Shallow vagina

[mntoklahoma 16]

When my wife and I were in the lifestyle we had the opportunity to be with two separate couples where the guy had a small penis and the girl had a shallow vagina. I didn't really understand it at the time and thought it was because she was used to his small dick and that is why I was having problems with them. I have recently read about woman with shallow vaginas and that is how some woman are and it is important for them to find guys that have small dicks so they fit them. Also it is important for woman with deeper vaginas to find a bigger guy to be with. Also an average girl to be with an average guy. My thought is it is hard enough finding a mate you get along with socially but you also have to worry about fitting sexually. More of a reason to have sex before marriage.

 

Has anyone else had a problem with a shallow vagina? Or do you have a shallow vagina? Also why would a woman that has that want to try to be with another guy that might have a bigger dick that would hurt them? Interested to see what people think.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

A man having a big dick needs not to stick it all the way in. A woman having a deep vaginal canal has no problem enjoying a short dick.

 

Well, you asked.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I think some of it has to do too with what kind of sex she likes or is in the mood for. Sometimes the deep penetration is just what the doctor ordered, and other times, it's too much. Sometimes the harder the better, other times call for slow and gentle. Positions make all the difference in the world too, certain positions limit penetration depth, while others enhance it. There's enough room for variation there that getting Part A and Part B to work together well is usually possible with a little experimentation and paying attention to what each other wants.

[J&Wu 408]

The good stuff seems to be out around the opening so a longer dick makes a convenient handle to lift up under the pubis although a cord will work if it's shorter.

[M&E 16]

I was with a girl once that was no deeper than about 3 inches. I wasn't really sure what was going on at first ( I was 17) but we worked it out and it was fine.

[mntoklahoma 16]

M&E how did you work it out? Are you small in that area so you were a good fit? Did you just not go all the way in? Did you go all the way in and she just put up with the pain of you hitting her cervix? Or was she deeper then you thought and she opened up when she got more turned on. Which from what I understand happens.

[M&E 16]

She was fully aroused, so I think that was probably her maximum depth. I'm not big, but I don't think I could get even halfway in. It took a few hits to figure that out, but I just backed off and used what was available.

We both arrived at the desired destination

[couplers 4,636]

Have you tried different positions? The "angle of attack" can be very important in this regard.

[louisvillemojo 41]

I had a hysterectomy at age 30 (I'm 31 now). There was a problem with my cuff (translation: The new 'end' of the vagina they make since they took the cervix that used to be the end) and they had to repair it by cutting it open and sewing it back together. This made my vagina shorter. My husband is a good size man (7-8 inch) and sometimes sex can be painful.

 

Normally, when a women becomes aroused the vagina lengthens as the cervix pulls back. So while not aroused a doc can easily stick his 3 inch finger in and feel the cervix, but while aroused, he would need something much longer to get to the back. (Of course, this is USUALLY, some women can be different). Well my cervix isn't there anymore, just a stitched wall that hurts when he hits it, so we have had to find somethings that help.

 

Being well lubricated and aroused is the most important. Even with a 'fixed' ending, my vagina will still expand a bit. When he first puts it in, we find it helps a lot to hold still and not move while I 'adjust' to him. I feel like a virgin again and it can be annoying stopping for a sec every time, but it helps stretch it so much it's worth it for both of us.

 

The longer we have sex the better. Meaning that the first 5 min it is tighter/more shallow, then it gets deeper and looser (hate that term but it's the truth) as we go. So while we might start in missionary to allow a more shallow penetration, after we get going for awhile we can then move into doggy without pain as I stretch out.

 

I hate that it's more shallow now. Like I used to pull him towards me wanting more and now I catch myself pushing against him so he don't hit too hard or deep. I miss the no holds bared type of sex we used to have, and I bet hubby misses it too If anyone has any other suggestions, I too would love to hear them! This has been a one of the factors in our play too because I am scared it will be a issue if we bring in another guy. Do I explain it first? How the heck can I explain all that and talk about my hysterectomy without turning him off? Do I just throw out that I have a shallow vag and leave it at that?

[longun45 115]

louisvillemojo : Something that might help. There are inflatable vibrators that inflate from an air bulb and they can be used to stretch you and warm you up. Start small and work your way up to bigger and they are soft. They can be pumped up fairly large. Use the lube to start and if you can have an orgasm during the foreplay the tissues should be warmed up enough to go at it full speed. Starting out cold is kind of like a runner starting out cold and not warming up first. Doing the warms up first should eliminate the need for warnings during doubles play. Search for inflatable dildoes.

[couplers 4,636]

Another consideration - I like it in all the way so he can stimulate my clit by bumping it or moving against it, especially when we are about to orgasm.

[Mbgdallas 203]

I had a hysterectomy at age 30 (I'm 31 now). There was a problem with my cuff (translation: The new 'end' of the vagina they make since they took the cervix that used to be the end) and they had to repair it by cutting it open and sewing it back together. This made my vagina shorter. My husband is a good size man (7-8 inch) and sometimes sex can be painful.

 

Normally, when a women becomes aroused the vagina lengthens as the cervix pulls back. So while not aroused a doc can easily stick his 3 inch finger in and feel the cervix, but while aroused, he would need something much longer to get to the back. (Of course, this is USUALLY, some women can be different). Well my cervix isn't there anymore, just a stitched wall that hurts when he hits it, so we have had to find somethings that help.

 

Being well lubricated and aroused is the most important. Even with a 'fixed' ending, my vagina will still expand a bit. When he first puts it in, we find it helps a lot to hold still and not move while I 'adjust' to him. I feel like a virgin again and it can be annoying stopping for a sec every time, but it helps stretch it so much it's worth it for both of us.

 

The longer we have sex the better. Meaning that the first 5 min it is tighter/more shallow, then it gets deeper and looser (hate that term but it's the truth) as we go. So while we might start in missionary to allow a more shallow penetration, after we get going for awhile we can then move into doggy without pain as I stretch out.

 

I hate that it's more shallow now. Like I used to pull him towards me wanting more and now I catch myself pushing against him so he don't hit too hard or deep. I miss the no holds bared type of sex we used to have, and I bet hubby misses it too If anyone has any other suggestions, I too would love to hear them! This has been a one of the factors in our play too because I am scared it will be a issue if we bring in another guy. Do I explain it first? How the heck can I explain all that and talk about my hysterectomy without turning him off? Do I just throw out that I have a shallow vag and leave it at that?

 

As a guy just tell me. I don't need to know the reason... Just what you need for pleasure. If it hurts you I don't want to do it. I certainly don't want to be ramming it in and have you yell in pain. That would be devastating to know I hurt you and a real downer.

[J&Wu 408]

I had a hysterectomy at age 30 (I'm 31 now). There was a problem with my cuff (translation: The new 'end' of the vagina they make since they took the cervix that used to be the end) and they had to repair it by cutting it open and sewing it back together. This made my vagina shorter. My husband is a good size man (7-8 inch) and sometimes sex can be painful.

 

Normally, when a women becomes aroused the vagina lengthens as the cervix pulls back. So while not aroused a doc can easily stick his 3 inch finger in and feel the cervix, but while aroused, he would need something much longer to get to the back. (Of course, this is USUALLY, some women can be different). Well my cervix isn't there anymore, just a stitched wall that hurts when he hits it, so we have had to find somethings that help.

 

Being well lubricated and aroused is the most important. Even with a 'fixed' ending, my vagina will still expand a bit. When he first puts it in, we find it helps a lot to hold still and not move while I 'adjust' to him. I feel like a virgin again and it can be annoying stopping for a sec every time, but it helps stretch it so much it's worth it for both of us.

 

The longer we have sex the better. Meaning that the first 5 min it is tighter/more shallow, then it gets deeper and looser (hate that term but it's the truth) as we go. So while we might start in missionary to allow a more shallow penetration, after we get going for awhile we can then move into doggy without pain as I stretch out.

 

I hate that it's more shallow now. Like I used to pull him towards me wanting more and now I catch myself pushing against him so he don't hit too hard or deep. I miss the no holds bared type of sex we used to have, and I bet hubby misses it too If anyone has any other suggestions, I too would love to hear them! This has been a one of the factors in our play too because I am scared it will be a issue if we bring in another guy. Do I explain it first? How the heck can I explain all that and talk about my hysterectomy without turning him off? Do I just throw out that I have a shallow vag and leave it at that?

 

As a guy I appreciate knowing what you like before we start rather than than after. Actually I like to work the tip shallow anyway until you would pull me deeper.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I was surprised one time when I seemed to be poking something inside her with the head of my penis. I don't consider myself to have porn star cock. It was just one of those things. I learned from many experiences that women come in all shapes and sizes down there just like us guys.

 

In my experiences, in general, small skinny women had the loosest vaginas and the heavier "BBW's" had the tightest vaginas. ?

 

It was only that one experience that I seemed to be "bottoming out".

[let's do it again 414]

On 3/28/2015 at 8:24 AM, mntoklahoma said:

M&E how did you work it out? Are you small in that area so you were a good fit? Did you just not go all the way in? Did you go all the way in and she just put up with the pain of you hitting her cervix? Or was she deeper then you thought and she opened up when she got more turned on. Which from what I understand happens.

I agree, my ex wife had a long cervix and I had to be careful whenever we had sex. I think it's more about the cervix than vagina.