Other than family, who is the most surprising person you met at a swingers party/club

[Pklon 62]

Have you every meet someone that you knew at a swingers party/club, and you had no idea that they were into that.

 

When I first started going to my local swinger club, i met an old teacher I used to have. She was there with her husband. It was quite surprising to see her there. Had no idea she was into those kinds of thing. They were fun to be with.

 

A few years later after I got married to my husband, and we went to a club, he met an old friend with his that he used to play hockey with , when he was young. He was pretty surprising to see him there as well.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Two members of our shul; we were surprised to see them but they were not surprised to see us having spotted us already at a swingers' Web site.

[ZoDee 81]

Haven't been to a club yet, closest is 5 hours drive.

But we've planned a night at one soon, and wondering if it will turn out to be one of these unexpected meeting.

 

We have close friends of 40+ years that we know swing & get away about every second weekend.

We cross paths with them once or twice a day in everyday life, and they would assume we are just vanilla.

 

Our night out has accommodation that turns out to 1/2 a block up from the apartment they own & stay at when away.

Think there's pretty much only one club locally on that scene, and we know they visit on some of their trips.

 

So at this stage there's a 50/50 chance they will be in the region when we visit, and whatever chance of running into them.

 

We won't be particularly surprised, but I'm sure they will.

[ncswingeramy 20]

Have also run into a former teacher. It can be a shock, but also cool to know someone else shares a secret interest.

[robaval 219]

At a hotel take over and meet and greet 300+ miles from home, we ran into our former Lutheran pastor and his wife. Initial shock but was fine and fun. We didn't know pastor's wives had that kind of lingerie. LOL. Julie

[Formybubu 55]

I have 2.

 

First was at a club and we were seated with a group of people. As we were all talking the work question came up. As it went around the table every couple had a person who worked for the Same company in town but all at other locations.

 

The next one was we met a couple on line and decided to meet at a club. When we got there we started talking about life and what we did. Well the other gentleman was a retired fireman Asked city or county and he said county so the wife said do you know XXXXXX (her dad) and of course he did and said I remember when you were small running all over the engine house. We laughed but he was too afraid to continue with us that night.

[afterwork 89]

Two times. Once in 72 when we encountered a young junior officer from my husband's squadron. Guess since I was fucking him and my hubby was fucking his wife, we either blurred or skipped over the fraternization regulations. Never bothered the guys as they were professional military.

 

The other time was when we encountered hubby's civilian boss and his then fiancée. They wedded and we have been more than fuck friends since 1979. We consider them like family.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Ms. Gold used to be a teacher and when we were first dating she told me that teachers (in her experience) are kinky...apparently she was right. Never met anyone we know yet but it will be exciting when it happens.

[FunOzCouple 40]

Ran into one of my kids music teachers when I swung with my previous husband. Both of us said no way in hell would we go there but a few months after we swung with him and his gf. Made parent teacher interviews rather awkward after!

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Warned you about teachers...

[NatalieSilk 63]

I'm a ballet teacher and teach around two dozen different students throughout the week. Meet a lot of parents and grandparents and such and we live in a smallish community. I go to church with a few of them as well. It was about two months after we started the lifestyle that we finally went to a club. It was a private club in the downtown area on the top floor of a office building.

 

We were pretty nervous when we went. It was very upscale, so we dressed very nice. Me in a nice black dress and my husband in a nice suit. We had to drop our kids off at my parents for the evening and told them we were going out on a date. Not really a lie, just omitting the details.

 

It was a nice evening and we honestly weren't planning on swinging, it was an option just wanted to get a better feel for the whole club aspect of this kinda life. We must have been there for about a half hour when i ran into one of the dads of the one of the girls i teach. Good looking guy, very nice, his wife is a tiny thing. Like half his height and so small but so cute. He was in dress slacks and a button down and she was in a lovely silver dress that accented the curves she had. Very lovely.

 

They were kinda blown away to see me there. (I also teach sunday school class sometimes and we've chatted from time to time when they came to pick up their daughter). It was totally awkward for a while. We felt obligated to talk and sit and chat. After maybe a half hour we were a bit more loose and they asked if we wanted to go to a private room. My husband wanted to mingle more but said it was ok if I went without him.

 

I went with them and we had a small room with a bed all to ourselves. The dad admitted he'd fantasized about me, especially seeing me in my ballet uniform and always wondered what was under it (cliche i know but hey, that's how guys think i guess). His wife and I decided to give him a little show and tell, so we stripped each other to our underwear. She was wearing a simple pair of silver thong panties that was it, she was flat up top. I was wearing a sheer lace top and black silk boy short panties. We kinda modeled for him, he laughed a bit at how silly we were being but got hard all the same.

 

I wasn't sure if i was honestly comfortable with having sex with him but figured giving him a bj wouldn't hurt. His wife and i got down and pulled his penis out, very nice size about the same as my husbands, and we both sucked him. Taking turned and also kissing around it. He absolutely loved it. I guess having his daughter's ballet teacher and sunday school teacher sucking his cock wasn't too intimidating for him after all.

 

It wasn't long after that (he didn't cum while we sucked him fyi) that i had my panties on the floor and was riding him. MMM. He was good. Not sure how but it felt like he got deeper even though he was about the same length as my husband. He held onto my hips tight and helped me bounce up and down on him while his wife and I kissed and fondled each other. We went bare mainly because we knew each other and also I'm just not a fan of condoms.

 

He fucked me for nearly a hour. Riding him, reverse cowgirl with his wife licking my clit, on my back legs open because he wanted a good view of him going into my bald pussy, and when i was laying on top of his wife making out and rubbing on her. He alternated between our pussys on that last one. He finally finished by fucking me doggy style and cumming inside me, a lot!

 

All of that was a bit awkward to be sure. But what made it more so was the next day at church. Haha. Not sure how you act normal coming to pick your daughter up from sunday school and looking a woman in the eye that you know still has your semen inside you from last night. For all our parts we played it pretty cool. I've seen them a few times after that.

[Eddiem 139]

Well... TBH everyone for the most part has been interesting. Some people I look at knowing I have NOTHING in common with. Others have been lawyers, VP of an Airline, blue bloods etc... Very interesting mix.

 

I do have to say some of the people we met are VERY focused on sex and it is hard getting them off-topic. I would like to talk about sports, business etc.. and not just cock and balls. LOL

[Baconheads 432]

We were at a house party in Baltimore area and our pastor from church was there.He and his wife have been swinging for several years,just away from our local area.We wound up in a same room with them and we discovered just how horny and excited they get.

It is sort of embarassing it is when we see them on sundays,but it is our secret.

 

You saw you *current* church pastor at a house party? And then you played softly with them? (I am assuming same room no touch, enlighten me if I'm inaccurate) I would love to see that some day, as all of the pastors that I've been attending have been such prudes! I would love to hear his sermons...

[Baconheads 432]

largerich said:

It wasn't a soft swing. It was full blown (no pun intended) down and dirty sex. FUCKING, SUCKING, GIRL ON GIRL, dp, rimming. The whole enchilada.

 

Wow! With the preacher and his wife! I need to find a church like yours! The people at my church are such prudes!

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

There was a church in our area that had a swinging scandal several years ago: seems that the pastor and several other members were using the baptismal (actually a hot tub) for 'extra curricular' activities. Didn't hear about the church until it was in the paper and thought that there was finally a church I could really get into only it was now out of business...

[Baconheads 432]

There was a church in our area that had a swinging scandal several years ago: seems that the pastor and several other members were using the baptismal (actually a hot tub) for 'extra curricular' activities. Didn't hear about the church until it was in the paper and thought that there was finally a church I could really get into only it was now out of business...

 

Always happens that way. You hear about the best parties the next day...

[Baconheads 432]

Baconhead if you ever cum to West Virginia let us know,we would like to get to know you better and see where it leads.

Possibly you could meet our pastor you might find him and his wife very accomodating.

 

Yes! Sounds like my kind of place.

[scots 33]

This thread makes me look at anyone in a 'dog collar' in a new light.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Ummmm, bacon...

[findinganswers 369]

We first started two years ago with friends. We were surprised who else we knew that played too. Surprised but never shocked. My wife used to worry about bumping into people she knew in business. I joked she should invite this one hot woman she worked with to a party. I never worried because if I met someone I knew, they were doing the same thing. My whole outlook on this life has surly evolved this past year.

 

At a recent house party, two couples came after some fun started. My wife came running to me. She scared the crap out of me. I thought someone did something to her that she didn’t like. She was in panicky excitement. She then pointed out a couple. It was my brother’s sister-in-law. My sister in laws sister. She was going into a room where everyone left their clothes. I went into denial. Couldn’t be her. It was!

 

I couldn’t ignore her. I know she was shocked to say the least when she saw us. I had to start some small talk. Both of us buck naked. Who was more red? We got past the nobody knows, my brother or her sister. She looked at my wife for approval and then grabbed me.

 

Hey, we’re not family.

[PSULioness 847]

Nobody surprises me anymore. So many of my college friends have been doing this and I had no clue. I would say I surprised more people that saw me at parties.

[WaterBro 18]

My ex was a minister. I loved taking her to a local club far from her church. She refused to give her real name...

[Cuffem28 17]

ROFL!! Well let’s see, I had a coworker (unicorn) who I discovered was attending a swingers yoga party during casual conversation that my then ex and I were attending. I had my ex tell her before hand so she wouldn’t be completely embarrass. It did make us more trusting coworkers after that even though we never played with each other.

 

Then my neighbors across the street recognize their house in the background of a picture of my wife flashing her ass on the front door step. LOL! Then sent us a friend request on AFF saying hello. We never played together but we always had great laughs.

[Guest]

At a couples club, we met the guy I had lived with for 5 years before having met what came to be my husband. We chatted with him for a bit. Naturally, he was with a younger girl who was into girl on girl activity; he had always pushed for me to do the same.

 

Another time, at a rooftop bar in Keywest where patrons may dance topless or naked, I was all but naked and we ran into a guy from our home town who owns a bar there that we frequent when we are there visiting the parents or whatever. We sat there at the bar for the evening and chatted, he, my husband and me, me still pretty much naked.

[Guest]

The most rewarding surprise was at one of our pool parties. This guy took a turn with me and after he tried his best to impregnate me, we talked and realized we went to a Catholic High School together and knew each other. We've been friends on Facebook for about 10 years now and he has never wanted to bring it up. I'd be happy to talk to him about it. It was goooooooood. 

[njbm 2,871]

We met a couple and the woman turned out to be the former legal assistant for another lawyer in my office building. Her face was not clear in her SLS pictures and she used a short form of her name. We recognized each other immediately. Her boyfriend said we all had to play. He said “This is so wrong, we have to do it.” We did. We thought it was a great session, but there was never a round 2. 

[couplers 4,640]

Really cool how you're having sex while holding cum in your mouth.

[sdexcalibur 27]

I know you said no family but we ran into my wife’s cousin. We didn’t know 100% but they looked at each other And said out of anyone I can picture you being into this. 

[AVeryBiWifeandHerGuy 6]

When we first got into the Lifestyle a little over 2 years ago we joined the two local clubs in our area. The first club we joined only did hotel takeover parties. After attending a few of those and enjoying ourselves tremendously, we were interested in checking out the other group in our area that hosted private house parties every month, pool parties in the late spring and summer and house parties the rest of the months. We attended their annual open house pool party and ended up joining that night.
 

One of the parties everyone was talking about not missing out was the Halloween party that is at another member’s house who decks out the whole house with a certain theme each year. And because it was at a different house than the other parties, space was limited and and it was first people to buy tickets until the cutoff limit was reached got in. We found out that it was on a weekend she didn’t have to work so we bought our tickets ASAP and started planning our sexy costumes.

 

When it started getting close to the weekend of the party, we looked up the directions and all of a sudden realized we had been to the same neighborhood before. I turned to my wife and said “Oh the hosts of the party live near one of my brother’s oldest friend’s house.” Then I did a double take and realized it WAS his house. I searched the club’s website and confirmed it when I found their profile and recognized him and his wife.
 

We ended up sending them a message on the website so he wouldn’t be shocked seeing one of his childhood best friend’s younger brother and his wife show up to a Halloween swingers party at their house. He wrote us back almost immediately and said they were looking forward to seeing us and don’t worry what happens at these parties stays at these parties. He hope we would enjoy ourselves and many more of the club parties.

 

We now have become a lot closer to him and his wife due to our interests in the Lifestyle and always hang out together when we are at other swinger events. We even started going to his vanilla Halloween party the weekend before that my brother, his wife and their friends and family attend. We sometimes laugh watching people pose or take pictures in certain areas or with a display and think they wouldn’t want to do that if they knew how it was going to be used the following weekend!

 

And another time I ran into someone I knew, the club that hosts the hotel takeover parties I ended up reconnecting with old friend I used to run around with all the time in high school. We always catch up anytime we see each other at a party. Nothing like talking about old times hanging out together during the meet and greet dance and then watch each other having fun on the party floor later on.

[CBguy1983 1]

On 1/4/2018 at 7:49 PM, NatalieSilk said:

I'm a ballet teacher and teach around two dozen different students throughout the week. Meet a lot of parents and grandparents and such and we live in a smallish community. I go to church with a few of them as well. It was about two months after we started the lifestyle that we finally went to a club. It was a private club in the downtown area on the top floor of a office building.

 

We were pretty nervous when we went. It was very upscale, so we dressed very nice. Me in a nice black dress and my husband in a nice suit. We had to drop our kids off at my parents for the evening and told them we were going out on a date. Not really a lie, just omitting the details.

 

It was a nice evening and we honestly weren't planning on swinging, it was an option just wanted to get a better feel for the whole club aspect of this kinda life. We must have been there for about a half hour when i ran into one of the dads of the one of the girls i teach. Good looking guy, very nice, his wife is a tiny thing. Like half his height and so small but so cute. He was in dress slacks and a button down and she was in a lovely silver dress that accented the curves she had. Very lovely.

 

They were kinda blown away to see me there. (I also teach sunday school class sometimes and we've chatted from time to time when they came to pick up their daughter). It was totally awkward for a while. We felt obligated to talk and sit and chat. After maybe a half hour we were a bit more loose and they asked if we wanted to go to a private room. My husband wanted to mingle more but said it was ok if I went without him.

 

I went with them and we had a small room with a bed all to ourselves. The dad admitted he'd fantasized about me, especially seeing me in my ballet uniform and always wondered what was under it (cliche i know but hey, that's how guys think i guess). His wife and I decided to give him a little show and tell, so we stripped each other to our underwear. She was wearing a simple pair of silver thong panties that was it, she was flat up top. I was wearing a sheer lace top and black silk boy short panties. We kinda modeled for him, he laughed a bit at how silly we were being but got hard all the same.

 

I wasn't sure if i was honestly comfortable with having sex with him but figured giving him a bj wouldn't hurt. His wife and i got down and pulled his penis out, very nice size about the same as my husbands, and we both sucked him. Taking turned and also kissing around it. He absolutely loved it. I guess having his daughter's ballet teacher and sunday school teacher sucking his cock wasn't too intimidating for him after all.

 

It wasn't long after that (he didn't cum while we sucked him fyi) that i had my panties on the floor and was riding him. MMM. He was good. Not sure how but it felt like he got deeper even though he was about the same length as my husband. He held onto my hips tight and helped me bounce up and down on him while his wife and I kissed and fondled each other. We went bare mainly because we knew each other and also I'm just not a fan of condoms.

 

He fucked me for nearly a hour. Riding him, reverse cowgirl with his wife licking my clit, on my back legs open because he wanted a good view of him going into my bald pussy, and when i was laying on top of his wife making out and rubbing on her. He alternated between our pussys on that last one. He finally finished by fucking me doggy style and cumming inside me, a lot!

 

All of that was a bit awkward to be sure. But what made it more so was the next day at church. Haha. Not sure how you act normal coming to pick your daughter up from sunday school and looking a woman in the eye that you know still has your semen inside you from last night. For all our parts we played it pretty cool. I've seen them a few times after that.

I try to think psychology wise. Of course you'd be nervous to hook up with him. To me thats the rush of it. Everything would be awkward but you sure liked it. Which is why i wasnt surprised when you almost instinctively took your panties off. Once you start sucking your going to want to fuck. I applaud your husband though. Most men have insecurities about wife with another couple and not in there with them.

[CBguy1983 1]

On 3/2/2018 at 7:22 AM, findinganswers said:

We first started two years ago with friends. We were surprised who else we knew that played too. Surprised but never shocked. My wife used to worry about bumping into people she knew in business. I joked she should invite this one hot woman she worked with to a party. I never worried because if I met someone I knew, they were doing the same thing. My whole outlook on this life has surly evolved this past year.

At a recent house party, two couples came after some fun started. My wife came running to me. She scared the crap out of me. I thought someone did something to her that she didn’t like. She was in panicky excitement. She then pointed out a couple. It was my brother’s sister-in-law. My sister in laws sister. She was going into a room where everyone left their clothes. I went into denial. Couldn’t be her. It was!

I couldn’t ignore her. I know she was shocked to say the least when she saw us. I had to start some small talk. Both of us buck naked. Who was more red? We got past the nobody knows, my brother or her sister. She looked at my wife for approval and then grabbed me.

Hey, we’re not family.

thats cool. i remember my cousin got divorced. i being the noble family member tried to fix it by suggesting his sister babysit the kids and go on dates to save the marriage. he replied the damage was done it couldnt be saved. his wife moved out and his new girlfriend moved in. he already talked about marrying his new girlfriend. 2 months later his wife made a comment on one of my facebook posts. I decided to talk to her and get to know her. I didnt dive right in to the sex talk I usually let them gravitate towards it. She eventually did. Talking about their sex lives. Asked if that bothered me. I said no I hide alot from my family, Im just a private person. She asked so is the family right, are you a virgin? I replied hell no, again private. My sex life is no business of theirs. Im usually very open minded and hearing about my cousin and his ex wife doesnt bother me. So she turned it up talking about how her pussy is the bomb wanna see? Im a guy so hell yes i wanted to see. She sent a pic then replied youve seen mine so now can I see it? hell yes. One morning she messaged me asking when my next day home alone was. I told her...im straight to the point and asked so what you wanna hook up? She only said maybe. Im home alone and i hear the dogs go off. I ignore it till I hear a knock on my door. I go to answer and its her. I said Im surprised you came. We talked on the couch for a bit before she said so you wanna fuck? I didnt take long putting the dogs in the other room and grabbed my condoms. I came back in and we started kissing. The kissing that says we're not in love we're just gonna hook up for a release. My hands wound up between her legs which she offered no resistance in opening. I could feel her getting pretty wet. I took my clothes off followed by her. She had sent pics of her breasts but better to see them for real. I started sucking on her breasts as she started to moan. As im sucking she reaches out and starts stroking my cock. In my mind im still blown away that im probably gonna end up fucking her. She said let me taste you. I said no ladies first i wanna taste you. She laid back and I started kissing down her body. I started kissing between her legs and start lickin her up. It was a weird feeling but sex is sex. I ate her out for a good 10 minutes before she was begging to suck me. I finally gave in and it was heaven on earth. I let her suck me before i told her main event time and put my condom on. She said what are you doing? you do know i cant have kids anymore. i took the cue and tossed the condom. I rubbed it on her slit before slowly pushing in to her. It'd been so long so ive had sex Im always working. Starting with a slowly & steady pace. It was just instinct I started goin faster and had my hand on her throat. We fucked for a good 30 minutes before I let loose inside her. I knew my room mate wouldnt be home for a long time. So i let the dogs outside. Bout an hour later we're fucking again. My room mate was a sexual deviant herself so she wouldnt care. That was the only day we fucked. She said it was too awkward knowing im basically the uncle of 2 of her kids. My room mate came home. Stopped and sniffed the air. Said you had a female over didnt you? Yes! 

[couplers 4,640]

  

On 1/4/2018 at 8:49 PM, NatalieSilk said:

my back legs open

That's really doing it doggy!

[JessicaJamison 861]

So I've never done a swing club, but I was at a guy club one night called the triangle.  I am bisexual and was meeting a woman I had been seeing, we were dancing and went to the corner booth too make out a little bit.  As we were making out I realized some woman was watching us intently.  I didn't care so we kept going, finally I realized she was moving closer, I was feeling cheeky so I looked at her and said "would you like to join us."  Then I realized, much to my embarrassment, it was my boss.  I had just propositioned my direct supervisor..  turns out she was married and in the closet and came to that club to blow off steam.  To my surprise she said "I would but not if it causes issues for you at work."  I was floored.