Heing&Sheing 75 Posted June 15, 2015 The Mr.& I had fantasized about having a MFM for many years, but due to life; kids, family tragedies, and lack of a 2nd male, we had just left it as a fantasy. About 6 months ago we went through some difficulties that brought us closer and made us learn to communicate our deepest darkest thoughts with one another. We have never been closer or more in love, or had better sex! Also our youngest turned 16, has a summer job and is gone from home a lot, giving us greater freedom to rediscover one another and our sexuality. A little over a month ago we realized that a possible candidate for our Other Man was already known to us, had been a good friend for several years. How this came about was I kept one of his kids after school one day when his work schedule & his older son's football practice coincided & he needed some help out. When he came to pick her up I had on a tight t-shirt that showed much of my DDD cleavage & he couldn't stop himself from looking as we stood & chatted. I told my Mr. About our friend checking out my tits and Mr. Got really turned on, so we started talking more & more about this friend, single guy, obviously he & I had an attraction to one another, the fact that he is totally respectful & trustworthy, we know hes clean and we have common interests. After much discussion about really, actually doing this, research into swinging, discussion of our boundaries & hard rules we decided to ask him if he would consider playing with us. When all our schedules lined up & all the kids were away, we had him over to sit around the fire & have a few cold drinks. I was dressed in another tight shirt & short shorts & flirting for all I was worth & Mr told him he didn't mind, that he actually likes to watch me flirt with other men & would like to see me having sex with another man as well as have a MFM threesome. OM wasn't sure and said he needed time to think about it, as he didn't want to lose our friendship. Over the course of the next several weeks, we chatted a lot via text, about mundane things as well as the possibility of the MFM threesome. He finally told me he wanted to talk to us both together about it. This past Friday I went over to his house to sit in his hot tub and he was home and got in with me. We sat there talking, flirting & relaxing in our bathing suits until the Mr. texted me that he had a really hard day at work and his back was really hurting (a previous injury & surgery, so I asked OM if the Mr could come over after work & join us in the hot tub. OM said sure & he would grill us some burgers, we'd have a drink & that would be a good time to chat about the threesome. After some very good grilled burgers & a bit of alcohol, I got playful & pulled Mr's trunks off. Soon after, my suit came off & both men sat admiring the view, which led to fondling the view. The whole time we were all talking about boundaries & what we all wanted out of this situation. I pulled off OM's trunks and did some very heavy petting with him, this ended up with me laying back on OM's chest and Mr playing with my pussy. After they had made me cum(several times) we continued making out, first me & the Mr, then me & OM. After that it was a blur of orgasms and blow jobs and Mr fucking me while I sucked OM's hard cock. Actually OM told us later in the night that he had planned on telling us that while he was "up" for me, he wasn't sure he would be "up" in the presence of another guy. But that obviously now he knew he was ok with it but alas, nobody had any condoms! And that he had never been able to ejaculate while getting a blow job. This of course was a challenge for me who absolutely LOVES to suck cock! I wasn't able to get him off, but I sure had fun trying and he really enjoyed my enthusiasm and determination. At some point Mr pumped me full of cum and then flipped me over & ate it all out, what the water didn't get. They both had a very good time taking turns eating me & the other holding me while playing with my nipples. Several times I almost drowned them, when I had some spectacular orgasms. One of my best memories of the night was while in the hot tub and both men were talking about what a pretty pussy I have and how hot, tight & wet it is. Mr & I decided it wasn't fair that OM wasn't able to get to his own orgasm, so we decided that we could do anal(condoms are for birth control only with OM)so we removed to the bedroom for some one on one, which was really hot. Mr gave us a few minutes to get started and then quietly came in & stood by the door to listen to & watch us, which REALLY made him hard again! I & OM were in the bedroom getting started, we kissed and caressed for a few minutes and I could tell he was a lot more comfortable out of the presence of Mr. (this is a lot for a purely here-to-fore Vanilla, very straight man to get used to!)He laid down and I licked & sucked his cock again (oh how I love that!) and OM was saying to himself how wet & hot & beautiful my pussy was and he puled me on over into a 69 and I creamed on his face several more times! I asked him if he was ready to fuck my ass & we got into a face down position with my ass pulled up a bit. I do anal with Mr, but not a lot, maybe once every couple of weeks, and OM was very gentle and went as slow as I needed. I had 3 more screaming orgasms before the alcohol caught up with OM & he lost his erection. Mr entered and was hard so he proceeded to fuck my pussy until we both were screaming and cumming. Then we all 3 curled up on the king sized bed, me in the middle and went to sleep for a few hours. The next morning, I stated how sad & sorry I was that OM was never able to get his own orgasm & we discussed that since OM is on a long vacation from his job, me coming by one day this week and OM & I having some fun so he can finish off. Mr is really turned on by this idea! Mr will of course always know what is going on & approve of it before it happens, none of us would have it any other way! It will make for some really hot sex for us when he comes home from work that day! We can all see this sexy fun FWB situation lasting for a long time! -She 7 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,070 Posted June 15, 2015 Congratulations and thanks you sharing your first time with all of us! Quote Share this post Link to post
Heing&Sheing 75 Posted June 16, 2015 Update: I went to OM's home today to get in the hottub before his kids came home. I had already texted Mr. & he sent me the green light. OM was already in waiting on me. I quickly stripped & climbed in. We sat & chatted for awhile and then had a really fun sexy time. When Mr got home this evening, he was so turned on he had me 3 times in a row! Wow. This has really enhanced our already fantastic sex life! So glad we began swinging. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
oc1234 436 Posted June 16, 2015 Update: I went to OM's home today to get in the hottub before his kids came home. I had already texted Mr. & he sent me the green light. OM was already in waiting on me. I quickly stripped & climbed in. We sat & chatted for awhile and then had a really fun sexy time. When Mr got home this evening, he was so turned on he had me 3 times in a row! Wow. This has really enhanced our already fantastic sex life! So glad we began swinging. I have always found it a huge turn-on when my wife goes over to play alone with our best friend. We do a lot of threesomes with him, but the thought of him alone with my wife is even more exciting. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Heing&Sheing 75 Posted July 14, 2015 Update: we had another hot playtime with our FWB, Same scenario, soft MFM, then one on one he & I in the bedroom while hubby sat in the living room & listened to me scream (which he is fine with) but OM was again not able to finish (nerves at hubby being in next room,) we went home & hubby plowed me twice. OM went out of town for a couple of weeks & I wondered if he would even be interested in continuing playing with me/us. But once he was back he sent me several flirty texts & hubby decided that since he can watch me when we play with other couples that he preferred me to go play with FWB alone (how I love that man!). So I went over the other night & OM was much more relaxed & playful. We had a great time & set up another playtime for later this week. When I got home, hubby was hard & ready for me, said he had been hard the whole time I was gone. How hot that is! And how freaking awesome our sex was! OM will be free a evening & the whole next day, so I am considering asking them both if we can do the soft MFM in the evening (and if OM wants to try again with hubby there, maybe the more we do this the more at ease he feels?), and then me come back the next day for OM & I to play alone...I do love the attention of them both playing with me in the hot tub. -She 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
victoria'dreams 141 Posted July 14, 2015 Congratulations on your new adventure! It's possible that OM will never feels comfortable with your hubby near. A MFM, in the room or just outside is splitting your thoughts between the two men. OM feels good when with you alone, it's more intimate and bring more emotional level. MFM are more about sex and it's actually why I personally feel comfortable sharing my wife in threesomes. I wouldn't feel comfortable about her being alone with some guy because of the intimacy. I would be comfortable meeting a girl myself alone for sex for sure, but my wife would never let me do that either. But if your hubby is fine with it, then you guys (you&hubby) shall enjoy it! If you prefer threesome over meeting a guy on your own, I would advice you to search for a new guy that is into MFM. Honestly, there are very easy to find online, if you're near a big city, you'll have tons to choose from it's like shopping on Amazon (except it's all free) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,070 Posted July 14, 2015 It's hard to preform (no pun intended) knowing that her man is in the room or just outside. No pressure on him... We have to agree with Victoria and would not spend time with him alone because of the intimacy. There's plenty of fish in this sea. Maybe try fishing for a different one... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
yorktownvaguy 77 Posted February 12, 2016 great hubby and wonderful relationship! Quote Share this post Link to post
love2dp 53 Posted February 12, 2016 Sooo happy for you guys. Soon a full MFM swap sounds like it may come to be. I hope so for you all, and I hope it turns out great! My first MFM was with a 32 yr old married lady I was seeing, I was 18, we met in rehab of all places. I got out before her but went back to visit her. We messed around in my car the first time. Her and her husband were long time open marriage people. In fact they are going on 44 years of marriage this year. We are still friends, but her and I haven't had sex in over a decade. We boned for about 8 months then I met a girl and we got together so I stopped sleeping with my married friend. But our first MFM was very uncomfortable to say the least. We had fun, but she asked her hubby after we all played, if she could play with just me. He said sure and left their bedroom. Made me feel even more weird. But being 18 and having a hardon always, she quickly put me at ease by sucking my cock and letting me in her back door since she knew I really like that. She was my first FMF too with her and her girlfriend. This woman was a virgin when she got married. Throughout there marriage she has had literally countless lovers. Her hubby knows about a lot of them, but many not too. She still wants to bone me but I'm not into her. She is a huge woman. To look at how huge she is you would thing no way guys would want to have sex with her. Wrong. Lots of guys have had sex with her, Lots. She has told me more then once I have always been her favorite though. She even bought me a coffee mug for Christmas once that said, "I'd walk a million miles for one of your smiles, and even farther for that thing you do with your tongue." It had a snowman on it. Years later a jealous girlfriend broke it lol. Quote Share this post Link to post