwise, keep your hands off my balls.

[midnightplayer 135]

Having them cupped and gently massaged during a good blowjob is outstanding. Slowly roll them in a hand while orally attending the cock is awesome.

[oc1234 435]

Having them cupped and gently massaged during a good blowjob is outstanding. Slowly roll them in a hand while orally attending the cock is awesome.

 

I totally agree with you. Another thing that really turns me on during a threesome with our longtime friend Bill is to have him play with my balls while I am having intercourse with my wife. He also really likes it when I do the same to him when he is having intercourse with my wife. It has become a standard part of every threesome we have with him.

[TricianMike 772]

Mike has always liked me to pay attention to his and I assumed other men like it too. I have found that it is split with the men we have met. I have also found that if a man doesn't like it he will let you know real fast.

[couplers 4,636]

My question wasn't totally clear, because I was asking more whether testicles are appreciated for their masculinity and excitement that arises from just seeing them, sort of like breasts are for a woman. For me it arises from being raised a sheltered Catholic girl hearing about a guy "having balls" (or "NOT having balls"), someone being a "ballbuster," a guy "getting his nuts cut off," or having "the balls of a bull," all those sayings. That part of a guy took on mythical dimensions in my pubescent teenage mind. When I masturbated it was in my mind, and still is. And the first time I got to hold the real testicles of the guy that took my virginity (and is my current boyfriend), they were (and are) of mythical proportions. So I have never shaken my schoolgirl fascination with that part of a man's anatomy. I like to see them, and it is a secret pleasure of mine to watch them as hubby or boyfriend is orgasming.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I'd say they probably get the attention they deserve since even among guys the interest range seems to peak somewhere at "it's ok", so not really prime body real estate for either sex.

 

Mrs cplnuswing sees them as more a curiosity than something super sexy since not having a pair of her own, she finds it fascinating how they can change from high and tight to loose and low. She does like to kiss on them a little bit during oral sometimes, but likes them shaved smooth for that.

[let's do it again 414]

My balls don't get the action they deserve.  I get it that women don't want to hurt their man and a vital part of intercourse, but I love for my partner to squeeze my balls during sex. I am hard and ready to stick it in, ladies stick your hand down there and give them balls a good squeeze. Also squeeze the balls when I cum doing oral sex.

[J&Wu 408]

On 11/17/2014 at 4:35 PM, couplers said:

My question wasn't totally clear, because I was asking more whether testicles are appreciated for their masculinity and excitement that arises from just seeing them, sort of like breasts are for a woman. For me it arises from being raised a sheltered Catholic girl hearing about a guy "having balls" (or "NOT having balls"), someone being a "ballbuster," a guy "getting his nuts cut off," or having "the balls of a bull," all those sayings. That part of a guy took on mythical dimensions in my pubescent teenage mind. When I masturbated it was in my mind, and still is. And the first time I got to hold the real testicles of the guy that took my virginity (and is my current boyfriend), they were (and are) of mythical proportions. So I have never shaken my schoolgirl fascination with that part of a man's anatomy. I like to see them, and it is a secret pleasure of mine to watch them as hubby or boyfriend is orgasming.

They do have those dear little swimmers waiting for your pool😉! That being said mine don't hang and while they enjoy gentle cuddling they don't like squeezing and vibrators and such, kind of uncomfortable. I too enjoy watching other guys tight nut sacs as they cum and appreciate a rooting section myself when I do too.

[couplers 4,636]

13 hours ago, J&Wu said:

mine don't hang .. I too enjoy watching other guys tight nut sacs as they cum

Sorry, but I like a scrotum that is loose, where each testicle can hang separately, distinctly, and (for some reason), unevenly.  That if I wanted to (and I often do), I can easily identify each one individually and take them between my fingers or in my mouth.  That as my love cums into her, they serve their purpoe and rise up slightly as his mechanism between his sack and ass contracts to pulse and pump.  How masculine! 

[divenaked 325]

I have a situation that is different from anyone I know. I had a vasectomy at 26. Did not want to make any more kids. Could not afford to have it done through my regular doctor (insurance didn't pay for it), so I went to Planned Parenthood. They almost guaranteed that it was  permanent. The procedure was to cut each tube, sew each end closed, make cuts into the leg muscle, and sew each end into the cuts, thus making it almost impossible for accidental reconnection. One of the results of this process is that the nuts do not hang low, because the tubes are firmly attached to the leg muscles. 34 years later they are still holding high. I do love to have my nuts sucked and licked on, but most women don't seem interested. Go figure.