Things you can only see when you watch

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Trying to pick the most memorable part about watching my wife having sex with another man in front of me is hard to do but what I noticed that stood out over anything else is that as she lifted her hips up against him as he pushed down into her she curled her toes. I wondered if she did that with me.

[Guest]

Take a video of just yourselves making love. Get past the idea that the camera is rolling and make love like you normally do. In our case, even with just one stationary camera, I think we both gained an appreciation four ourselves and our partner. Hey, I was much more "active" than I had ever imagined and looked every bit as good as the porn stars as hubby had me in more positions than I realized. And the same was true of him; he looked like quite the stud and was really "into things" more than I had envisioned from my normal vantage point.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

She will not let me take pictures or a video. I knew after I posted that I should have included that in my post. I thought about editing it but left it go. She wasn't going to take a chance that I would share it with someone. I tried to convince her that if she wore a blindfold nobody would know its her. I would LOVE to have pictures or video of her having sex with other men!

 

I thought about hidden cameras and even fantasized setting up a meeting somewhere in a room that had a two way mirror while a buddy of mine filmed. I felt exhausted trying to talk her into having sex with other men in front of me and was more than happy when she finally tried it.

 

I knew how much she didn't want to have sex with other men. I didn't want to make another long, exhausting effort to try to talk her into something else she didn't want to do. I have many awesome memories of her having sex with other men.

 

Curling her toes is just one of many awesome memories of things you can only see when you watch.

[JandKinBoise 862]

I know it sounds horribly manipulative, but in the heat of the moment during a really hot session, say "this is so fucking hot, it should be on film". I know for me, that always got the response 'get the camera'. But some women manage to maintain some sanity while screwing so it's not a guarantee.

 

We got into mmf sex for a specific reason. I wasn't prepared for the whole picture. We like to keep all involved but there are times when I find myself hanging back some, watching her. I assumed I would have to deal with some jealousy but there was none. Strangely, other than lust, the only thing I feel is pride. I was so proud of her to be able to give herself so completely like this. I still find it amazing.

[swing.kidz 367]

She wasn't going to take a chance that I would share it with someone...

 

I thought about hidden cameras and even fantasized setting up a meeting somewhere in a room that had a two way mirror while a buddy of mine filmed...

 

I knew how much she didn't want to have sex with other men...

 

I didn't want to make another long, exhausting effort to try to talk her into something else she didn't want to do.

 

Not to totally derail this thread, but holy crap!

 

First, if her only hesitation to being on video is her fear of what you'll do with the video, then you should ask yourself why that's even an issue. A relationship based on mutual respect shouldn't leave one partner afraid of the intentions and motivations of the other partner. However, the fact that her fear persists leads me to my second thought:

 

You know this isn't (and shouldn't be) all about you, right? You've said some things in your post (which I've highlighted) that are actually pretty alarming. Now, I'm not claiming that I know anything about your marriage or communication style, but I'm going to go out on a limb here and suggest you might want to reevaluate the way you approach your wife...and let her drive the motivation of participating in swinging for once. I imagine your persistent requests for her to do things she doesn't want to do weigh heavily on her emotional health.

 

Sorry for that.

[Guest]

I'm similarly cautious about film. Hubby promised we would film, watch, and destroy. I could be there every step of the way. I liked what I saw but I still said destroy. The purpose was not for ongoing eroticism, it was to see what we looked like. It served its purpose, gave me more confidence about looking every bit as hot as other women or couples, helped to move our swinging further forward.

[Linde 23]

About taking pictures and video. My wife, Lynn, never wanted to allow pictures to be taken. Since then she has seen photos that a friend of ours, Richard, took of his wife, Karen. His photos were beautiful. When he asked if he could take similar pictures of Lynn, she agreed. Karen joined in fixing Lynn's hair and doing her makeup. The photos he took were so hot and sexy. They made Lynn feel so beautiful and comfortable. We have since taken sexy videos of each other. Watching these videos later proved to be mind blowing for everyone. One evening when certain issues prevented Karen from being involved in sex play, she and I decided to watch and to make video of her husband, Richard, fucking my wife, Lynn. It was a remarkable and memorable night. And Lynn and I now have the video to relive the experience whenever we want to. We talk about how it felt as he entered her, how excited she became when his balls banged against her ass.

 

Taking and watching videos we make has become one of the most exciting experiences we've had. We see things in the video that were missed as the action was happening. Lynn has gotten so much more comfortable being photographed and videoed. An added bonus is that we discovered the excitement of being verbal during sex. Lynn has gotten comfortable with talking out loud to encourage and excite the people she has sex with. When I hear her say explicit things like, "Oh, God, the make my cunt so wet. I love your fat cock." Or, "yes, I want all your cum deep in me. Fuck me! Harder!"

 

Lynn never used to say very much during sex. She has opened up so much and I am thrilled with the difference.

[lotsoffun201 175]

I love having pics/videos taken of me, but we ALWAYS crop the other parties identifying features out

[2fitfunsters 32]

I am pretty alarmed by your expression of making her have sex with men when she doesn't want to and your long exhausting attempts to talk her into it. Do you even care what she wants? This shouldn't be just about your wants, but about hers as well. You may not like how this ends.

[oc1234 436]

I have been blessed with having a wife who has always liked being photographed nude. After we started playing with others, it was only natural to include taking both pictures and videos. I must say that looking back on all the pictures and videos really bring back fond memories. In the last five or so years, we haven't taken that many videos and pictures, but only because it is often more enjoyable in a threesome to do the playing without one of us having to take time out to take pictures. Over the years we have toyed with the idea of having another friend, SK, whom we had not played with, photograph us playing alone and playing with our long term male friend and playmate, Bill.

 

That didn't turn out exactly as planned since, instead of him doing the photography, we started playing with him as well.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I am pretty alarmed by your expression of making her have sex with men when she doesn't want to and your long exhausting attempts to talk her into it. Do you even care what she wants? This shouldn't be just about your wants, but about hers as well. You may not like how this ends.

 

I'm sorry for the misinterpretation. When she tried it she LOVED it! I didn't force her to do anything. She was reluctant. After many conversations and reassurances she willingly agreed to try it.