Glida 250 Posted July 16, 2015 Hello good people, I've seen this questions asked before I'm sure but here goes... After a date with a cute couple I'm left a little confused. Let my start off by saying that I think I'm straight and I tell people that I'm straight, and in our online profile it's written that we are straight. So we had a rather sexy evening with a nice couple, cute and fun. Now the male side of the couple was a little bit like a rabbit caught in the headlights and very very shall we say 'not in his comfort zone'. I got the feeling that he didn't really want to be there which was kind of a turn-off for me and I found myself more interested in what MR G was doing with her....I think I have a breast fetish too. I could not stop touching them and every time Mr G played with her, it turned me on. I wanted to hear the sounds she made and touch her as he played with her. There was also a moment when she was kissing me and he was going down on me and it was mind blowing! I've kissed woman in the past, I look at breasts all the time, just never been that turned on by one before. I have started fantasizing about them too, usually my fantasies were all about men, now women seem to be coming up...what does that mean? Has this happened to anyone else? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted July 16, 2015 Ms. Gold has stated that she was straight, but willing to play with women (especially since she knows that the guys love it). Then she finally admitted that she was bi-curious' and also loved looking at the female form, especially breasts. Now she really enjoys kissing, touching, fondling, and playing with other women but she is not bi-sexual (her words not mine). I can't blame her as I feel the same way (about women). There's nothing wrong with any of this other than the stigma associated with it by society. If it is something you like, then do it...if not then avoid it. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks other than your husband (and I'm sure he doesn't mind you doing it). Don't analyze things so much (that's my job...I joke that I put the anal in analyze as I over-analyze EVERYTHING). Just have fun and enjoy the things you enjoy. Quote Share this post Link to post
JandKinBoise 858 Posted July 17, 2015 Sometimes 'straight' just means there has been little exposure to non straight stuff, you sound like you are on the border of bi-curious. Sexual desires can be very fluid. You may find yourself obsessing over breasts one week and not thinking about them at all the next. There is a rule we have when having sex. If it feels good do it. Best to not over think. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Glida 250 Posted July 19, 2015 Thank you for replies and you are quite right, I shouldn't over analyze it too much. I have tended to just assume that I'm straight as I'm naturally drawn towards men but after this date and after another date we had on Friday night I'm left with new experiences. The couple we met on Friday night asked me, Am I BI...And I answered honestly that "I don't know" they asked what that means and I said I like to look, I like to fondle, touch, kiss but that's as far as I've got. The female of the other couple said she is bi...so at one point during the night I fond myself more into her than into her husband. Me and she were making out and touching each other while the husbands enjoyed the viewing. At the time this was going on I just wanted her to do whatever she liked to me, I'm submissive anyway but have never been that way with women until now. It was a very soft sexy evening and I think because Me and MrG were taking our own sweet time exploring and enjoying all the fruit that the husband got a bit pissed and they left his loss). Myself and Mr G didn't care though we were left like horny teenagers which works for us Quote Share this post Link to post
kikonkrome 844 Posted July 19, 2015 I think sexuality can change as we go through life, hopefully for the better. We definitely go through periods where we are kinkier than others. I also think the same thing happens with homosexuality. There are definitely times I look at a man and think it's really hot, and others I'm like, meh. Same is true for different women. Just because 'mainstream' says we should stick to the opposite sex or one sex doesn't mean it is the reality for people. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Softplay 15 Posted August 30, 2015 Hello good people, I've seen this questions asked before I'm sure but here goes... After a date with a cute couple I'm left a little confused. Let my start off by saying that I think I'm straight and I tell people that I'm straight, and in our online profile it's written that we are straight. So we had a rather sexy evening with a nice couple, cute and fun. Now the male side of the couple was a little bit like a rabbit caught in the headlights and very very shall we say 'not in his comfort zone'. I got the feeling that he didn't really want to be there which was kind of a turn-off for me and I found myself more interested in what MR G was doing with her....I think I have a breast fetish too. I could not stop touching them and every time Mr G played with her, it turned me on. I wanted to hear the sounds she made and touch her as he played with her There was also a moment when she was kissing me and he was going down on me and it was mind blowing! I've kissed woman in the past, I look at breasts all the time, just never been that turned on by one before. I have started fantasizing about them too, usually my fantasies were all about men, now women seem to be coming up...what does that mean? Has this happened to anyone else? Hi, I'm new here, this is my first post. Yes I have similar feelings and experience except I've mostly figured mine out. Like you, I have a breast fetish. I wasn't into my boobs or other women but I've already appreciated the human form. I finally agreed to let a woman play with my boobs. I'd had woman (lesbians) approach me in the past and I always declined. This woman however, just wanted to play with my breasts and I said ok. Our encounter wasn't just about her wanting to suck on my breasts, she really did play with them, she was in love with my nipples and spent a lot of time toying with them. I enjoyed her breasts as well and since, I've been hooked. I must say however, I didn't derives the same pleasure playing with her or other women as I do with a man. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted August 31, 2015 Congratulations to Softplay on her first post. Ms. Gold is on your same wavelength and I think you knocked this ball out of the park. Quote Share this post Link to post
Softplay 15 Posted September 1, 2015 Congratulations to Softplay on her first post. Ms. Gold is on your same wavelength and I think you knocked this ball out of the park. Thank you for the welcome. I'm pretty in tune with my feelings and it sounds as if Ms. Gold is as well. As a solo female who is approached, most of the time I felt like some people had a formula and wanted me convince me of how I should feel or what I should try. I would rather be true to my feelings and desires than go along with what the crowd appears to be doing. However, I only seek out those who have similar interest. Quote Share this post Link to post
GMOFLEISURE 221 Posted November 3, 2015 At this point it might be useful to google up the Kinsey scale & consider how there are no clear 'lines' on it, just a mix of preferences or activities. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,638 Posted November 3, 2015 Hi, this is Petra. From my earliest sexual awakening until my mid-twenties I was 100% straight. Nothing about women turned me on, I only considered them rivals and looked upon them with jealousy (I have a lot to be jealous of). That changed with the right woman, Clair, and now I consider myself partially lesbian. Perhaps that makes me "bi-sexual" or "bi-curious," but I think those words evades the truth of it - that I can now be strongly attracted to a women. I agree that it is counterproductive to focus on labels, just go with what feels right... Also, BTW, I realized from a very early age that I am genuinely a bipedal, and don't plan on changing... 4 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,024 Posted November 3, 2015 . . .I am genuinely a bipedal, and don't plan on changing. . .I'm lovin' it. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted November 4, 2015 We TIRED to be monopedal but it just didn't work for us either 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,638 Posted November 4, 2015 We TIRED to be monopedal but it just didn't work for us either I can be quadrupedal for a short time while doing having sex doggie style, but don't actually pedal much during it, just sort of rock back and forth. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
