Big Toy vs "Real" Big Boy

[BrewstersShade 29]

Hello! Blake here again... I looked for a thread asking something similar to my question but didn't find one. Hope I didn't miss it by accident. Anyways, I recently purchased my wife a very realistic, large dildo. It's about 9 inches in length with a 6.25 circumference. Needless to say she has been enjoying herself endlessly for the past couple of nights with the toy, much to my delight. So my question is this: How much different, in you fine folks experience, is a realistic big dildo compared to a "real" big lap rocket? My wife has never been with a very large real penis. In my mind I'm packing serious heat but you know, in reality I'm about on the higher end of average. Luckily, my wife is very sexual and can be pleased with really any size penis as she has a 5-inch dildo and a 9-incher and enjoys both. BUT... It's clear the 9-incher does a bit more intense pleasing, which makes me salivate watching her take all of it until climax. I'm sure a real penis is going to feel even better, but how much better is the experience? How much added pleasure can I expect my wife to receive with a real one?

 

Ps. I've never used a pocket pussy or fleshlight or any sex toy really on myself so I can't formulate a possible comparison based on fake pussy vs. real etc.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Hi, Blake. There a lot of variables when it comes to having sex with a man. There's the level of attraction, physical and emotional, that can come to play. Those unmeasurable qualities can play a bigger part into the equation than the size of a man's penis.

 

Second, have you heard the expression that it isn't the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean? A man can be "packing serious heat" but might not know how to use it during sex. They might not know how to maintain a rhythm or think that sticking it in is good enough. Or they might do that because their size actually hurts a lot of women so they have learned to be careful.

 

Third, dildos feel different from real penises no matter what. I find dildos to be mostly be too rigid and prefer having a man on top of me for many reasons.

 

Fourth, fantasy is different from reality. Some fantasies won't go any further because it isn't safe or logically possible or the person just wants it to stay that way. In fantasy, you can have the person look exactly how you want them to, act the way you want them to, and they won't disappoint you...for some, when they experience a fantasy for real, they sometimes wish they didn't.

 

Your wife, when she is ready, will undoubtedly have situations when she will enjoy herself and others that won't be as much. There are women who are "size queens" and seek out only well-endowed men but I think a lot more women prefer more of a well rounded "person package" where penis size is much lower on the priority list.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I do not like dildos and I can't come from them, but I can come from men all sorts of sizes fucking me. I think it's a completely different experience and really, like Sun said, depends on the man attached to the cock.

 

I also have to say that I can make myself come reliably very quickly because my own brain, hand and nerves are working together. It's very different when someone else is involved. I think that's true for most people. So, just because your wife loves they way she uses a dildo on herself doesn't mean she'd like it attached to someone else.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

I also have to say that I can make myself come reliably very quickly because my own brain, hand and nerves are working together. It's very different when someone else is involved. I think that's true for most people. So, just because your wife loves they way she uses a dildo on herself doesn't mean she'd like it attached to someone else.

 

Such a good point!

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I found a toy that is kind of a pyramid shape. I forget what it is called. It is excellent for stretching and relaxing the pussy (or ass) to the point of being able to comfortably accept something large.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I found a toy that is kind of a pyramid shape. I forget what it is called. It is excellent for stretching and relaxing the pussy (or ass) to the point of being able to comfortably accept something large.

 

It's called The Intimidator. It's about a foot long. It has a bulbous head that will open you up to 2" in diameter and then quickly go to 1 1/2". From there it tapers to a diameter of 3 3/4". That will train you to accept most average peoples fists.