Bi/Gay men and swingers club admissions

[Lionheart72 2,191]

I'm sad to say the thought only just occurred to me but I suddenly found myself wondering what it would be like for a bi or gay male couple to get admission to a swinger's club.

 

A typical club charges couples at one rate, single males a much higher rate and single females get in free. I actually recall a time when my wife and I took a some friends - a married bisexual/lesbian female couple (one's bi, the other is lesbian) - to our club... they got in for free as "two single females." Would a club faced with a pair of bisexual or gay men wanting admission as a couple try charge them as two single males?

[kikonkrome 844]

On the north side of Chicago there are parties just for men, honestly I am not even sure if women attend. I have some friends that attend and are really all about hooking up with a different guy.

 

Now the all bi-sexual party/club I go to which is not that far from you in Muncie, if you want to check it out. They charge the M/M couples the same as M/F couples. I have no idea what they charge the transsexuals. Single female or single male rates!!

 

 

 

Men at typical parties though are assumed straight.

[JandKinBoise 859]

This would always depend on the club and their rules. As an observer of the swinger LS and not an 'official' swinger though, I would think that a majority of clubs would frown on this. Bisexuality has been quietly shunned in the community until recently. I feel that a lot of acceptance is political correctness rather than actual acceptance. Just my feelings though, no life experience to back it up.

 

To everyone that has been in a club, how much man on man sex is there and what, if any, are the rules?

[PandO 103]

Well, now I guess I need to do some more digging around the site and see if there are any older threads that discuss this issue. This is the second or third time I've read something along the lines of what JandK said. I'm curious to understand why bisexuality is so frowned upon when it comes to men in the LS, but so well received, expected even almost, in women. That seems very judgmental and closed-minded coming from a group of people who seem to pride themselves in being so open-minded and accepting. I'm not referring to people here at the Swingers Board in particular, but the LS in general with that last comment.

[JAPrufrock 588]

I have no idea why but outside of the LS, too, bisexuality, or even homosexuality for males is frowned upon, but encouraged for females. It's one of those strange paradoxes. The only thing I can think of is that we still live in a rather patriarchal society, and the majority of men are straight. They are turned on by women making out with each other, but they don't get anything from two men? It has to be more complex then that. I've always been puzzled by the fact that society accepts lesbians, but shuns male homosexuality.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

This seems to be one of those taboos that keeps hanging on. I know of several guys who are actually bi-curious, but who will not indicate this in their online profile for fear of being shunned. I suspect that there are many guys who are secretly open-minded, but do not want to say so unless they're sure it's a "safe" environment. And from what I've seen, I'd guess that most women are very OK with male bi-sexuality (and like to watch!).

 

That said, my guess would be on a guy-guy couple being charged as two singles at the clubs we frequent.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

In my mind, the apparent absence of man-on-man sexual activity in swingers' clubs contradicts the conventional wisdom that women "rule" in the lifestyle. I suspect that if women were having it their way, they'd be asking all night long for men to put on a performance.

[Brad145 58]

A bi or gay male couple would probably be charged as 2 single guys at clubs in this area, and rightly so IMHO.

 

In this area, there are several options for guys to get together for free or very cheap, so why would they go to a swing club and pay $30-50 entry when they can pay $5 at a guy only place? Because they aren't there for the guys, and are the same as any other single guy in attendance.