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Cialis & Viagra not working?

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NYFlirts    158

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I was going to post this in the thread about how much Viagra / Cialis to take, but it seemed it should have it's own thread.

 

I've tried both Viagra and Cialis. I don't know if I'm not taking enough or what, but I can't really tell for sure when it is or isn't making a difference.

 

I know my problem is 100% in my head since I never ever have a problem with my wife or this one other girl I've seen regularly... but I have somewhat often had problems blowing a flat with a bunch of girls a few minutes into swapping, especially while changing positions.

 

My biggest frustration: NOT KNOWING THE REASON!!! I mean, there is no commonality between when it does and doesn't happen. It isn't the specific girls, or places, or situations, or anything. It seems totally random. I'll have no problem with a girl, then a problem another night, then no problem again... same girl, same situation, etc. Hell, for all I know it could just be the food I'm eating beforehand?

 

This one girl lately, we've seen her 3 times in the last couple of months. There's nothing extra good or bad about her... nothing that would intimidate me because she's so hot, or turn me off because she's not hot. Unfortunately, every time I've been with her I've blown a flat a few minutes in. :(

 

2nd time with her I took some meds and it didn't seem to make a difference. 3rd time I doubled up and I STILL had a problem in the beginning... but at least it seemed to kick in later since I was able to fuck her multiple times that night. I took them 1.5 hours before, so I figured that would have been plenty of time for them to work, no?

 

WHAT THE HELL!?!?

 

Ideally I'd like to find the common factor between all these times I can't get or keep it up. Again, I know it's 100% in my head, and only happens once in a while... I just can't figure it out the cause!

 

Independent of finding the root cause, I sure wish I could determine why it seems that sometimes the pills work and sometimes they don't. Hell, I even wonder if sometimes when I take the pills and I don't have problems... if I could have skipped the pill and still not had a problem!?

 

Am I the only one that's having these issues?

 

Why can't I just figure out why I can't keep it hard sometimes?

 

Why isn't it more black / white that the pills are or aren't working? I mean, shouldn't it be: I take them and 60 minutes later I can get a boner and keep it super easily?

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Fundamental Law    2,885

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Sexual arousal occurs between the ears. Cialis and Viagra are simply permissive for the penis to get blood. What you describe is hardly unusual. Particularly our of our 20's, arousal comes and goes. There is something that diminishes/interferes with your arousal when with these other partners. Not to worry.

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Brad145    58

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In my experience Viagra works best when you haven't eaten for 2 hours, and taken with plenty of water. If you have food in your stomach it will delay the effect.

 

I take 50 or 100mg and have no problems, but no stimulus = no action. :)

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J&Wu    408

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I use Cialis and agree with Law and Brad, I do need some fantasy as well as continued physical stimulus and at this stage in my life I am only 3 out of 4 hard at best. That is good to penetrate but not rigid.

 

If you want to stay hard regardless, you would need to consider alprostadil (Edex or Caverject) injection directly in your penis. Unless you are suffering with true ED you might have trouble getting a scrip for that.

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NYFlirts    158

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Thanks guys!

 

I hate the thought that I even "need" to use the stuff at all, but I hate not being able to deliver.

 

I'm really hoping I can figure out the mental side since I know there are plenty of situations where I have zero problems.

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let's do it again    414

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Try this experiment, take your regular dose of viagra and masturbate to see how hard you get. If you get rock hard by masturbating then it is probably in your head. I had this problem with a girlfriend that I was having sex with, but she didn't really do it for me. I took viagra and still had a soft erection, I thought that I could take viagra and perform with anyone,  not true! The feelings must be there to get it going.

 

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