We're off to our first house party!

[JAPrufrock 588]

We're driving there now! Nervous but excited at the same time. We will fill you all in on how it goes sometime tomorrow It's a back to school theme. Since I feel ridiculous dressed up as a school girl I'm going as a sexy librarian (complete with garter belt and no panties), and Mr. Prufrock is a hot Professor (complete with vest and bow tie.)

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Wonderful! I hope you two have a great time!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

Have fun! We've dressed up as naughty headmistress and headmaster and carried 18" rulers. That goes over really well at school girl theme parties.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Now almost midnight. Hope you're enjoying it all.

[JAPrufrock 588]

Driving home now. Had a ton of fun, and met some nice people. We didn't play with anyone else, but had a lot of fun playing with each other. There were a lot of people, but the hosts balanced things out nicely, so it wasn't a sausage fest. One couple came all the way from South Carolina. I think we'll try and make it to their next party, maybe we'll have the guts to play with others then

 

Edit: there were several guys there I found attractive! Now I have to figure out how to go about actually flirting with them

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

JAPrufrock, glad you two had a good time! It sounds like maybe you guys were more relaxed at this event, am I right? If so, that in itself is a great step forward!

 

So, the two of you played, which is excellent, and I hope you got all got and bothered by a bunch of sexy stuff going on at the party. Did you play alone, or were there others watching (or listening)?

 

So, you were attracted to several guys. Another great sign! I trust you collected some contact information, so you can follow up? As far as the flirting goes, I have a feeling that, if all you ever learned to do was to be open to the guys flirting with you, you would be just fine! You are a funny, smart person, and that is sexy all on it's own.

 

Did the two of you meet any couples where you think there was four-way attraction?

[JAPrufrock 588]

Umm.. We were still a bit nervous, but definitely more relaxed than last time. I am slowly getting used to seeing other people having sex, live, right in front of me. I think it will take a bit more getting used to. I realize they want people to watch, but it still feels like an invasion of privacy. Guess I'm not a voyeur.

 

We played alone, with the door open (one of the house rules was doors had to stay open. Not sure why) I have no idea if anyone was watching in the hall, I tend to close my eyes when we really get into it, it helps me focus on the sensations and block out distractions. Speaking of which, the room was dark except for some blinky multi-colored mood lighting. It was super distracting, Mr. prufrock was going down on me and the stupid light would change and throw my concentration off. Apparently I'm easily distracted. Eventually I got used to it and had a fantastic orgasm though. I couldn't tell if anyone was watching after that as my back was to the door. I'm sure people could hear, but I wasn't super loud, so I don't know.

 

I didn't get any contact info. I was too timid to even talk to the guys. I was standing around waiting for Mr. Prufrock to get out of the bathroom when this naked guy started talking to me. He was cute, but I have zero interest radar, so I have no idea if he was interested or even flirting with me. I can't tell if guys talk to me just to be friendly or not.

 

Hardly anyone showed up to the party dressed for the theme. We were the best dressed people there, and I didn't mind that one bit! We looked fantastic although I wish my skirt was a little shorter. No four-way attraction, which is probably a large part of why we didn't play. That and we were nervous/intimidated. Mr. Prufrock was the one who wasn't attracted to anyone this time around. Go figure.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . I have no idea if he was interested or even flirting with me. I can't tell if guys talk to me just to be friendly or not.

I'm a man and I believe I know something about my gender. Ninety-nine percent probability that he was flirting.

 

 

We were the best dressed people there, and I didn't mind that one bit!

Be true to yourselves. Continue it that way.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

Well, you still made some steps forward! Playing with the door open is good- if you aren't a voyeur, maybe you have an exhibitionist streak!

 

If you didn't get contact information from the promising guys this time, that just means you will have to come to the next one of these parties!

 

As far as your interest radar is concerned, I would bet you all the money in my pocket that the naked guy who talked to you was interested! Because he's a guy, and guys like it when women find them cute... Maybe next time you could hang with a friendly woman as your wingman, and see what she thinks after you have talked to a guy. Second pair of female eyes couldn't hurt!

 

Keep coming to parties! One of these times you will find a four-way match. But if that doesn't happen, can you two see yourselves playing at a party with individuals where it's not a swap situation? You go play with a guy you like, and your Mr. plays with a woman he likes, even if the two are not part of the same couple?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

We played alone, with the door open (one of the house rules was doors had to stay open. Not sure why.

Not saying this is wrong; every host and hostess has a perfect right to set down the rules of the house. But it is unusual.

[JAPrufrock 588]

The host indicated at the beginning of the party that all the rules came about because something had happened that caused issues/drama, etc... in the past. So something must have happened behind closed doors that caused an issue.

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Not saying this is wrong; every host and hostess has a perfect right to set down the rules of the house. But it is unusual.

 

Where we are, this rule is the norm, both for security and safety sake for the party-goers. The hosts want to make sure there isn't any funny-business going on behind closed doors--this could range from taking advantage of those who are too inebriated to give consent to making sure they have easy access to party-goers who need assistance if someone is saying no or not following rules.

[Fundamental Law 2,885]

Where we are, this rule is the norm, both for security and safety sake for the party-goers. The hosts want to make sure there isn't any funny-business going on behind closed doors--this could range from taking advantage of those who are too inebriated to give consent to making sure they have easy access to party-goers who need assistance if someone is saying no or not following rules.

 

Concur. Privacy at a party is relative. Perhaps counterintuitive, but couples on a bed/matress/couch are respected and typically left to each other unless there is a specific invitation to join.