Orgy rooms and etiquette

[Mbgdallas 203]

What is the etiquette of joining "the party" in an orgy room at a club, hotel, or event?

[SAMnTINA 362]

Ask before for you touch. No still means no.

[Lionheart72 2,191]

Interestingly enough, the sexual etiquette for swinging are pretty much the same as the sexual etiquette for life in general. The core principle remains consent. The only difference is that in a swingers orgy, you have at least an outside chance of someone saying "yes" when you ask if you can join in.

[kikonkrome 844]

We have, frankly, always had a hard time with these rooms. I think my wife's ass just screams at people to touch it, seriously. I think she has been touched or aggressively pursued every time (telling somebody no they can't touch for the third time, me stepping in, etc).

 

So now we might watch but generally keep it to ourselves.

 

As far as asking, I have certainly seen people give mixed replies and it not going well. I think in general, you are just better off having a quick discussion before hand and then going for it.

[asncpl 730]

If it's at a club, usually the club has a set of rules. For hotel or private events, probably ask the host or hostess. But like others said, always ask first before doing anything. For me personally, if I said yes to touch, it doesn't mean I will give a blowjob, so it'd nice to be asked every step and not just shove a cock in my face.