Feelings about differences in penis size

[LustyDesires 22]

Hello SwingersBoard,

 

This is a question for women whom have been with men 5" inches and also much bigger.

 

Penis size wise, I'm 5" inches, and size proportionate in girth..

I've had a huge fantasy about watching my wife enjoy penises bigger than mine, and she is definitely interested in trying someone whom is bigger.

 

The biggest she has had physically is a guy whom was 6", but just a little thinner in girth than myself.

And dildo wise, 7.5" inches. Unfortunately she wasn't really fond of the dildo, and felt that she may enjoy/prefer the real thing..

 

 

ANYWAYS! My question for you sexy people here at the swingersboard is;

After experiencing someone roughly 5" inches, and someone much bigger example 7" inches and or up.

What were your pro's and con's about each size, did you like one more than the other? Which brought more pleasure for you? Etc.

[Guest]

First, dildos are hard rubber, not much give there. A penis, even "hard", is still relatively soft, there is give as it slides in so comparing trying to make comparisons between a penis and dildo is just not very accurate. Also, all of we girls differ. Some of us our petit, I am only 5'2", 112 pounds, some girls are much larger, some of us have gotten use to a large dick and some haven't. Think of the rather petite wives of some of the very tall basket ball players. Finally, size is relevant, my hubby is a good 7 inches. My first husband was maybe 6 inches on a really good day. To me, there is not a great deal of difference between doing one 6 inches vs 7 inches.

 

There is also the psychology of it all. To me, seeing a thick 5-incher or going down on it orally is not as exciting as when you see a fully aroused 7-incher. But, during vaginal sex, those five inches can be quite exciting, more so then a thin 7-incher. Historically, I had always maintained that size doesn't matter and then a few years ago we had MFM with a guy that was maybe 6'5". Unaroused, his dick was about the same size as my hubby's, even semi aroused, not much difference. But as I sucked it, it was like Pinocchio's nose, it grew and grew and the size itself and the struggle to take it orally excited me immensely. When we got to vaginal sex, I was nervous about its size and cautioned him to be careful, "you're so large and I'm a small girl." After he worked it in, made a few slow, gentle slides back and forth, I found myself wrapping my legs around his thighs, hooking my feet around them and raising my hips off the ground, up to him so I would thrust hard against that huge thing. If there was pain, it came around as pure pleasure. Hubby still kids me about it, I have been glad that he didn't have any type of jealous response. I should note that this was not the first time he saw me doing it with another guy, we had had several MFMs before this.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

It's not the size of the wand but the skill of the magician

[freddymike 18]

as a sub shemale amateur regular webcam performer I would say it depends on what hole you are talking about and that I prefer low girth dildos on myself even though I work regularly to increase my girth length and cup size. I agree that I would prefer high girth for oral though, but it is the girth/length ratio that matters to me most, usually the same for all lengths................

[sunbuckus 3,567]

For me, girth makes more of a difference than length. Of course, I haven't really experienced those who were 8" or more.

[asncpl 729]

I don't think there is much difference as far as vaginal sex goes between 5 inches and 7 inches. The difference comes during anal sex, where too big just won't do. A lot depends on the size of the woman. I am pretty short and petit and I don't need a long one to be happy.

[Trophy1802 132]

If I can chime in here as the male half of the couple.......

 

Unfortunately, until we became actively involved in the LS, my wife and I did not realize that my penis was above average in both length and girth (7.5 inches and thick).

 

Previously, during sex, we used to try different positions as, she being fairly petite, used to find that in certain positions I had a tendency to "bottom out" in her and it would become uncomfortable for her. Thus, I was rarely able to go the proverbial "balls deep" with her. She enjoyed the length, but just could not take all the length all the time.

 

Since becoming active in the LS she has been able to really enjoy sex a bit more comfortably in all positions as all of the men she has played with were shorter than. As indicated, she really has no issue with the girth and rather enjoys a thick cock. Myself, I have also played with ladies that have no issue with taking my full length.

 

However, she is also along the adage that she will manage with any cock and it is not the size that matters, but how it is used.

[TricianMike 772]

I know this always comes up for discussion. Is there a difference between 5 and 7? Orally yes, vaginally marginally. Does a man with a very large one make a difference? Yes. Is it better? That's another story. A very large one can hurt if it is jabbed into your cervix. Visually, there might be a wow factor, or an uh oh factor.

[freddymike 18]

yes. I can agree with that. Ok as a cup size A transition shemale bragging about size is not pleasurable or even deserved yet for me, but before I got into this scene I had not realized that my girth being basically just about wide enough to touch all the sides round the inside of a toilet paper roll, about 6 inches, was unusual. Also an oriental woman bottomed out with me as well, if that is how you put it, when her cervix took a can get no further from me, and the anal dildo I use for some of my adult videochat shows is much lower girth than me and I still find it challenging, so I agree what you might want to give is not always what you might want to get. But maybe I am just too inexperienced still. I would still prefer high girth oral though, as I have said, and I find my present cup size A insufficient.

[FunOzCouple 40]

The big ones definitely give me more pleasure. My biggest is 9 inches and the damn thing wouldn't go all the way in. Hubby finds it interesting how I can deepthroat 9 inches but can't fit it in my pussy!

[MICoupleHP 29]

I'm about 6.5 in length on average, depending on how horny I am it can be as big as 7, and as small as just under 6. I have a decently thick head, but not as thick of a base. In my experience with the several women I have been involved with, I have been on the smaller scale of size compared to the others they have been with, if not the smallest. One example that sticks out was with my first gf in high school. We had fumbly, under-the-covers sex for over a year, as we both were virgins. We never even did any oral, so she really didn't know how big I was while we were together, or never tried to find out.

 

Fast forward 2+ years, long after we were broken up, and we had both finished a relationship after our relationship parted ways, we hooked back up for one day. This time she started right off by giving me a bj, and quickly noted how much easier my cock was to suck than her last boyfriend's was. It kind of threw me off guard, but that's when I realized I was smaller than I thought I was. I must have tried to make up for my "shortcomings" by fucking the shit out of her, and it was the first time I gave a girl an orgasm through penetration, and not just one, but three of 'em before I busted. She must have enjoyed it, because she said I was to fuck her once more before I left home that night. So that makes me think about the old "motion of the ocean" adage.

 

As for my current lover of 6 years, I'm pretty sure I'm her smallest, but she never confirmed nor denied it, and says she loves my dick and that it's perfect for her. I can make her cum with it most of the time no problem (unless I can't hold out ), but that doesn't mean she doesn't desire a big cock to play with too, as I just found out last night that she got the ball rolling for a possible upcoming MFM playdate with a VERY hung black male whom she knows well. He sent us some pics and it is much bigger than mine. Basically the same shape as me, big head tapers down to base, but probably 9 or 10 inches! I'm not sure how I'll feel stacked up against such a huge cock, but she really excited to see how he feels. We have a drinks date tonight, so who knows.