Tried it, didn't like it - from bi to straight

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Some people try swinging because it gives them the opportunity to explore their bi side, and that seems especially true with females. Having explored that though, some seem to really take to that aspect of swinging, for others it's a pleasant fringe benefit, and for others still once they've tried it they leave it behind in favor of straight play.

 

Once the initial curiosity was explored, was the dynamic of swinging, searching for compatible playmates, etc. something that increased your bisexual interest or actually decreased it?

[herpob 573]

I did things with girls in college or I should say I let things happen with girls in college. Their reason was always to motivate guys to try things with us and the other guy/s. Ever since I saw my roommate and two guys all going at it I was hooked on bi guys. I've never sought after other females but I have never been opposed to it either. If it happens it happens but I want to be with the guys and them going at it as well. It is what thrills me to let what happens, happen. I can get into doing things with/to/for another female once I get started but my motivation in the beginning are the guys. I love men! I love my man! I love sharing everything with him so whatever I can do to share an experience with him is what I am all about. I never want to be selfish though, so I am more than willing to go to great lengths to please the other people and if that involves some pie eating, cream pie eating, breast smushing, X grinding, toy play, and even kissing, I'm game!

 

So long story short, I have never been curious about females, I am neither more so or less.

 

As for bi or swinging I never really care what that means with regards to me, I simply enjoy sexual pleasure with my husband in as many forms as possible. We both enjoy cum so I figured the more the merrier. We both enjoy anal so ditto. Share and share alike is one of my mottos! It is all about sharing the experience with the one I most love!

 

So my question to you is, how do YOU feel about being a part of your mate's bi action?

[cplnuswing 4,713]

We are both straight, so all I can answer is in the hypothetical. We both like seeing the other happy and having fun, so if bi play was resulting in that, then I'm sure our feelings would be like during any other swap and we would be taking pleasure in their pleasure.

[couplers 4,718]

While it took a little courage on my part to explore my girl attraction side, I am glad that Lora, Clair, and I are all sexually intimate. It was all gain and no loss.

 

 

Hubby, Red, and Walter (while he and Lora were still married and we all played) weren't hesitant about guy-guy touching, as along as it was in furtherance of sex with a female or her pleasure, but they never did any guy-guy playing. If hubby and Red ever did? It wouldn't bother me at all, but it would surprise me.

[asncpl 730]

We do not have same sex play separately, but when it comes to same-room swinging, we are both bi and we absolutely love couples where both partners are bi. Obviously it adds to the combination of positions, but there is something really sexy for my husband and I to suck a cock together, just as an example. Watching the bi-action is just as much a turn-on for both of us.

 

So if we are given a choice between a bi couple and a straight couple, we would most likely choose the bi couple.

[freddymike 18]

it's been a big part of my journey into my shemale transition cup size A sexuality to discover quite a lot of people, well most really, are straight. Even though my vanity makes me want to project my lust and fantasies onto other people, some people are straight and that is the end to it. They don't want anything to do with me. Other bi people are my preferred company sexually, but I can and do appreciate I am never going to be wanted at straight group orgies. Don't get stressed about having discovered you are straight. Most people are. Believe me. They really are.

[herpob 573]

We do not have same sex play separately, but when it comes to same-room swinging, we are both bi and we absolutely love couples where both partners are bi. Obviously it adds to the combination of positions, but there is something really sexy for my husband and I to suck a cock together, just as an example. Watching the bi-action is just as much a turn-on for both of us.

 

So if we are given a choice between a bi couple and a straight couple, we would most likely choose the bi couple.

 

I am so with you on this. My husband is as well though he'd never say it out loud his penis always say otherwise.

[freddymike 18]

I don't really like the man/man gay thing I discovered. As a shemale now and much more broad minded and less prejudiced, would still do men if I had to, and anal of course, but other shemales and women are much more my thing...

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Fantasy is way more exciting than reality.

[cruisingcouple 31]

Before anything happens, we always make sure everyone knows the established rules we all agree to. Wife and I are both bi, and seek others who are as well. My wife goes crazy watching me perform oral on another man. Typically, the other wife reacts much the same way. But the rules are the rules, and we always stay within the established rules we set before anything happens.

[freddymike 18]

yes. If the ground rules are set wrong in the first place, or interpreted differently by different participants, there you have a recipe for disaster. Without being on film, for instance, and published, I am not sure anything would work out for me any more..............

[Glida 250]

I would say that due to the fact that many couples are looking for, and have within them bi girls, it has decreased my interest in swinging.

 

I tried it, nothing serious, but I'm definitely straight. Most of the couples we met came with an agenda of girl on girl action which doesn't do it for me. So I'm definitely less interested in swinging than I was a couple of years ago. If I saw a profile now which stated a desire for female play to get the evening going, I would scroll down. Even if the profile didn't state that but said that the girl is bi, I would probably still move on. And given that it's quite a high percentage of couples looking for that, I tend not to be so into it anymore.

 

Mr G's motto is they can come with whatever agenda they wish. That doesn't mean we have to do anything we're not into. But it's just frustrating when you meet couples, get on great, are attracted to each other and then realize that she's into me more than she is the guys...it's a turn-off for me, so I don't bother trying to meet couples so much nowadays.