Picking up speed

[MrDiscover 802]

So.

 

She has just left the house with two bad robes, two pair of slippers and a blush on her cheeks. Off to the sauna with a date. Alone.

 

This is not a post about problems or seeking advice. Just sharing my amazement and joy about the speed we picked up while discovering the LS!

 

For a long time, we are following a picture-sharing website. You know, the kind where amateurs show their bodies and occasional some sex. Nothing too fancy, certainly not a dating website like SDC. One of the accounts there belongs to a nice 40+ couple. They post a few pics every week, mostly of her. Sometimes of a house party where she has sex with a couple of guys, like a month ago were they were having a FMMM. The thing is: they always have nice twists in their pics and it clearly shows they have fun. Plus: he is an excellent photographer. So after a while, it is just their profile MsD and I check once in a while to enjoy their pictures.

 

Meanwhile, MsD and I ended up in what looked like a LS dead-end. We were dating for months with a very nice couple. Beginners, just like us. But we are moving faster, really wanted to full swap. And that was still a bridge too far for them. To put it bluntly: MsD and I liked them as friends and all the massaging and kissing, but we both really wanted to fuck too. But we were hesitant to make a new SDC account and start over again. MsD even seriously began to doubt the whole idea of swinging.

 

Two months ago, the photo-sharing couple noticed the comments we submitted and replied. It grew into an interesting discussion and MsD and I wanted to date with them. He was really into that idea, he liked MsD a lot. We even started to privately taking pics and share them with them, something we never did before for security reasons. Too bad the photo-couple-wife is very jealous and don't want her man to share the fun. Which blocked our hope for an evening of swapping with them.

 

The interesting thing is: it opened up the discussion between MsD and me about solo dating. We were always the 'same room' types. But what would happen if I were meeting them alone? When MsD stayed at home? Would we be capable of handling our emotions? And the other way around, MsD going on a solo date? We decided it was worth trying if a possibility came along.

 

Then only a few days ago, we were contacted by a nice single male. Married, but his wife is ok with him swinging. We know she is, since we briefly exchanged our views on dating. We looked at his pics and we were pleased with what we saw. We discussed the possibilities of a date and he was positive about it. He even knows that photo couple, he was one of the MMM's on that date I mentioned... We proposed to meet in a hotel bar in the near future, to get to know each some more and when there would be a click, we would take him to our room. We all have busy schedules (and kids), so we decided to do this in a few weeks time. To let them know each other better, I made a whatsapp group this morning and I admit it was hard to concentrate at work since they were having fun and were goofing around in that group the whole day. She even shared her full face pic and her real name. I was amazed. And happy.

 

Tonight she would go to a sauna to relax. Alone, since I'm busy at home for our company. And looking after the kids, of course. Suddenly she asked the guy on whatsapp if he would join her to the sauna. After consulting his wife, he agreed. And now they have this exciting first meet. In the sauna. Nude, without me. And I'm thrilled!

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

We are in a similar position with the couple that we have been dating...they just don't want to 'put out'

 

Interesting start. Let us know how things go...

[MrDiscover 802]

No, and just as we want our date partners to respect our boundaries, we respect theirs. So we basically stopped mentioning it and settle for soft swap with them and decided to find the rest elsewhere.

[PandO 103]

We've discussed the possibility of solo dating. Oddly enough, I am more okay with the thought of O doing it than myself. I think he would be more capable of checking any romantic feelings at the door than I would be.

 

Keep us updated on how it goes!

[cplnuswing 4,713]

One of the things about swinging that is very difficult to put into words but perhaps could be best described as wonderous, is the feeling when everything just seems to click and come together and you start going places you haven't even dreamed of going before, and you know that the place is a good one too. That usually doesn't happen right off the bat, and there are some steps backwards or even slips and near falls before suddenly you hit that springboard that just shoots you way forward. Thanks for sharing.

 

P.S. - I'm still trying to wrap my American head around nonchalantly going to the nude sauna down the road for a relaxing evening. My head works fine with it, but 99% of the heads around me would explode if something like that tried to open up here

[MrDiscover 802]

Update: they had a wonderful evening. She already was waiting at the entrance when A. arrived and she showed him around, as it was his first sauna visit. Although they had never met before, being nude the whole evening felt natural and they basically have spent the evening relaxing, taking sauna, hot tubs and showers. They talked about relationships, sex and swinging. And had lots of fun. Of course they let eyes (etc.) do some checks too and there is definitely that 'click' both ways. Around midnight MsD returned home and told me all (well, most) about her date. And we decided to do an hotel date in the near future with him.

 

The wait between her last text "I'm there. Bit nervous, what a silly idea this was!" and her text three hours later "I'm comming home" was nerve-racking and, to be honest, hot. But not as hot as reconnect-sex.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

We have recently expanded our boundaries a little, too, as MrD and his Ms have!

 

The Mrs. has played a couple of times with a single guy, at a house party or a club, but it was always when we were basically together (not me in the room with them, but in the same building). It seemed like more of a "find a play partner and go have fun" situation (as opposed to swapping with a couple) for both of us, and I was mostly OK with it. I didn't really have a problem with her playing and having a good time, and I trusted and liked the guys she was with. My main hurdle to overcome was the fear that I'd be left behind, spending a lot of time watching from the sidelines while she gets to have all the fun! Ah, the plight of a husband in the lifestyle...

 

So last weekend, we had an overnight stay planned with a couple of close lifestyle friends. But on the Thursday before that weekend, the Mrs. found out that she had to travel for work on Saturday, and could not come out. We considered the idea of me going to visit them by myself. A real, live hall pass! The Mrs. and I talked it over, and checked with the other couple (who were OK with the idea). We decided that we would give it a try, and that I would return the favor and give her a hall pass at some future occasion, with someone that we were comfortable with.

 

Well, I had a great time! The other woman got some intense and repeated attention from her hubby and me, And both of us guys had a great time (nobody has made me growl while cumming like that in a long time!). I checked in a couple of times over the course of the evening and morning with the Mrs., and gave her a full report afterwards. She seemed to be good with everything, comfortable with how things played out, and happy for me!

 

That seemed like a big step for us, just as it must have for MrD and MsD. But we are happy with how it turned out! Let's see how it goes when the tables are turned!

[MrDiscover 802]

Great post Coupleinmd, sounds great!

 

A. forgot his watch, left it in MsD bath robe (slick move ). Since by coincidence we both worked in the same town in the north last Wednesday, I have met him at a Starbucks to return his watch and we talked for a good hour, about sex in general, swinging, relations, MsD and much more. Strange but good feelings, to meet a guy my wife already had had a nude date with. Nice guy, would love to share MsD with him.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

We have recently expanded our boundaries a little, too, as MrD and his Ms have!

I feel sure that all four of you have the trust-in-spouses that will allow you to step confidently into swinging separately. It's not for everybody but for those who are inclined, there are rewards.

[Teton69 32]

I like hearing about how boundaries change and the journey you guys are having as a wonderful couple. Very excited to hear things turned out well for all involved. Sounds like yet another way to enjoy the LS. Thanks for posting the first half and all the updates!

[MrDiscover 802]

 

What a great wife I have!

 

Three weeks ago I had my birthday and got all sorts of presents from my kids, mugs/books/cd's. MsD told me my present 'was not available yet'. I thought it was not delivered or made yet. Today my wife told me what her birthday present for me was.

 

A threesome.

 

 

Not just a threesome, our first. With the single man I mentioned above. I'm not told what the rest of the plans are, an hotel or something else, where it will be, what she will be wearing, where and what we are going to eat/drink. I was only told to reserve Saturday 26th evening. And night.

 

Damn.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Happy birthday to you...

 

Just don't know how she will be able to wrap it

[Alura 2,774]

Happy birthday to you...

 

Just don't know how she will be able to wrap it

 

I think it will be best to leave this present unwrapped.

[MrDiscover 802]

He hinted at how she and he are planning something to make it my birthday party, so I'm very curious now. A song, balloons in the hotel room, a ribbon on his dick, I'm not sure. But I know for sure it will be how I like sex the most: not too serious and room for laughter and fun. :-)

 

Only a few times in recent times there was something fun in a near future I was so excited about, I could hardly sleep the last nights before such event. This is definitely is one of those times.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Sounds like Christmas eve and you're 10YO again. Hope your birthday is really happy (ending). Let us know what happens...

[MrDiscover 802]

The date was great, best until now. You can read it here.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Congrats! Where can we find the DVD and the commemorative T shirts?