More comfortable home or away?

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Do you feel more comfortable playing at home or away like in a motel room? We've had awesome experiences both ways. Does it really matter? Some people have a fetish or aversion of watching their wife/husband having sex in their "home bed".

[Guest]

Definitely more away. We have only played at home a couple of times. One was with a guy who had been a long term friend and we can of moved into swinging with us, first with a birthday blow job, then a bit more after that ice breaker. The other was a couple we got to know as regulars at the same bar and along the way, the four of us decided to play.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

We are comfortable playing either home or away games . We do like hosting couples at home, though- it's comfortable, and we know we have a good setup for either same-room or separate-room play. We appear to have no problem using the "marital bed" for play!

 

These days, we are kinda trying to host a lot of people while we still can. Our daughter is moving back after college in a few weeks, so the party here may be ending soon- at least until she gets on her feet and moves out for good! And she is going to want to sleep in the room with the nice, new king bed we just got for "entertaining"!

[angelkin 1,326]

I prefer home but have played everywhere. Home has all the gear, space, and supplies and I know where everything is

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

. . These days, we are kinda trying to host a lot of people while we still can. Our daughter is moving back after college in a few weeks, so the party here may be ending soon- at least until she gets on her feet and moves out for good! . . .

I can relate. Have fun at home while you are able.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Our comfort level is based more on the couple we're with than it is the arena.

 

If we invite a couple to play out our house, it means we're REALLY comfortable with them, and enjoy their company.

 

So, probably more comfy at home, but because of who we're with, and not where we are.

[MrDiscover 802]

Swinging at home, either our or the home of the couple we swing with, sounds so cosy and wonderful. But at both houses kids roam freely around so at the moment we choose hotels.

[afterwork 89]

ewwwww.... motel laundry practices compared to that of our own

[JandKinBoise 859]

No kids at home but my wife's 75 yr old mom lives with us. She has her side of the house, is nearly deaf and very unaware of what is going on around her. Because of that, we decided to try to play with a guy at home. We did it twice with the same guy. He and I were fine with the situation but he dropped a note afterward asking if everything was ok with J. She had been quite reserved, which was out of character for her. I told him that it's difficult for her to fully cut loose and get double teamed with the moral center of her life, right there. J hadn't said anything but it was obvious what the problem was. Next time we got a room and all was normal.

[JessicaJamison 864]

We generally play in hotel rooms, we generally get two adjoining rooms for our swaps.  We have one couple that we will play with at our own home and they are literally our best friends, have been for years.