Shattered interests

[sweetcandystick4u69 16]

My swinger's interests have been shattered since I moved back to the UK 19 years ago. I do not know what I am doing wrong, but that is life for single men when it comes to swinging I think. Have fun all.

[angelkin 1,326]

unwantedswinger, are you saying that your wife isn't interested in swing, therefore, you are giving up on it?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

I am not understanding what you are wanting to say to us. If you are no longer interested in swinging, why would you want to invest time to worry about swing.

[sweetcandystick4u69 16]

I am a single male never been married or had a girlfriend but I was involved in swinging for a number of years abroad via a swingers club where I worked. I returned to the UK 19 years ago and in the last 7 years I was hoping to rekindle my swinger experience in uk but it been shatter lately, Because I try a few site and had no joy from them it seem harder for single men to enjoy the lifestyle of swinging in the UK than abroad….

[angelkin 1,326]

I'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time breaking into the swing scene in the UK. Have you visited clubs or tried methods other than websites?

 

I think it's much harder for single men to swing successfully as there are so many men in it just for casual sex and not truly interested in swinging as a lifestyle...seeing it only as a means to getting laid. It takes a special sort of fellow to truly understand what couples are looking for in a third or a FWB hotwife situation. That's the sort of guy I looked for when I was seeking single men for fun.

 

Why do you think things have changed?

[sweetcandystick4u69 16]

I'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time breaking into the swing scene in the UK. Have you visited clubs or tried methods other than websites?

 

I think it's much harder for single men to swing successfully as there are so many men in it just for casual sex and not truly interested in swinging as a lifestyle...seeing it only as a means to getting laid. It takes a special sort of fellow to truly understand what couples are looking for in a third or a FWB hotwife situation. That's the sort of guy I looked for when I was seeking single men for fun.

 

Why do you think things have changed?

 

I try clubs and pubs but I do not know what else to try, plus it hard for me to travel lately. I even try a dating site to find a single female but that seems hard because I think all single women go for sexy looks and big cocks. Maybe that's why I can not get anywhere due to my looks and cock size.

[DestinyBandJ 34]

I think all single women go for sexy looks and big cocks. Maybe that's why I can not get anywhere due to my looks and cock size.

 

You can't really do anything about cock size but you can do something about looks. Do you work out regularly or are you complacent and don't want to put any effort into looking good? We try to stay active to keep ourselves attractive or at least be eye candy for people to oogle over. Just saying everyone wants to fuck prince charming, but no one is going to want to fuck Shrek. Just saying.

[sweetcandystick4u69 16]

You can't really do anything about cock size but you can do something about looks. Do you work out regularly or are you complacent and don't want to put any effort into looking good? We try to stay active to keep ourselves attractive or at least be eye candy for people to ogle over. Just saying everyone wants to fuck prince charming, but no one is going to want to fuck Shrek. Just saying.

Why should I change I know I am bit overweight but I do have some disabilities that makes my muscles weak so if that the case then I will say thanks and sadly I never get laid then. hehehe