Prostate massage

[hazeleyesx3 18]

It's probably been asked and hidden in the archives. It's just easier to ask.

Found out my partner would like it but he's never told me until the other day.

I'm not even sure where to begin. I've started preliminary research online but there's a lot to sift through. Figured I'd get good advice here too

 

Thanks.

[angelkin 1,326]

It's a very personal thing. I've enjoyed being the giver with a couple men. Lube up, be gentle and see what he likes. You can experiment with pressure, angles, toys and he's going to have to give you feedback to get it right.

[Tia Vampire 167]

I learned how to do a prostate massage by using you tube. Then I tried it on a number of guys. Make sure to pay close attention of the feel inside the anal canal. Communicate with the guy you are doing this with. Also use a silicone lube and be gentle.

[hazeleyesx3 18]

Thank you to both. We are going to try it this weekend. I have watched a couple of videos and have read numerous articles. The good thing is they all basically say the same thing. That's a relief. All did emphasize the need for good lubrication. May I ask why a silicone lube is better?

[Guest]

Mr here. Had a former girlfriend that kept trying to give me on. She was taught by her former and long term boyfriend and kept telling me that he found them quite pleasureful. Funny thing (to me) was that he was an FBI agent. Those guys must be really tough because each time she got one of those long fingernails close, I sounded like a virgin, "no, no, not there." For me, only the doc goes in that door.

[hazeleyesx3 18]

Ha ha. Thanks for that. Luckily my nails are short!!!

[JandKinBoise 862]

It is THE most personal thing to me. The fact that he told you helps. J had to find out after years of failed attempts. Even now, I have to be VERY comfortable with the situation. J always has to push the envelop though. As soon as I was comfortable with a finger, she gets a strap on. jeeze, slow down some girl.

 

Thank goodness the doctors no longer have to do this. Mine was horrible. I was actually thinking about changing doctors because his rectal exam felt like a prison rape.

[Tia Vampire 167]

I prefer silicone because a little goes a long way, it does not become sticky, it has a silky feeling to it and makes your hands feel soft and no side effects.

[angelkin 1,326]

For nails and simple hygiene measures, wear a pair of latex surgical gloves. Besides, they feel silky all lubed up. I highly recommend gloves for manual play

[Tia Vampire 167]

You can do a prostate massage from the outside too, but if you are going to massage from the inside yes, gloves will be needed. I use non latex surgical gloves just incase of a allergic reaction to latex.

[merryweather 15]

I love a prostate massage. Can't have long nails though. If the girl hits it right and massges it correctly, it is absolutely the best orgasm a guy can have. I want to get one while fucking a girl during a threesome. Haven't been that lucky yet. Lube is essential and be gentle until you get it right.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I had a girlfriend who liked putting vibrators and dildos in my ass. It started with a finger. I was drunk and she was sucking me. I was in another world when she slipped her finger into me. That "woke me up" but it felt good. When she saw that it didn't bother me and that it felt good to me she did it every time she sucked me.

 

Then she started using her vibrator. I didn't protest because it felt good and she liked doing that to me. The vibration and the larger feeling in me felt great.

 

She graduated to the dildo I had bought to use on her. I let her play. The dildo felt awesome!

 

She wanted to watch me having sex with another man. I couldn't go that far but I liked her playing with my ass with her fingers and dildos.