How big of an age gap between you and your swing playmates?

[ready2pla 17]

I would like to post a poll to see the range of age difference between couples that have played together. And we would like to know how great or bad it went. Give up some details!

[Brit_Pair 62]

Thus far, the people we've played with have been in the 6-10 years older category. Not a deliberate decision on our part: just the way things worked out. We've no complaints (far from it). The older you get, the less the question of age difference seems to matter.

[lovers 25]

We've had great times with women of all ages. One of our first swinging experiences was with a couple who were in their early 60's. While hubby ate my wife to some bone shattering orgasams, the wife gave me one hell of a blow job.

 

Another time we hooked up with a couple 15 or so years older than us and my wife had one hell of a time being fucked by her husband who really knew how to service her. Meanwhile I fucked his wife who was one hell of a fuck! She was so hot in fact that I couldn't help but deposit two loads of cum in her pussy! Very few women can get that type of performance out of me!

 

Bottom mind, age is a state of mind, not an indicator of how good of a sex partner one is going to be.

[ready2pla 17]

Oh I know what you mean Lovers. The last time we were with the older couple now she is around 69 and I am 44 she was just as hot as she was 25 years ago. I was fucking her as her husband was eating my wife's pussy. Then we got to the doggy style position and she was riding the bone. I am not sure who would walk out of the room if a man had 100mg of Viagra.

 

To this day I never turn down a good look at an older woman.

[sexypairca 41]

We have had couples hold our interest ranging from a couple of years younger to 15 years older. No horror stories to share and the "better" experiences had nothing to do with age.

 

Annette

[OhioCouple 40]

We couldn't answer your poll (as a couple) as there is a 15 year difference between myself and my husband. We have never played with anyone older than my husband (he is 58) and we have never played with anyone younger than me. (I am 43)

 

However we have played with an age group range of about 44 to 56.

 

To answer your question:

And we would like to know how great or bad it went. Give up some detailes!

I really don't think age is a factor in how 'good or bad' someone is, it's more of a matter of choosing your partners wisely and everyone being compatible.

[thump29 16]

Age doesn't matter to us. I am 26 and hubby is 29 and we currently are involved with a 35 and 46 yr old couple. It has turned out to be a really great thing. We dont rule people out because of their age, we think the peoples personality is the important thing.

[ready2pla 17]

I am glad that the poll shows that fun is had by all young and older when they play together. To us the age does not matter. To me the only measurement that matters is the amount of passion for sex that the couple have. I think that a woman can have great body but if she thinks that is what makes her sexy she is so wrong. Now if she has the passion for wild sex and loves fucking she is on the mark. I have seen some gorgeous BBW that I would rather play with than super models. What is great about swinging it brings all types together with a common thread.

Love and enjoyment is the best thing in life.

 

[MagicEnigma 16]

I was 20, he was 52, she was 47. The guy I was with that first time was 31. No complaints here, it was some of the best sex I've had. Certainly the most memorable, it got me into the lifestyle!

[gsu22 187]

I've always wanted to be with a couple somewhat older than myself.......I'm 22 and a couple in the range anywhere from 22-45ish is what i've always fantasized about. I don't know what it is but women older than me is a big turn-on. But like many of you said, age is just a number and I also think personality is what counts the most.

[MagicEnigma 16]

It was a turn on for me in both ways, I was more nervous about being with the wife than the husband at first. I honestly don't think much about age differences anymore. Mostly my age is younger than anybody I'm around, so everybody is older.

[Bedmates 46]

I must say, this poll has helped me a lot!

 

We're new and trying to sort things out.

 

We have a 9 year age difference. She is 32 (but being petite she looks 26) and I am 41 (but being fit and taking care of myself, most people guess 36).

 

Anyway, we've seen couples ads and my wife wants to be with a guy close to her age. Well, sometimes that means the female is in her mid 20's!. Would she be interested in someone my age? I didn't think so.

 

But now I see that I should just stop worrying and get to answering some ads!

 

Thanks all!

[ready2pla 17]

Wow were so glad that a poll and some great people that took the time to answer my poll could have a positive effect on someone's swinging lifestyle. You got just what I was getting at.

 

Have fun and enjoy because the age difference doesn't matter as much as you might think. Thanks Bedmates for your comments all smiles here:)

[the2stars 15]

Just wish we were able to choose more than 1 one the poll..

We have gone same age to 20 yrs older. It all depends on the chemistry on the other couple and ourselves.

 

As far as it would have been great to see the younger on here as well. Generally we do not go much more than 10 yrs or so younger. Mainly due to the fact of interests.Guess we must be fuddie duddies.

 

We usually try to stay within 10 yrs or so of our age.

[fun_pairTX 26]

And have a great time. Mrs Fun is 9 years my junior. We are 49 & 40 and we have been with couples who's ages have ranged from 25 to 55 and have a great time.

[Avantgarden38 18]

We are both almost 40. Our couples have all been younger than us (26-32 range). We think we look 35ish, perhaps that is why our couples have been younger. We would date an older couple if the right pair came along. We have also tried to date an early 20's couple, but nothing ever came of it. We called it off because it didn't feel right with them.

 

Age really doesn't matter if the attraction and chemistry exist for us.

[WesternSwing 504]

I am 39 and my wife is 29, so we tend to gravitate towards couples between 25 and 40 years of age. Of the two couples we have met that have turned into swing partners their ages are close to ours, interestingly enough, with a very similar spread in the age of the couple.

 

Mr. WS

[Sweetdevil 17]

We met a mature couple who was sexually attracted to my wife. As a foursome we connected sexually and enjoyed talking with each other. Well, the mature gentleman and my wife were extermely hot for each other. Going to dances and returning home, I would tease my wife about her mature beau. She would smile and say, "I never thought I would be so horny for an older man." Some of the people who knew at the dance always commented on sexual intense their "slow" dances were. So, the offer came. The mature couple asked if it was okay with me for them to take may wife out for the evening, because his wife was only into women. We had become comfortable enough to trust them. The date was set and they took my wife out and partied into the next morning. This couple was about fifteen to twenty years older than us.

 

We each since then have swung with couples either approximately fifteen years older or younger than us.

[Bedmates 46]

After searching and searching, I found a female of a couple that was really attractive and very interested. I thought things were set for a foursome - finally! Well, my wife is 9 years younger than me. It turned out that the husband is 15 years older than the wife (making him 24 years older than my wife). My wife couldn't fine a man of her father's age attractive, so it didn't happen.

 

We're still looking!

[deeptouch 21]

I'm 56 and have just had an outstanding exchange with a woman 25. I meet her while buying a car. The dialog was unbelievable, she acctually told me in front of my wife that she craved sex with "college proffesor" looking men.

 

On the way home my wife told me to take her up on it, I didn't respond much at that moment, but the next day (last week), I went back to the Dealership, asked her to lunch, and fucked her at a Holiday Inn. When I got home, I told my wife and it turned her on so much that she sucked me until I was hard again, and we fucked.

 

Yesterday, she phoned and asked if we would like to have dinner with her and her husband ...... more later.

[crestviewcpl2 15]

interesting. My SO is 16 years younger than me but I like younger men and he just likes women period regardless of age. Though he has said some of the younger ones aren't really as knowledgeable about what to do. I don't remember that I was any different when I was younger but maybe some are. I've never been with a man my age but its not the age but the attraction. Youngest I've been with was 20. So guess my vote is on that age doesn't matter its attraction. And I'm attracted to younger guys so far.

[EvilMJ 65]

My best friend and her husband have a 23 year age difference. When you first meet the husband your origional thought is that he is definately older, but let me tell you after talking with him and getting to know him age suddenly isn't a factor and he became a very close friend.

 

That being said, he is also one of the best lovers I have encountered, as his wife put it, he fucks like a 20 year old but lasts a hell of a lot longer... boy was she right!! He showed me the time of my life and left me exhausted .

 

Age will never be an issue to me, it all comes down to personality and attraction. I think you will lose out on a potentially amazing experiance if you base your choice on strickly physical appearance and age.

[ranchcouple3 15]

We think this was a great poll, ready2pla, thankyou, we have sure had some questions in this area. Guess we won't worry as much about it.

[HotMoCpl 20]

We've decided that 5 + - is okay. Personally, I wouldn't touch anything that was younger then 45 years old; I hate having to train a woman. This brings another thought to mind. We were both 37 when we met. SHE actually asked to see my drivers license and military ID! She thought I was about 23 and said, "I hate training you younger guys!"

 

We weren't all that happy when we were younger, then we met each other. Now we're happy to grow old together.

[ALilOEverything 901]

When I first voted on this poll I marked 6-10 years but since we played with a couple where there was a 20+ year age gap and it was just as wonderful. We never felt the difference at all.

[JacobSky 17]

I was 22, she was 41, and he was about 50, but only watched us. It added to all of our enjoyment and arousal.

[good times 991]

When we first got into the lifestyle age of the people we played with was a topic we had completely different views on than we do now. we have played with couples now both older and younger than us and with as much as 20 years difference in ages of the man and women of the couple. It is now a nonissue for us.

[amBIdextrous 17]

We have been with a couple 15 years older, and what a great time we had.

 

I have had 3somes with a friend and his wife they are almost 20 years younger than myself. As has been said age does not cum into it. Being young at heart with the right attitude matters. The generation gap :hahahaha: can be filled without any worries.

[DBL D 120]

We'll consider playing with anyone if they are mature enough for the whole package (and we Click)

 

We are in our late 40's and have played with those ten years younger than us without any problems. We have even considered playing with those in their 20's. I think I'd have a problem being with those that are much older than us, although I never say never.

 

Male D