What the biggest age difference that you played with?

[Pklon 62]

For people that are willing to share if that's OK, what the biggest age gap that you have played with? When I got started in the lifestyle I was 18, and I asked my parents for advice. I asked them if I could play with their friends. Most of them were 25+ years older them me. The oldest was 30 years older then me. They were fine with it. So their friends and I played.

[Pklon 62]

Anyone ???

[MrDiscover 802]

They are both 3 years older (looking 6 years younger). Does that count?

[Lionheart72 2,190]

I honestly have no idea. I generally haven't bothered to ask anyone's age and TV and movies have killed my ability to recognize age based on appearance... too many 30-year-olds playing high school kids, to many over-60 action heroes.

[N&G 207]

I (male half) have never tried to keep track but I know that I have played at hotel parties with ladies in their mid to late 20's. Since I was 60+ at the time I guess that the spread has to be at least 30 years. I can't speak for my female half but I know that she's been with few young guys. I miss those days

[living_free 44]

I am 44 and have played with a 60 year old and 25....love it all!

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

I've always tried to stay close to my age in dating and playing. Ms. is 4 years and 8 months younger than I am. When we were looking for each other (met on line at a dating site) I had my limit set for 5 years on either side of my age. She just scraped in. Same goes for the other couples that we have met. Usually within 5 years of us. Wish we had something more interesting to tell.

[Pklon 62]

I've always tried to stay close to my age in dating and playing. Ms. is 4yrs 8mo younger than I am...when we were looking for each other (met on line at a dating site) I had my limit set for 5 yrs on either side of my age...she just scraped in. Same goes for the other couples that we have met. Usually within 5 years of us. Wish we had something more interesting to tell...

 

Have either of you ever gotten the chance with a younger person by them hitting on you or saying that there interested in older people ?

[PandO 103]

We've only played with one couple, but the gentleman was 17 years my senior. I tend to enjoy older men. Not old men mind you, just older. "Old" is subjective, of course.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I generally haven't bothered to ask anyone's age . . .

What he says.

[Guest]

28 years younger and 20 years older.

[Brad145 58]

I don't normally ask ages either, but from looking at peoples profiles after the fact, 25 years younger and 20 years older.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Men don't get 'old', they 'mature'

[oc1234 435]

For us it was the first time we did anything approaching swinging. We were friends with another married couple. It was many years ago and they were about 20 and my wife and I were about 40. We were all nudists and were very close friends. We all took a weekend camping trip in our very small camper with a very small bed below and two canvas cots above.

 

We ended up having same-bed sex with our friends in that very small bed. That whole weekend we were all fairly high and there was a lot of flirting. At one point my wife was attempting to seduce the other guy.

 

Since I knew my wife was very high and he might turn her down and embarrass her, I stopped her. I still have mixed feelings about it. While it would have been great to have had sex with them, the chance of my wife being rejected and embarrassed were too high.

 

On the bright side, that experience probably was the reason we started swinging a year later. The couple who took care of our kids when we were on the camping trip were also good nudist friends of all of us. After kidding us about the camping trip and imagining we had done more than we actually had, they seduced us.

[econobiker 165]

In 2010, me age 42, her age 63 so 21 years difference is my personal upper range. Unknown as far as lower range - maybe 8-10 years younger women than me.

 

I know one guy who showed at a party in his 70's (who had been at Plato's Retreat NYC in the late 1970s) who still played with 30-40 year old women so at least 30 year difference for him

[HeatherBrowne 16]

It's more about openness and making a connection than age. I am a very senior citizen and enjoy all ages. Previous long relationship was 32 years younger and she cried when I ended it (for a woman my age, someone I could talk to as an adult); I was her "captain", guide, lover, and at times a father figure.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

The greatest age difference is thirty years. It happened simply in-the-moment. It was special for both of us but not for the reason of the age differential.

[beardedone 50]

17 years younger and almost 35 years older.

[jennings 17]

My wife had her first swinging experience with a male that was 30+ years Younger and it was her first strange cock in thirty years of marriage. That started Our swinging and the oldest she has had so far is 20 years her senior. My oldest was when I was 18 and the lady was in Her 60s. It was great at that time.

[Hankandlizzie 15]

I (Hank) have played with a female about 12 years younger, rest are close to my age. Same story with Liz.

[NorCalRnS 21]

We have played with a couple who was maybe 10 years older and as young as almost 30 years younger. At first we decided not to get with anyone close to our daughter's age, but we have met very mature people that age and decided we wouldn't focus on age so much as the people themselves. That being said, we tend to gravitate towards those about 10-15 years younger.

[limitless78 21]

I first got into the lifestyle with an ex gf in our early 20s and we were the young ones often hooking up with couples in their 40s and she would play with even older guys. When we broke up I enjoyed being the boytoy for some women who had to be 50 and older. A gentleman doesn't ask.

 

Since then, they youngest I've been with is a couple where the wife was 19 when I was 33

[yourluvrman 28]

Thirty year gap for me. We still play on occasion, and she's still a hot senior porn star :-)

[Ebonylehigh 254]

One of my current favs is 20 yrs older. The biggest difference is 24 years. The other end was 8 years younger.

[Baconheads 432]

We were with a couple at the swingers hotel in Denver about a year ago. The girl was about my daughters age, almost 30 years my junior. That in itself wasn't a problem, but that they would sneak off to do some blow whenever the action got heavy was a distraction to say the least.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Why do drugs when there is all this bacon?

[willyoats 324]

My favorite swing partner, whom I met more than 20 years ago, is 15 years younger than I am. I think my wife's youngest partner was about 20 year younger than she is.

[willyoats 324]

When I posted above, I forgot the 20-something guy who chased my 50-something wife at our club. He said that he just liked older women. He was a pleasant, polite and seemingly well adjusted young men. I do not remember if his pursuit was successful, and I am not going to interrupt my wife's TV program to ask.

[Hankandlizzie 15]

As far as older, no idea. Five years? Younger, 11 years my junior. It was amazing.

[FunOzCouple 40]

When i was in my early 20s i met an amazing guy in his 50s through swinging and from that point i had a thing for older men. Fast forward 25 odd years (i'm now 47) and i'm the opposite! Most guys i play with now are between 22 and 30.

[limitless78 21]

As a single guy in the lifestyle well into his 30s I'm envious of the guys who get to meet you Oz. I remember the days of being a boy toy. Oh how I miss them

[Tahoecple 319]

Before my dear old granddad departed this wicked old world, he told me there were three things you never ask folks.

 

1. How much money do you make?

2. How old are you?

3. When are you due, hon?

[Jackie 15]

I just turned 16 but told him I was 18, being 28 I knew he wouldn't make love to me if I told him my real age.

[FunOzCouple 40]

As a single guy in the lifestyle well into his 30s I'm envious of the guys who get to meet you Oz. I remember the days of being a boy toy. Oh how I miss them

 

Single guys in their 20s can be bounds of fun! Seeing a 22yo at the moment who knows exactly how to push my buttons. I just love their carefree and cocky nature (pardon the pun!) Hubby always jokes how he counts down the time it takes for him to come through the front door until i'm on me knees ... i struggle to get to 20 seconds!

Nothing quite like having hours of meaningless sex with a hot young man who knows how to deliver ... never had any complaints from younger guys watching the friday night football on tv on our couch and receiving fellatio at the same time nothing like giving them a winning feeling even when their team loses!

[Psyrex 56]

That is so hot!

My wife once playfully asked me if I'd like to have a football watching party where she is the halftime show for however many men are there. Nice fantasy for us but glad you act on it.

[Guest sandraandalex]

Sandra here. We were at a house party, when I was 23, and I ended up starting a conversation with a 50 something year old. Believe me, I was not thinking of having sex with him. The conversation was actually about science, of all things. But he was fit and the more we chatted the more the idea of sex with him sounded like a great idea. He was pleasantly surprised when I suggested we Play. He has amazingly fun and I came really hard. Alex was really surprised to see me with him and said,"At first I was a bit shocked, looking over and realizing it was you. , but I could tell you were having a blast." And, I was. About eighteen months later I ran into him at a bookstore. I texted Alex and asked if he was up for a threesome. He replied that we should just ago with the moment , get a hotel room and fuck. Isn't he a sweetie ! It was even better sex than the house party. I never regretted that experience and it stands as one of my favorite memories.

[Baconheads 432]

Sandra here. We were at a house party, when I was 23, and I ended up starting a conversation with a 50 something year old. Believe me, I was not thinking of having sex with him. The conversation was actually about science, of all things. But he was fit and the more we chatted the more the idea of sex with him sounded like a great idea. He was pleasantly surprised when I suggested we Play. He has amazingly fun and I came really hard. Alex was really surprised to see me with him and said,"At first I was a bit shocked, looking over and realizing it was you. , but I could tell you were having a blast." And, I was. About eighteen months later I ran into him at a bookstore. I texted Alex and asked if he was up for a threesome. He replied that we should just ago with the moment , get a hotel room and fuck. Isn't he a sweetie ! It was even better sex than the house party. I never regretted that experience and it stands as one of my favorite memories.

 

Once you do it with a 55 year old man, you never go back!

[Guest sandraandalex]

Oh, trust me, I went back plenty

[FunOzCouple 40]

That is so hot!

My wife once playfully asked me if I'd like to have a football watching party where she is the halftime show for however many men are there. Nice fantasy for us but glad you act on it.

 

Wow. Sorry i meant guy not guys! I only give the 22yo bj's while he watches the football ( i get a serving of "dessert" or two as well hehe). Hubby joins in when he's in the mood but football isn't really his thing lol It's good in the way that he just lets us do our thing.

[FunOzCouple 40]

Once you do it with a 55 year old man, you never go back!

 

Sounds like me in my early 20s! Lost count of how many guy in their 50s i brought a big smile to lol

[Baconheads 432]

Sounds like me in my early 20s! Lost count of how many guy in their 50s i brought a big smile to lol

 

Bless you! I'll have to keep a close eye out for those 20-somethings these days!

[FunOzCouple 40]

Bless you! I'll have to keep a close eye out for those 20-somethings these days!

 

At the age of 47 I've developed quite a keen eye for the strappingly handsome young ones! Think of me as a "head-hunter" of sorts lol

[JessicaJamison 861]

I'm in my 30s, none of your business how far but I gave an 18 year old a nice birthday present, he was sweet and ain need of an ego boost, also made a 55yr olds year.