Exaggerated Orgasm?

[Elusive BiFem 70]

In her poll, Julie asked about faking orgasms and MagicEnigma brought up the idea of "exaggerating" orgasms...wondering what the numbers would be for that. Interesting, I thought. So, that's the question...for both men and women...have you ever exaggerated an orgasm?

[M&B 21]

For a while, when I was much younger, I wanted to be an actor. I thought I was good at it. I hoped that others did, too.

 

But, I ain't THAT good!

[Elusive BiFem 70]

Hey, M&B! I think the ladies can be better "actresses" in this case!

 

 

Sorry guys! - EBF:)

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by Elusive BiFem

Hey, M&B! I think the ladies can be better "actresses" in this case!

Go Meg!!!!

[DragonsLair 26]

I wouldn't exaggerate my orgasms. First of all, I don't need to. They're strong enough without exaggeration. And if I were to exaggerate an orgasm when it wasn't that great, my husband might think that what he was doing was mindblowing and continue doing it and then I'd be stuck.

 

I think sex is the time for honesty about techniques or you end up having to deal with the bad techniques for a long time. You just need to find a nice way to let your lover know that what he or she is doing isn't doing it for you. I know, sometimes easier said than done.

[Brit_Pair 62]

I (Mr B) have never exagerated an orgasm. I can't think of an occasion where I've considered exagerating one. But I can certainly think of plenty of occasions where I've had to underplay orgasms, due to the proximity of thin walls, sound senstitive neighbours and shotgun-toting potential fathers-in-law!

 

[M&B 21]

EBF, I suppose I can agree about women being better actors in this case...... just makes me think..... better actors, all the time? Oh boy. Makes me wonder now.

 

All these years.... do you think? Naw... but, still...... naw......

[DragonsLair 26]

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Originally posted by Brit_Pair

I (Mr B) have never exaggerated an orgasm. I can't think of an occasion where I've considered exaggerating one. But I can certainly think of plenty of occasions where I've had to underplay orgasms, due to the proximity of thin walls, sound sensitive neighbors and shotgun-toting potential fathers-in-law!

 

 

Mr. Brit_Pair,

 

A bit vocal, are we?

 

I happen to like that. It lets me know I'm doing a good job. My husband tends to be quiet. And early on in our relationship I had to wonder if I was pleasing him. Now I know him better and I don't have to worry any more.

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by DragonsLair

Mr. Brit_Pair,

 

A bit vocal, are we?

I have been known. We're not talking Pavarotti-like though, just so we're clear!

I happen to like that. It lets me know I'm doing a good job. My husband tends to be quiet. And early on in our relationship I had to wonder if I was pleasing him.

I know what you mean. Mrs B has a tendency towards the lower end of the noise spectrum. Just makes me work harder!

[BradAndJanet 70]

Hmmm...does it count that I sometimes act like I'm about to come, even when I'm not, because my growls and moans get J hot and take her 'over the edge'?

 

-B

[Brit_Pair 62]

Faked Orgasms . . .

 

Exagerated orgasms . . .

 

And now we have, courtesy of Brad . . . (drum roll) . . . the pre-emptive orgasm!!!!

 

 

What next?

 

The compound interest orgasm

(The longer it's been since you last had sex, the bigger the splash)

 

The proxy orgasm

(You're not really turned on by your partner, but thinking about someone else has done the trick)

 

The delayed action orgasm

(You don't moan until you're cleaning up in the bathroom)

 

 

[Elusive BiFem 70]

OK, Brit_Pair... :rofl:

 

That was without doubt the funniest thing I've ever read on this Board....can hardly type I'm laughing so hard....

 

 

.............pre-emptive orgasm....and the others.........

 

 

-EBF

[DragonsLair 26]

Quote

Originally posted by Brit_Pair

Faked Orgasms . . .

 

Exaggerated orgasms . . .

 

And now we have, courtesy of Brad . . . (drum roll) . . . the pre-emptive orgasm!!!!

 

 

What next?

 

The compound interest orgasm

(The longer it's been since you last had sex, the bigger the splash)

 

The proxy orgasm

(You're not really turned on by your partner, but thinking about someone else has done the trick)

 

The delayed action orgasm

(You don't moan until you're cleaning up in the bathroom)

 

 

 

Ah, Mr. Brit_Pair,

 

Did I mention it's good to have you back on the board? You never fail to make me smile. And since I'm so tired from being up until 4 this morning because I couldn't sleep, I needed a smile.

 

Thanks.

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by Brit_Pair

Faked Orgasms . . .

 

Exagerated orgasms . . .

 

And now we have, courtesy of Brad . . . (drum roll) . . . the pre-emptive orgasm!!!!

 

 

What next?

 

The compound interest orgasm

(The longer it's been since you last had sex, the bigger the splash)

 

The proxy orgasm

(You're not really turned on by your partner, but thinking about someone else has done the trick)

 

The delayed action orgasm

(You don't moan until you're cleaning up in the bathroom)

 

 

'Nuff said... well maybe not enough...those definitions are hysterical!

[StacyCat 30]

I dont fake orgasms.

 

However, my moans can "fake out" others :-) when I was filming a video (and this was the first time that this girl had been down on me) both the girl, the camera woman, and the camera guy all thought I had cum multiple times, when I hadnt orgasmed at all.

 

but, I like the pre-emptive orgasm :-) Too many guys have been completly silent during their orgasms. I like hearing my partner cum :-)

[Brit_Pair 62]

Elusive BiFem, DragonsLair, Mrs O;

 

you're too kind!

 

[HotMoCpl 20]

Gee, this should have been set up to be answered by male or female. I'd be curious to see those results.

[navyflyer 15]

Do us guys have them to???Or do we just cum???

[Jamie&Kieth 36]

Sure I have, the reason, I want my partner to get real excited too ... when they get excited ... the sex gets better!!!

 

After one get together my husband asked me was it "real or memorex" told him with you it's the real thing (and it is).

[curiouscouple4f 17]

I have a very difficult time reaching orgasm, so yes, to save the ego of many a man i've dated, i've faked or exaggerated an orgasm many a time

 

"The Mrs."

[txduo2000 18]

I have exaggerated at times. With my ex-husband it was to let him know that it was time to be done.

 

With this husband, it has been to heighten his excitement.

 

I tend to downplay them more than exaggerate, though. Mainly because I, too, can get quite vocal and we have kids ... lol.

 

With play partners, I have to be VERY comfortable with them before I will allow myself to be that freewheeling and natural with my orgasms.

[wv hot female 15]

I would never fake an orgasm I love having the real ones to much

[danni654 16]

When one is a squirter (like me), it's very difficult to fake an orgasm...and I don't know of a more exaggerated way to have one! lol They call me "Old Faithful" in our circle of FWBs (Friends With Benefits).

[bnbinsa 15]

with me, she has never had to. she lets me know in no uncertain terms that she feels cheated if she doesnt cum at least 3 times in a session. i think thats a good thing...

[OurMrsReynolds 16]

I have never faked an orgasm with my current partner. He is absolutely fabulous in bed. In fact he's sort of developed an exagerated ego between us since I call him my Sex God facelick

 

But, when I was younger I faked it quite often. My first boyfriend, and only other sexual partner, just didn't have any sort of skill in bed. He wasn't really willing to learn either. So instead of laying there waiting for an hour or more for him to find some sort of decent rhythm and skill to get me off, I'd fake it. It was easier on me, and my vagina, to fake an orgasm in the first 15 minutes of sex so that he could get off.

[danni654 16]

Now the only problem with that is...you reinforced this guy's bad technique rather than help him learn the proper way to get both of you off. I feel sorry for the women/woman he has bedded since.

 

As for not willing to learn, that's a RED FLAG to move on. I pride myself on helping my Catholic college boyfriend (virgin when I met him) learn techniques that I am sure his wife now appreciates greatly. Despite his religious beliefs, he became a GREAT lover!

 

 

I have never faked an orgasm with my current partner. He is absolutely fabulous in bed. In fact he's sort of developed an exagerated ego between us since I call him my Sex God facelick

 

But, when I was younger I faked it quite often. My first boyfriend, and only other sexual partner, just didn't have any sort of skill in bed. He wasn't really willing to learn either. So instead of laying there waiting for an hour or more for him to find some sort of decent rhythm and skill to get me off, I'd fake it. It was easier on me, and my vagina, to fake an orgasm in the first 15 minutes of sex so that he could get off.

[ShellyM 0]

I haven't for years, but when I was a young woman, like 18, I did lol. Shhh don't tell anyone. You know though, now that I am 34 I chuckle about it. I mean, you think with all of that scratching, screaming and thrashing a man could figure out that its FAKE! Real orgasms are so intense you can barely frickin keep from swallowing your own tongue lol.

[prettylady 221]

My ex was a bumbling fool in bed. I am lucky though he never lasted long enough to cause any pain...or feeling for that matter . I dreaded having sex with him, so I was FAST to have an "orgasm" just so he would finish. I think a marathon session was 6 insted of the usual 5 min. That includes forplay ladies and gentlemen . I will accept offers of pity now. But I am no longer the star actress I once was.

 

Dog loves to take his time, so if I was to fake it would make no difference because he just keeps going anyway.

Your Friend,

Prettylady

[Amanda69 24]

Never faked one, didn't really need to was having too much fun just having sex. Also I am not that good an actress to fake one....

[Crystal 15]

I had a threesome with my now hubby and his friend. The friend was sooo lame in bed. Big cock but didn't know what to do with it. So I faked it for him. He thought he was the bag of chips. My hubby knew I was faking it for his friend. We still laugh about it.

[danni654 16]

Faking it? Now my only problem with faking it, esp with the "big dick" in your 3-some you mentioned, is that you reinforced his poor performance. Not only will this poor schlong go out and repeat his poor performance on other unsuspecting women, he has not learned from his experience with you.

 

Our goal (my boy-toy and me) is to learn -- and teach -- something with every swinging sexual experience we have. That is the only way we will improve our techniques and fully enjoy the sexual instruments we were born with. And, we like to leave 'em wanting more or at least excited to talk about the experience! LOL facelick

 

You can always use verbal -- as well as non-verbal -- indicators to help those you are fucking to be the best they can be...even if it is just for that moment with you. Surrender

 

I liken it to clapping for a perfomer when the performance did not warrant your approval, let alone an accolade.

[Boudicca 15]

I do sometimes exaggerate with my partner, for several reasons...

 

1) To heighten his pleasure (as someone previously mentioned). He has done the same for me, including a full faking of orgasm, many times, because he knows it makes me cum my brains out to hear him

 

2) Sometimes the lack of intensity comes from me, not my partner (leg cramp, too much stress, etc.)

 

If it's a technique issue, then I will exaggerate sometimes, but I always take pains to address the issue after the sex is finished. We ALWAYS talk, and I'll give feedback during sex most of the time, but sometimes it's better to discuss afterwards, rather than interrupt in the middle. My partner's really intuitive, and he reads me really well, so usually he knows that something wasn't quite perfect, anyway, and then I tell him tactfully, sensitively, diplomatically, what it was.

 

This very often leads to round 2, which is usually MUCH more satisfying

[luv2buck 22]

Warning: Here's a very bad joke:

 

Q: why do women fake orgasms?

 

A: Because of their mistaken belief that men care.

 

Sorry, could not resist.

 

I'll go crawl back under my rock now.

 

buck

[LOL_OMG 130]

Wow, this post was started in 2003. Luckily I have watched every Seinfeld episode, yes, even the screaming, the yelling, the panting and moaning?-fake, fake, fake fake one. If not for that damn show I might still be living in ignorant bliss, sigh.

 

Mr. Lol

[janaandjames 24]

Yes I've exaggerated a lot. It is kind of like acting. When hubby is watching me with another man, he likes to see me having a good time. So I get carried away with that sometimes.

Especially if we are with someone we don't know, I might get a little theatrical for his pleasure.

[piggytailz1269 15]

I wouldn't exaggerate...if it's not going well then I'm going to let them know (tastefully) and give some direction on where to go to make it right.

[SizzleinNC 15]

Hey, M&B! I think the ladies can be better "actresses" in this case!

 

 

Sorry guys! - EBF:)

Don't bet your life on it!!

[BK&ME 15]

When we were first married we lived in a downstairs apartment and the couple that lived above us were newlyweds as well.

 

Well they where just like rabbits in the spring time, morning noon and night with a quickie thrown every now and again. Well their bed squeaked real bad and she was somewhat of a moaner I must admit that I am very vocal as well and when the hubby gets to going, hell, it sounds lie a pack of wild dogs just got hit by a car .

 

Back to where I was going, this one night the couple above us got to going and they were shaking the pictures on our walls, heaven knows what was happening in their room. So me and the hubby thought what the hell, let's see how much we can shake the walls too. Well, as things got heated up we got louder and the couple above got louder, so we put a little more into it then to where we were exaggerating some. The next thing we knew was the couple in the apartment next to us started banging on the walls and shouting at us to hurry up already, they need to get some sleep.

 

We became friends with the couple above us and we got around to discussing that one night and they admitted that they where doing the same thing as we were. In fact they told us sometimes they would just sit on the bed and hop up and down and make all those great sounds that we love to hear just to mess with us and the others that were connected to their apartment.

 

So you see, sometimes exaggeration can be fun

 

BK&ME

[Speed & Trixie 163]

I must say that Trixie has never given me a reason to need to exaggerate an orgasm... The ones she makes me have are mighty enough!

 

Speed.

[strathmore 20]

Hmmm...does it count that I sometimes act like I'm about to come, even when I'm not, because my growls and moans get J hot and take her 'over the edge'?

 

-B

 

I do sometimes exaggerate with my partner, for several reasons...

 

To heighten his pleasure (as someone previously mentioned). He has done the same for me, including a full faking of orgasm, many times, because he knows it makes me cum my brains out to hear him

 

This very often leads to round 2, which is usually MUCH more satisfying

 

As BradandJanet and Boudicca say above. I'm male. I sometimes exaggerate, not fake, an initial vaginal O to boost the lady's ego and spur her performance. And somehow it boosts my pleasure too. My initial vaginal O is often not as strong as with oral or masturbation, and definitely not as strong as vaginal #2 which requires no exaggeration as my whole body shakes. I am genuinely vocal with oral, hand job, or vaginal #2 and appreciate the same response from a lady whether exaggerated or not.