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Was your first swinging experience planned or spontaneous?  

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  1. 1. Was your first swinging experience planned or spontaneous?

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The question crossed my mind about the ratio of couples that thought through their first swinging encounter versus those couples that just fell into it.

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What counts as "planned?"

 

Our first swinging experience took place at a swingers club. We met a couple. They asked us if we wanted to play. We said yes. Sex happened. I'm not sure I would call that planned, in that we didn't plan ahead of time to hook up with that particular couple, but we did go to a swingers club with the idea of hooking up with someone if the opportunity arose.

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The plan progressed, was revised a few time, was derail a few times, re-railed a few times for a little more than of a year before the goal was ultimately won. It involved multiple strategies; swingers' clubs, meet-n-greet, searches on the World Wide Web. Success was achieved when least expected but was, none the less, a result of "The Plan".

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I have to agree with Lionheart...what do you mean by planned? If you mean unplanned as in not talking about swinging beforehand, setting boundaries, and having friends swap with you after an evening of drinking, then no, we did not have an unplanned first swinging experience. However, when we went out to our first house party, we didn't have any expectation to swap, only to see how the atmosphere and environment differed between a swingers club and a house party. We were quite fortunate that our first couple was pretty much the perfect couple to initiate us as members of the swinger community.

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It was planned, about as planned as you can get really - another couple we met on SLS, messaged back and forth for a time since there was some distance between us, and then finally got together when schedules and travel allowed. We didn't go into it 100% determined to play, but we knew it was more likely than not we would.

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If MMF is swinging, mine was a surprise. A couple I knew asked me around for dinner on a Friday night and when I got there they showed me photos of her nude and told me they were swingers. I thought playground equipment. Anyway. turned out they had another couple lined up for that night but it fell through. I was only about 20 and I felt it could have been a lot better if I were more experienced.

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Not planned, but perhaps anticipated would be the best description. A couple from Michigan that we met in Florida while on vacation contacted us (text) a few weeks later and asked if we wanted to meet. When we inquired as to for what, the response was for some fun, she's bi, he's not. We had never even thought about swinging and said thanks but no thanks. In our discussions, we had more or less decided that the only mutually acceptable first step towards swinging might be an MFM, but no actions had been taken there, just kind of a mutually agreed upon fantasy at best. Now, a few months later, he was flying into town by himself, for business, and just wanted to meet for drinks at his hotel bar in downtown Chicago. Even though it was meet for drinks only, I dressed as sexy as I possibly could for the meet and we ended up in his hotel room after a few rounds.

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We (my ex and I) totally planned it. We met a guy online who was traveling to our area. We got a hotel room, and met at the bar for drinks. We invited him to our room and enjoyed - just as planned.

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Ours was totally unplanned. Bill & Deb, a couple we had known for 6 years and had become very close to, were over at our house for the evening. We were all nudists so, as usual when we were together, we were all nude. Over the years there was a lot of flirting between Deb and me and Bill and my wife Lisa. We were all on the living room and Bill started massaging my wife Lisa on one side of the room and I started massaging Deb on the other side of the room. I think it was Deb who smiled and nodded her head for me to look over at Bill and my wife. Bill had switched from massaging my wife to having intercourse with her.

 

Immediately after that Deb and I started seriously playing with each other. Since the floor was hard, Deb and I got up and went into the bedroom where we continued playing and finished up with intercourse. After we left the bedroom, Bill and my wife went into the bedroom to continue play. Deb and I both enjoyed listening to the sounds Bill and Lisa were making and Deb told me that Bill had always wanted to have sex with my wife Lisa.

 

That occurred in 1986. We four continued to play with each other into the late 90s when Bill and Deb got divorced. Deb is still our good friend and we still have threesomes with Bill.

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Our first experience was planned. We had both had a couple of affairs and decided to seek the sexual variety we both wanted together rather than singly. We placed an ad in the personal column of the local paper - there was no internet back then - "Professional couple in their 30s seeking similar couples for close friendship." We received several replies and chose one couple to contact. We called them and arranged to meet for drinks. We were both very nervous and so were they as they were first-timers too. After some initial general talk the conversation turned to sex - what we were looking for, what we liked etc. We were attracted to them and them to us so after a little flirting we invited them to come home with us. When we got home we had another drink while we sat by our pool. The flirting got more intense as we all began to get turned on. Someone had to make a move so Brian stood up, stripped off and jumped into the pool in his birthday suit. Jo, Bob and Doreen were not far behind. In the pool Brian gravitated to Doreen and Jo to Bob. Jo and Bob were the first to get out of the water, dry themselves off and go into the house.They were both stark naked. Brian asked Doreen if she would like to go indoors and she said she would. Jo and Bob had taken the main bedroom so Brian and Doreen went into the spare room. For the next hour or so we all played culminating in intercourse with our new friends. After Bob and Doreen left Jo and Brian agreed that the evening had been a great success and that we wanted to do it again. We were hooked!

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Uh oh... ago going to show on this one.

 

Long, Long time ago as a teen I was raised on ranches. We would travel the country going to horse shows and rodeos.

Sad part is most of the parents would end up staying in hotels and many of them were major cheaters. Wives and Husbands going all over doing each other at all hours of the day and night.

 

Us Teens would get together each night and basically have what today would be Swingers Parties. Ya, we all had sex with each other for recreation.

 

Some are going to say, "That was not swinging." Well, the start of swinging was "Recreational sex between consenting adults." It was not about couples. Remember the phrase "Swinging Singles"? Ok, we were not all really adults when we started but carried over into adulthood for many of us of that time.

 

I grew up this way. Thought this was how the world was and have pretty much lived my life this way ever since.

 

This is why many of you that have known me for a long time know I believe there are two types of Swingers. One, it is a LIFESTYLE. The other it is a hobby which is most of you.

 

Nothing had ever been planned but yes, many of us looked forward to the next Rodeo. :kissface:

 

Life has been great and now have been living this way for about 45 years. No regrets.....

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Our first swinging experience was planned, but we almost blew the plan before it came to fruition!

 

We heard from a couple on SLS, met them for dinner, and talked and got to know them (this was maybe the third or fourth couple that we had met in our nascent swinging career). We all decided that we liked each other, so we agreed to meet again for a play date. They offered to host us at their home rather than meet at a hotel.

 

On the appointed day, we met our new friends at their front door. After an extremely awkward hour of drinks and finger-food in their living room, the other Mrs. excused herself to refill her water in the kitchen. I followed her in, and apologized for our awkwardness, confessing the by-then obvious fact that we clearly did not know how to do this. She said, "OK, it's no problem. I'll tell my husband that it's a no-go for tonight." Not wanting to blow our chance, I quickly exclaimed, "No, no, no, we really DO want to play with you! We just have no idea how to do it." She paused a moment, then nodded and said with a smile, "Don't worry- I'll take care of it." She and I returned from our impromptu conference to the living room, and resumed the small talk- for about one minute, after which the other Mrs. said, "So, who wants to go upstairs to the bedroom?" My hand shot up about the same as my wife's, and the rest, as they say, is history!

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Ours was totally unplanned. Bill & Deb, a couple we had known for 6 years and had become very close to, were over at our house for the evening. We were all nudists so, as usual when we were together, we were all nude. Over the years there was a lot of flirting between Deb and me and Bill and my wife Lisa. We were all on the living room and Bill started massaging my wife Lisa on one side of the room and I started massaging Deb on the other side of the room. I think it was Deb who smiled and nodded her head for me to look over at Bill and my wife. Bill had switched from massaging my wife to having intercourse with her.

 

Immediately after that Deb and I started seriously playing with each other. Since the floor was hard, Deb and I got up and went into the bedroom where we continued playing and finished up with intercourse. After we left the bedroom, Bill and my wife went into the bedroom to continue play. Deb and I both enjoyed listening to the sounds Bill and Lisa were making and Deb told me that Bill had always wanted to have sex with my wife Lisa.

 

That occurred in 1986. We four continued to play with each other into the late 90s when Bill and Deb got divorced. Deb is still our good friend and we still have threesomes with Bill.

 

This would make a fantastic full-length story!!!

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Totally unplanned with a couple that still swears it was their first time too. We met a couple on a cruise that we did excursions with and spending time with. Three in the morning drunkenly I went to their cabin and she went to ours with my husband. Balcony, moonlight, and drinks must have had something to do with what started with kissing and continued past that. My husband said that in our cabin it started with a blowjob but also went way further. Very unplanned for us.

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My first ever experience was spontaneous when a former GF & I invited a mutual friend of ours to come over since he was alone that night.

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Happened by "accident" in that it certainly was not planned. If I recall, someone started it on a dare or something silly like that. But it sure was fun!

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Our first experience was planned. We had both had a couple of affairs and decided to seek the sexual variety we both wanted together rather than singly. We placed an ad in the personal column of the local paper - there was no internet back then - "Professional couple in their 30s seeking similar couples for close friendship." We received several replies and chose one couple to contact. We called them and arranged to meet for drinks. We were both very nervous and so were they as they were first-timers too. After some initial general talk the conversation turned to sex - what we were looking for, what we liked etc. We were attracted to them and them to us so after a little flirting we invited them to come home with us. When we got home we had another drink while we sat by our pool. The flirting got more intense as we all began to get turned on. Someone had to make a move so Brian stood up, stripped off and jumped into the pool in his birthday suit. Jo, Bob and Doreen were not far behind. In the pool Brian gravitated to Doreen and Jo to Bob. Jo and Bob were the first to get out of the water, dry themselves off and go into the house.They were both stark naked. Brian asked Doreen if she would like to go indoors and she said she would. Jo and Bob had taken the main bedroom so Brian and Doreen went into the spare room. For the next hour or so we all played culminating in intercourse with our new friends. After Bob and Doreen left Jo and Brian agreed that the evening had been a great success and that we wanted to do it again. We were hooked!

 

This would make a great full-length story!

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Happened by "accident" in that it certainly was not planned. If I recall, someone started it on a dare or something silly like that. But it sure was fun!

 

This would make a great full-length story. The stories about how ordinary people become sexually open are often the most interesting and illuminating.

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Think we have posted before that it was totally planned. We searched and found after many disappointments a younger great looking couple online. We were determined to find a couple with a bi female. By the pictures they sent we were sure they were fake, too good to be real. They were real and I got to see my wife with this young lady who to me was great. We still joke that the guy was a jerk and a bust for my wife.

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Mine was somewhat planned, but more hoped.

I had traveled for work to Denver and saw an add somewhere from a bi-couple looking for an uncut guy to play with. Without much hope I responded.

We ended up meeting at a local diner for a light dinner. He was white, she was Asian, and we had a nice talk. I was really not sure where it would lead, and eventually I decided to go to the men's room to give the couple some time to talk. I was tickled pink that they invited me to go home with them when I returned from the men's room.

I had the time of my life, having two persons play with me and eventually making love to the wife.

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Was while husband was working out of town and not planned. Our first one with another couple was sort of planned but not like we expected.

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Our first dabble was unplanned, soft swap more drunk, funny, and "I dare you"...our first full swap was very planned due to kids needing sitters, not being in same town etc... But handled in a fun way as not to feel overly planned!

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What counts as "planned?"

 

Our first swinging experience took place at a swingers club. We met a couple. They asked us if we wanted to play. We said yes. Sex happened. I'm not sure I would call that planned, in that we didn't plan ahead of time to hook up with that particular couple, but we did go to a swingers club with the idea of hooking up with someone if the opportunity arose.

 

I would call that "planned"

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I'm surprised at how many people answer "unplanned". Our "soft swap" experience was unplanned, after a costume party. I thought it was surely pretty unusual that we had something unintentionally evolve into that type of situation, but maybe it happens more commonly than I realized.

 

Maybe we are overthinking how to start swinging. :lol:

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Our first was planned, but not by us. Friends, a couple we'd known and liked for a couple of years, seduced us.

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Had to smile. With two type A personalities in a marriage of equals, we make lists of lists, plan to make plans, have contingency plans, etc. Of course, there were plans, amended plans, revised plans, plans changed due to whatever. Amazing that it happened, but it was amazing and we have not looked back.

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At the tender age of 21. On the second date with a woman. First date we had grabed some fast food and got to her room, where her roomie was giving another guy a bj in plain view of the bed we were using. Second date we did dinner, had drinks in the adjacent bar, & headed off to a "swinger" party she had helped organize. I was split between feeling like a real adult, and wondering what the hell to expect. That evening I 1. Got used to seeing 'my' girl having sex with other men; 2 Having sex with a woman I'd just met with out the usual courtship rituals; 3 saw males having sex with each other; women having sex with each other; several mfm & fmf threesomes. After two hours and two orgasms I was hooked.

 

It was certainly planned on the part of my friend. She at some point decided to include me in her circle of sex buddies and guided/seduced me through two dates to bring me in.

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Back in our early 20s my buddy and I were banging our wives on the same bed, something we had done quite a bit. We hopped up to get a drink. While in the kitchen, he suggested that when we go back, we climb on each others wife and see how they react. I was fine with that. When we went back in the bedroom, the wives had changed places on the bed. So we went for it. This wasn't planned by us but I'm pretty sure it was planed by the other couple.

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Our first full swap experience happened at a swingers club in the northeast. We were at the club on purpose but the swap occurred spontaneously. We submitted the story, Joe & Lynn, to the SB in 2009. A couple of our stories were lost when the site was updated but this one is still there.

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      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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