Curious about swinging and also bi-curious

[muzz4290 15]

I am new to these boards and new to the swinging life style. I am curious about swinging and also bi-curious. Are there ways to go about exploring this and gathering information? Is there any groups that I could join? What is the best option to explore the option of ff or ffm?

[angelkin 1,326]

Welcome to the forum!! Have you joined an adult swinging ad site yet like sls or swingerzonecentral? That would be my first step

[Guest]

Next, try going to a local couples club. You don't have to play, just meet folks, talk to them, maybe observe what goes on first outside of the play room and then perhaps inside. A first trip may be just the two of you playing in the playroom together while others are doing their own thing. And don't rule out MFM as well, it may be more comfortable for the wife if she hasn't engaged in bi activity previously.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Welcome to the Swingers Board! There is a ton of great info here, so spend some time reading and you'll find much to help you on your journey. Even better, start some new threads asking your questions and I'm sure you'll get plenty of great advice.

 

The above posters are correct - setting up an online profile on SLS and visiting a club is a great way to get started and has worked for lots of people.

[MrDiscover 802]

 

There is a big difference between MFF and FF. Your profile states you are a couple, so with FF you mean dating without your partner?

[muzz4290 15]

It would most likely be FFM. Possibly FF with M watching. Like I said, we are in the beginning stages, so we are just looking into it right now.

[TricianMike 788]

I can tell you finding an F for a FF with an M watching is like finding a.... well you will find out that there is a reason they call that F a Unicorn. Do they really exist? I am laughing reading all the FFFs and Ms now. I can tell you from experience that even finding an M who will join while your husband watches is not that easy. Though a simple ad will get you plenty of M who will volunteer and send pictures to boot...lol.

If you are just starting, as those before wrote, a swingers site or a club where you can go at your own speed is probably the best way.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

It seems to me that the first step is to talk with your partner and see if he's interested (probably is, but start with him first). The easiest next step is to look for another couple and let it be known that you are looking for the women to play with each other but only the women (there are plenty of couples that would be willing to do this). Then take it from there...