Psquared 21 Posted February 17, 2015 For Valentine's weekend we decided to jump into the lifestyle feet first. Happily married 25 years, we recently opened up and shared fantasies and desires we had never talked about. Wife had done research online and found a club within 3 hours that was open on Friday night for social/dance and then doing a hotel takeover. We went in nervous but with a great attitude of enjoying each other's company and having great sex with each other at the end of the night, and gathering info about the lifestyle. We got to the club and we were given an orientation of the club and rules by a very nice guy. People were sitting around at tables drinking and visiting. The DJ was cranked up. We picked a great table right in the center of everything, opened our wine and began to observe. No one was dancing in the beginning. Several hosts stopped by throughout the evening to check on us and chat. As songs we liked played we got up and danced. Wife loves to show off on the dance floor. We focused on each other and having a good time because we believe a couple into one another is an attractive couple. If we find each other attractive, then other people will also. People were in different styles and levels of dress and undress. There were sequins and heels, jeans, fishnet dresses, lingerie, you imagine it, it was there. Gradually shirts came off of men. Women's skirts rose higher to expose ass cheeks. Boobs began to hang out. One hostess was completely naked except for a thong. And we were impressed LOL When we were dancing a couple of ladies joined us and we kind of did the back to back bump and grind for a minute. There was an attractive older couple we had noticed earlier. She came over to wife and began to dance. It was just briefly, she said she was passing through to the restroom and would be back. Later during another song she came up and they really began to bump and grind. Wife had her arm around the woman's shoulders and remarked later how soft her skin was. Dance ended and we went back to table and they went to bar. We were really nervous because we didn't want to approach another couple and be turned down so we hoped someone would come to us. It was obvious we were new because we had received orientation. Also, during orientation, the host mentioned we might see people having sex on the sofas. We were hopeful we would at least get to watch. But by 1 am nothing was happening in that way and we were getting tired. As we were going to get our coats, we passed the other couple at the bar. She started a conversation. We chatted about where we were from and that it was our first time there. They were from out of town also. Wife asked, hopefully, if they would be at the hotel takeover. Unfortunately, they were not going to be. We said maybe we would see them at the club again sometime and said goodnight. As we left, wife asked, should we have gotten contact info or something? Being brand new, we just didn't know how to handle. Still not sure if they were into us, husband was reserved while wife was outgoing and did all the talking. Assuming, being more experienced, if they were really interested they would have gone ahead and invited us to their room or something. Maybe they were just being friendly because they didn't really know anyone at club either. We did not leave disappointed. It was a fun night together. Husband was more apprehensive that night and unsure of his feelings (one of the hosts was appreciative of the wife's stockings and offered to fix where it had come undone from garter lol). But at the hotel the next night he had a great time. That will be part 2. P.S. our night ended Very Well 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,026 Posted February 17, 2015 It was my pleasure to read about your really good first experience. You're definitely headed in the right direction. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post