What are some sexual turn-offs for you?

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Everyone has something(s) that sexually turn them off. Some are not at all attracted to bald heads. Others find no piercings or tattoos a turn off. Hygiene is a given so let's not count that one. What are some semi-normal and non-normal turn offs that you all have? Extremely long hair on a woman? Facial moles? The shape of their feet? Let's hear them!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

I loose interest quickly if I receive little or no feedback from a woman during play. I understand completely that many women require more time to have an orgasm. And I understand that some women seldom have an orgasm or require the aid of a battery-operated toy. But I have played with women who move no more and say no more than an inflatable doll. It makes me feel that I am doing something wrong -- that I am not fucking but fucking up.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I can't really think of anything physical right off the top of my head that I would single out as a big turn-off since I am looking at the whole package, but when it comes to the non-physical, a bad or stuck-up attitude will turn me off instantly.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

A negative attitude or someone who loves finding fault in everything (usually except themselves).

[kikonkrome 844]

I can't really think of anything physical right off the top of my head that I would single out as a big turn-off since I am looking at the whole package, but when it comes to the non-physical, a bad or stuck-up attitude will turn me off instantly.

 

A negative attitude or someone who loves finding fault in everything (usually except themselves).

 

Bang this!! Anything like this comes from either partner and we're out.

 

Also too far over weight. There is fun chunky and there is kinda blob chunky. Can't do blob chunky.

 

Methaddict skinny freaks us out as well...

[Alura 2,775]

My major turn-off was the sensing that a woman was not swinging because she wanted adventure but because she was doing it for her husband.

[Mbgdallas 203]

Hmmmm... This is a tough question. Off hand it would be grossly overweight... Really really large tits... On the physical side. I have to say my "standards" have changed over the years... I now find some women especially sexy attractive even though they may be overweight, thin, not particularly pretty... It just the whole package together says something to me so it probably has more to do with their attitude.

 

Something else that would be a huge turn-off is exhibiting a "lack of class". I am not sure exactly what that is but I know it when I see it and it's not necessarily slutty behavior.

 

Lastly... Drunk or stoned.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

Mr. CoupleInMD79 here. I'll echo two things that others have said that turn me off.

 

One is a lack of enthusiasm. If I'm with a woman who does not seem to be very interested in engaging, being present and actively participating in play, it drains my enthusiasm as well, and makes me want to pass on future play opportunities. This has happened a couple of times with one couple, where the woman kept her back turned to me while we were undressing each other (and got slightly irritated when I mentioned it), wouldn't kiss, didn't really talk during play, and never asked for or gave any meaningful feedback (e.g., the most I ever got her to say was this... me: "What do you like?" her: "I like everything."). We had two play dates with this couple, just in case the first one represented an off-day for her, but she acted largely the same way the second time around. I honestly do not know whether she actually doesn't want to be there, or if she feels like she needs to hold something back, or if she finds me somehow unattractive- but she is not someone I'll look forward to playing with any more.

 

The other rapid turn-off for me is sloppy drunkenness. A little buzz is OK, but if I sense that the person is not in control of their faculties, it's a no-go for me. There are too many bad memories of drunken people in my home growing up! We were in a sixsome one time, and I went over to one of the women to give her some attention. She laid on the bed, slurring in a loud and sloppy voice, "Make me squirt!!" Umm, no, I don't think I will, thank you. She is not a bad person, and I really like her when she's not staggeringly drunk. In fact, we played a couple months later, when it was clear she had had far fewer drinks in her, and we had a great time- I did in fact make her squirt then, a veritable lake's worth!

[asncpl 730]

My thing is hair shirt. I am not into hairy guys in general but I can live with chest hair, arm hair, even a hairy ass. But the hair shirt (hairy chest AND back) is a total turn off for me. Nothing personal, but it just doesn't do it for me.

[shy_couple 460]

Physically Mrs Shy isn't into wooly beards or as she describes it, biker types.Usually shave head, unkempt beard, tats, etc.

 

Mr Shy is more about personality and attitude. But a big turn off or negative is a couple, usually the guy who tries to negotiate, you do mine this way and I'll do yours that way. We are adults and we choose who we play with and what we feel comfortable doing. Neither of us are a piece of meat or to be traded like baseball cards or school lunches.