victoria'dreams 141 Posted June 26, 2015 My wife and I love threesomes and we plan to experience gangbangs. We love the energy of one person in the center surrounded by the other sex. Following a conversation that started here at Gangbangs: Swinging or not?, we would be curious to know: a) How many people on Swingers Board are into that too (often more than couple meeting couple)? b) Would a sub-forum focusing on that be a great thing on SB for the people here but also to bring people from the outside? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Lionheart72 2,191 Posted June 26, 2015 To be perfectly honest, I prefer MMF threesomes or gangbangs to the typical couple swap. When I'm with my wife, I'm more interested in her than I am interested in being with another woman. So watching and/or joining her with a bunch of other guys is just more appealing to me. On the subject of a dedicated subforum, I honestly find myself wondering: what conversations would fit there that don't fit under the other subforums? Not that I'm against the idea but I if we're discussing the need, let's clarify what specifically the need is. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
MrDiscover 802 Posted June 26, 2015 A subform is not needed IMHO, discussions about gangbangs (and other specific themes that don't have their own forum) fit here well. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted June 27, 2015 I can’t say that we prefer mfm over couples swaps but certainly end up in more of them because they seem to just occur at vanilla places such as a hotel bar or a resort. Couples activity, all but one has been at a couples club. Quote Share this post Link to post
M1F2KTJ 473 Posted June 27, 2015 I experienced my wife having sex with two other men in front of me. I trusted him enough, over time, to let her go to his place without me. I found out that he was sharing her with his friends. I was angry when I found out. It was just supposed to be her and him but I was also turned on by the idea of her having sex with his friends. He could only find one of his friends that had fucked her that was willing to do it in front of me. Quote Share this post Link to post
victoria'dreams 141 Posted June 29, 2015 what conversations would fit there that don't fit under the other subforums? Not that I'm against the idea but I if we're discussing the need, let's clarify what specifically the need is. Same conversations, easier access, more interested people in Quote Share this post Link to post
eoghan 17 Posted July 10, 2015 Hi... my wife and I are only interested in mmf. Both straight by the way. I love to see her pleasured. Love to see her facial expressions when another guy is fucking her or making love to her. We would love a forum dedicated to mmf, mmmf... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
victoria'dreams 141 Posted July 11, 2015 There are a lot of couples that start meeting couples after giving up finding a girl for a threesome. For swingers online dating for instance you see often that couple without experience stating "we ONLY look for a girl so couples and single guys do not contact us!". You see the same profile a year later, still didn't find anyone even if the couple is sweet and hot. Single girls are very rare vs single guys are in huge amount online. Seriously, we get about 50 messages by day if you write on our profile that we welcome single guys. Almost no single girl contact you because she gets 500 messages a day It will take you a very long to time to find one girl online and finding a guy will take you an hour (including 45 minutes building a profile!). If on top of that you're looking for the RIGHT person to meet? Just forget the girl your chance remains in your close friends or hopes of picking up a vanilla girl in a dance club. Couple meeting couple is the most egalitarian way to have sex with other people. Most guys because of the image it gives and jealousy will not share their girlfriend with another guy in a threesome. Some male of the couple start as "Sadly I might have to share my wife but the good part is I'll get to fuck the wife of the other". I'm not saying everyone. But I've seen that a lot. Still, my wife and I love threesomes because of the special energy it gives. There are also more possibilities of having threesomes with Vanillas, unpredicted event, then to meet a couple randomly in your holidays for example. Same with small gangbangs that you could actually make of single guys that never did anything like that before. From all single girls we had sex with none of them were found online and all of them were vanillas. Quote Share this post Link to post
Nightclubber 11 Posted July 14, 2015 I have threesone with japanese girls and I really enjoy it never thought it would happen either very happy man at the moment Quote Share this post Link to post
NakedInSeattle 159 Posted July 24, 2015 I'm much like Lionheart72. When we were into "traditional" swinging (couple swap or couple's party), I found myself distracted by the other woman/women from my main interest, that of seeing and hearing my wife having fun. I truly get off on the sight and sound of her in the throes of ecstasy! So now on the rare occasion when we play, it's with another guy. There is one couple we have enjoyed, however, but it's because they are both bisexual and that adds a whole different dimension to an evening, doesn't it? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
beardedone 50 Posted July 24, 2015 I think my most fun is with 3-somes, whether mmf or ffm. Selfishly, being a guy I like ffm the best. 3-somes are still somewhat intimate while at the same time, being a bit exhibitionist, plus the huge turnon of getting/giving sex while watching someone else having sex at the same time. It may be strange, but my ideal is cumming inside two or more women with the same orgasm. That is, of course, after I've already made sure they have had theirs. It's against most people's rules, but there seems to be more of an emotional content when two guys share the same woman at the same time, and then it is extremely sexy for the guys to swap positions (if she allows that.) Also, during foreplay, to have fingers from both hands inside two different women is an extreme turnon, whether or not they are touching me at the moment. So, yeah, anytime a couple want a 3-some with me in it, I'm raring to go! Just as long as I'm not expected to play with the guy, because I absolutely will not. Quote Share this post Link to post
jennings 17 Posted July 24, 2015 I'm much like Lionheart72. When we were into "traditional" swinging (couple swap or couple's party), I found myself distracted by the other woman/women from my main interest, that of seeing and hearing my wife having fun. I truly get off on the sight and sound of her in the throes of ecstasy! So now on the rare occasion when we play, it's with another guy. There is one couple we have enjoyed, however, but it's because they are both bisexual and that adds a whole different dimension to an evening, doesn't it? We enjoy the MFM more than the Couple also. I love to see My Wife being pleasured by another Man. I join in when ever I can add more pleasure to the playing. She loves the feelings that 2 mouths,4 hands and 2 stiff cocks give Her. I have never experienced any jealousy during this just satisfaction that She is enjoying Us. Usually She is still living the moments days later. Quote Share this post Link to post
spaggyau2001 15 Posted July 24, 2015 I have first ventured (1995)into swinging with a wonderful couple that have become dear friends over the years and as a single guy they have introduced to several of their single lady friends that I've then taken to other parties, now, my friend's wife does infact enjoy time where its an arranged gangbang and I call it a form of swinging, her husban d and I enjoy the energy where several guys filling her, satisfying her and she gets off on the supply of hard guys taking their turn...a win win for her a win win for the guys...it may not be everybody's thing and it takes a certain type of outlook for a guy to find that creampie a turn on and a subforum may well be a great idea. Quote Share this post Link to post
rogergo4 17 Posted July 26, 2015 Lionheart72 said: To be perfectly honest, I prefer MMF threesomes or gangbangs to the typical couple swap. When I'm with my wife, I'm more interested in her than I am interested in being with another woman. So watching and/or joining her with a bunch of other guys is just more appealing to me. I agree with this writer, we like MFM much better. Have had women made at me for watching my wife to much. When she's have a good time, I am also. What makes her happy, makes me happy. I think I feel like I have something to do with making her have a good time. Quote Share this post Link to post
JDApopka 54 Posted August 15, 2015 My wife and I have only done mfm 3 somes I have suggested couple swap before but we just have had the right situation present its self and not sure if it would give the the same thrill that I get watching her with another man Quote Share this post Link to post
GuyInMD79 1,500 Posted August 15, 2015 We enjoy all kinds of different arrangements of M's and F's! Our primary thing is swapping with couples, but we have had a few hot times at clubs and house parties with extra people in the mix. The Mrs. had a fun time at the last house party we attended, with one guy fucking her in missionary position, her head back sucking the cock of a guy over her head, a cock in each hand, and a woman fondling and sucking each breast! She enjoyed being the center of attention for a few minutes, and we all enjoyed her muffled, mouth-full moans of pleasure! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
victoria'dreams 141 Posted September 8, 2015 We're back from vacations! Such interesting posts since we left We've been talking a lot and tried lately to meet the right couple. We had no chance yet it seems hard to find four people to match... we'll keep searching. Maybe if we had one good experience with a couple it will change our views? Who knows... So far... We had so much fun doing threesomes! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
JandKinBoise 859 Posted September 8, 2015 Welcome back, hope you had a great time. I wanted to drop a quick note here concerning fmf 3somes. On the surface they seem perfect, being surrounded by all your favorite things. In reality though, if you are an energetic lover, if you like to see your women pleased to the point of exhaustion, beware. My last fmf was so draining I was unable to get out of the chair the next day. I won't go into that again. BUT...if you can lay back and enjoy and let them do the work, they would probably be really fun. Quote Share this post Link to post
love2dp 53 Posted September 10, 2015 Lionheart72 said: To be perfectly honest, I prefer MMF threesomes or gangbangs to the typical couple swap. When I'm with my wife, I'm more interested in her than I am interested in being with another woman. So watching and/or joining her with a bunch of other guys is just more appealing to me. My screen name speaks for itself. I am now single since October of last year. Now looking for a swinger girl I can share her with other men. NOT EASY to find such a lady. JEEZ! Whats a guy got to do to find a gal he can let other fuck?!?! lol! Seriously though the turn on of a MFM or GB is over the top hot for me. I'd love a woman I could share a threeway relationship with. He and I just buds who please her every wish sexually. That way if one of needs night off she still gets hers. But we join together as nearly daily as possible in DP and whatever fun things we can figure out to have fun doing. That's all I want. Why is that too much to ask for? Quote Share this post Link to post
Nightclubber 11 Posted September 11, 2015 I enjoy threesomes I have been in a relationship with a japanese woman who is bisexual and she lets me enjoy her best friend I also enjoy the moments before the threesome usually we start at nightclubs and dance and make out before finishing it off I'm on a cloud 9 and I never believed I would be able to have two woman at once on multiple occasions the feeling of other men watching me squeeze there asses in the club gets me hot to I hope to continue doing more of them Quote Share this post Link to post
2quirky806 52 Posted October 31, 2018 We have done a threesome and it was lack luster for sure but we have talked about doing it agin. For me I love the idea of dp dvp and gangbnags. They are on my sexual bucket list. I get off on the idea of my wife being dp dvp and creampied gangbangs. The cream pie is more on the taboo side for us because of the risk but it’s fun in the fantasy world and if we knew for sure everyone was clean the maybe. But having my wife as the center is hot. She want to try some of that she’s on board for the dp maybe the dvp. Gangbang. Sometimes. But not on the top of her list. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted November 1, 2018 When the topic of swinging first came up, hubby and I discussed various aspects of it and decided that I was only comfortable in trying MFM. We happened into our first and I loved it, and actually got us into our 2nd a couple of weeks later. After several, my confidence was up and my inhibitions down so we tried swaps but kept ukp with MFM and added other stuff as well. But still, MFM and MMFM are my favorites. MMFM is a bit harder to make happen, hubby and I can sit a most any nice bar and if a guy starts chatting with us, I seem to be able to move it more to flirt and, if I’m interested seduction and an MFM. I enjoy the male attention, hubby and another guy flirting with me at the bar all evening, and then again in the bedroom, and it’s something we are really doing as a couple and that is no quite so true with swaps or parties. The entire trip has been exciting. Not sure why, as wives, we resist the idea of this sort of thing. Quote Share this post Link to post
1st3way4fun 42 Posted November 1, 2018 Mfm is my only attraction. I honestly don't think I could do full swap, because I would be too distracted the entire time. That wouldn't be fair to the other lady. My wife is the absolute center of my attention. I absolutely love to pleasure my wife. Watching her body move, hearing her breathing quicken...slow...quicken again. Her little gasps...moans...drive me absolutely wild. Being able to double that pleasure for her is beyond any description I could write. Quote Share this post Link to post