By
corkwan
It must be said, most porn is male dominated... where the main point is the guy unloading on a woman's face, the woman's pleasure secondary. I've been on a long and hard (har har) search for porn which has a bit more depth to it. It is said that men are more visual and women are more imaginative (that is, guys like pictures, women like words), but I wonder how much of this is truly due to the quality (or focus) of the films. There seems such a big selection, but most of it is like a bollywood movie (there are 5 original films, remade to death, or so I'm told) with the same flaws as other films.
Here I'd like to post some of the films we've really enjoyed together. I'm hoping that either this will help someone else find something sexy, or you've seen these and would like to recommend some of your own favorites.
The crucial points are:
1) the woman is enjoying herself - seriously, how can people get off with actors who look like they're bored.
2) the actors are good looking, not plastic. sexy people, but not surgically altered.
3) the sex is hot, and both people look like they're into it... ideally, the woman comes at least once during the sex.
4) a good fantasy/plot, sure we don't want lots of bad-acting character building, but a bit more than a film crew, actors and a matress.
5) film making. bad editing, bad lighting, and bad music make a bad film. lots of the porno industry seems to think that a camera and fucking make a film. perhaps they do, but not a good film.
i know that goodvibrations have a femme friendly porno section, and indeed, their choices are good. likewise, so does blowfish. Here are the links, including an article by violet blue, editor for goodvibes and allround right on sex editor/writer:
Pornography for Couples by Violet Blue - Violet Blue ® | Open Source Sex
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So, in my search, I've found that the french tend to have much better quality films than north america. So, all listings are french. perhaps it helps that you can't understand most of the dialogue, but the sex is hot, and it seems to fulfill most of the above criteria.
le plaisir à 20 ans (blue one) - a couple imagine numerous fantasies. the film has enough plot to tie it together, but the sex scenes are imaginative and very hot. I think my favourite is the sex by the fridge scene, first the couple get covered in food, then you get really intense sex. the guy stops midsex, and rubs the woman until she squirts, before continuing. The rest of the scenes are also done well, great camera work, imaginative sets.
les cles du plaisir (michel ricaud) - a woman has a chastity belt, so she calls a locksmith who has les cles du plaisir (the keys of pleasure). This film is a classic, but very well shot, hot sex, and nice looking actors.
la femme objet (alpha) - another classic. a man treats women like objects, and then designs a robot woman to have sex with. Great sex, but ultimately it is about the man's pleasure. that is, until the robot gets revenge. very well shot, and nice to look at bar the hideous furniture of the early 80s.
salvatore giuliano le dernier sicilien (joe d'amato) - two outlaws on the run, find comfort with a selection of beautiful women. The sex is really hot, well shot, and the actors are beautiful. There are several MMF scenes which are very well done.
les jambes en l'air (new sensations) - 'legs in the air' is a film about sex on an airplane. it has great models, and hot sex. Not much plot to it although it sticks to the theme, but it is very well shot and the actors are good looking and look like they are having fun.
L'Indécente aux enfers (french) - a woman is oversexed, so she goes to see a psychiatrist. There she tells the psychiatrist about her fantasies (cuts to very nicely done scenes) which range through out history. there is picnic sex, napoleon-era soldiers (MMF), 1940s wartime in a taxi (voyeur), 1950s gangsters. As well, the oversexed woman has some great scenes in between her visits to the psychiatrist, including meeting a stranger in a park, doing the mechanic, and the scene which sets the film up, her wedding night (where she goes from 'oh no', to 'oui oui!' and begins her sex obsession).
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DISCLAIMER: I know porn is a matter of personal taste. maybe this won't rock your boat. However,Ii feel like I am not alone in that 99% of the films I have seen are not that great, but every now and then, one really shines. I'd be grateful if you can post which films did it for you. in particular, films that women found exciting.
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