The perfect time to take off condom for facial?

[asncpl 730]

In reading the other threads about facial, a thought popped into my head that I have been wondering for a while. When we play with condoms on, I usually give the guy a choice of cumming inside the condom, or he can take off the condom and cum on my face or in my mouth. I've experienced my share of fails when it comes to taking off the condom. Sometimes the guy didn't quite make it to my face because he couldn't take off the condom quick enough or pulled out too late, and other times the guy probably pulled out too soon because I'd need to assist with a long handjob or blowjob, which I don't mind doing at all but it kills my high from the penetration.

 

Have others had this happen? For the guys, is there a right time to pull out and take off condom for that perfectly timed facial? Is that even possible?

[Guest]

My experience is that when they are inside, between their thrusting and mine, they cum inside. I kind of like that because it gives you those intimate seconds afterwards. If it's not a group or MMF type situation, I find that getting up, bringing a warm cloth, wiping them off and then maybe sucking a bit is all very much appreciated. When it's without a condom, they have announced their cumming and asked where or chosen the boobs (the face is out) and once they cum, I'll go down and suck out the remainder.

[kikonkrome 844]

Orgasm control for men is pretty hard to do. It's something the male pornstars actively work on. Ron Jeremy's big thing is that he can cum on queue.

 

I don't think I could do it with my wife much less a playmate, although we do not really 'practise' it. Maybe if the guy was practicing it. Hopefully the other guys will reply?

[MrDiscover 802]

Most of the times, when I am 'allowing' myself to cum and ejaculate, I feel a build up of a ticklish feeling in my balls/groin. If we both wanted to have me ejaculate over her stomach or boobs (not her face), at that moment I retreated while holding the edge of the condom with one hand. After that, sometimes I could control myself even more and pulled her to me or positioned myself so I could hit her where we liked. Sometimes I couldn't and started to cover her as soon as I left her. Especially nowadays, as we only use condoms for anal sex and the transition asks a bit more gymnastics. It happens that I end up covering her back, side and a lot of bed linen

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Stopping to take off a condom isn't very erotic. IMO. It's a "cum killer":) It's always too soon or too late. If it's too soon he can always squeeze out the cum from the condom like a tube of toothpaste:)

[Guest]

Just reviewing the flow of the conversation here, no pun intended. It seems that it has become more about the cum then the cumming or the longer process of getting to remove the ladies clothes, play, foreplay, possibly be sucked, and then fucked. As in so many discussions, what is really important here, getting to cum or what you do with your cum?

[Sophy 571]

Well, pull-outs is a very common practice on our plays, usually during climax I ask the guy his preference and yes sometimes the pull-out can be a little bit premature but I don't think is because of the condom, the condom usually gets easily removed, I think is more a communication delay between brain and penis.

[EastInWest 1,524]

It's my experience that it's very difficult to judge. If I'm "too close", I'm more likely to miss the "wave" from the orgasm if I pull out at the last second than I am to finish on the spot, and will almost need to start from the beginning again.