What do you and your SO wear to bed?

[kikonkrome 844]

So fourteen years ago, give or take a kid or two, my wife and I spent our first night together.

 

On this night I asked rather succinctly 'So what do you wear to bed?'.

 

My now wife's reply burned, forever in my memory, was 'Nothing, it make's it easier for' pause ', you know?'.

 

So fast forward many years later and we still sleep naked and cuddle together for a half hour to an hour everyday.

 

I am curious, what do the others on this board wear to bed with their SO? Naked, old sweats, got some pj's?

 

1. Clothes? What are they?

 

2. My S.O.'s clothes

 

3. Sweat Pants, Underwear, Whatever

 

4. Pajamas, Nighty

 

5. Sexy Sleep Wear

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Hmmmm, it's complicated, no easy poll answer on this one

 

For him - naked all the time, doesn't matter what season it is. The only time he would have sweats or something on in bed is if he is in bed sick or something.

 

For her - she's cold natured, and it took a lot of convincing her that you can be more comfortable and perfectly warm (warmer actually I think) sleeping naked to get her to try it. That argument finally won out in summer, but come the cooler times of year, she wears a nightshirt or pj tops to bed. The panty thing sort of tracks that too; when it's cool but not cold, then nightshirt or pj top and nothing on bottom. Once it gets cold, here comes the panties

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Actually, that was an easy one. We dance around the house in our bones most of the time so beddy-bye time is no time to cover ourselves.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

She sleeps naked, I wear some undies that she really likes (at her request).

[sunbuckus 3,567]

Let's see...for Mr. Sun, there are three different ways he goes to bed. One is naked. One is with underwear. And one is with shorts and a shirt if one of our kids is scared and wants to sleep with us.

 

For me, sometimes I sleep naked. Sometimes I'll sleep with a nightie and panties. Sometimes just a nightie with no panties. And sometimes with just panties. Sometimes I find it sexier to go to bed with just a nightie on. Other times, I like just wearing panties because that there is just something alluring about feeling a man peel off my panties to have sex. I usually don't feel sexy going to bed naked.

[asncpl 729]

Naked for both of us. I just like the feeling of bedsheets on my skin.

[ZoDee 81]

Hmmmm, it's complicated, no easy poll answer on this one

 

For him - naked all the time, doesn't matter what season it is. The only time he would have sweats or something on in bed is if he is in bed sick or something.

 

For her - she's cold natured, and it took a lot of convincing her that you can be more comfortable and perfectly warm (warmer actually I think) sleeping naked to get her to try it. That argument finally won out in summer, but come the cooler times of year, she wears a nightshirt or pj tops to bed. The panty thing sort of tracks that too; when it's cool but not cold, then nightshirt or pj top and nothing on bottom. Once it gets cold, here comes the panties

 

Basically ditto of above,

 

Mr;- never liked bedclothes to be twisting up all night, bit of a toss & turner.

Boxers on hand for those unexpected departure from the bedroom when staying away or with friends.

 

Mrs:- Always something sexy, cool weather requires it might also get a bit longer & warmer.

Always with the panties though, despite there may be a few times in the night they need to be on & off.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

We generally sleep nekkid, but occasionally put a little something on (t-shirt and loose jammie bottoms or loose shorts for me, t-shirt and panties for the Mrs.) if the house is chilly. Either way, I am confident that we can find our way in to the naughty bits if the mood strikes!

[vanillaknot 99]

The household is nude. We don't put clothes on ever when we can avoid it.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

The household is nude. We don't put clothes on ever when we can avoid it.

i like your new avatar, VanillaKnot.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Me: Not a damn thing.

Her: Almost always in PJs.

[EastInWest 1,524]

I've always had a rule that if a woman is sleeping in my bed, we're sleeping nude.

 

Mrs. EastInWest adjusted quickly.

[econobiker 165]

Wow, Red and I are considerably more cheesy than most wearing for summertime mostly shorts, sweat pants, t-shirts, sweatshirts, even down to hooded sweat shirts and long underwear during the winter.

 

This is a result of the crappy houses with bad insulation or nice houses with terminally ill furnace heater units which we ended up living in as so not to bankrupt ourselves on electric bills. Plus Red is cold natured enough for me to have gotten her US military specification or surplus extreme cold weather under clothing (like sweat shirts that keep heat in. Red is ALL about the warmth, not the sexiness when we're home alone together.

 

We are so glad that we live in the very temperate southeast usa...

[JandKinBoise 858]

One of our vows was to never sleep with clothes. She's always cold so extra blankets and I sleep with one leg out for cooling.

[Guest Zonapellucida]

Night clothes are unnecessary. We sleep naked in my home .

 

[adamgunn 1,460]

I'm naked, she's got something sexy on.

[PeterJ 940]

My wife wears a tee-shirt but no bottoms, which provides easy access to her lower lady parts. Unless it’s unusually cold in the house and I wear an oversize tee-shirt, I haven’t regularly worn any clothing to bed since I left the military more than 40 years ago.

[padoc 1,703]

Mrs Doc sleeps naked . Im just happy to be there!!

[couplers 4,614]

a t-shirt

[RockNCpl 71]

For me, it depends on the mood. Naked occasionally, just boxers more often than not or shorts and one of my tshirts from my 20's that I refuse to bet rid of...eg..., "Hey Elmo, Tickle This (arrow pointing down)".

 

Mrs Rock almost always wears sweat pants and a hoodie, even in the middle of summer! Occasionally, i can get her to sleep naked or in a tank top and panties (the latter being my fav for her)

[Fla-swing99 136]

I, Mrs. Flswing, prior to meeting Mr. Flswing always wore shorts and a T-shirt to bed. I unfortunately was not in a happy marriage at the time so I felt sleeping naked would prompt some unwanted attention. My first night sleeping with Mr Flswing I slept naked. It was the first time in 15 years I had done that and although it initially made me feel uncomfortable that quickly changed that very same night as we spooned each other through the night. Since that night, it’s been naked all the way and the same for Mr Flswing. It’s been 10 years now and we both still very much love being able to cuddle up to each other through the night, feeling each other’s warm body next to our own, the warmth of the skin, the feeling of comfort and relaxation. We would not want it any other way.

[CB&DD 218]

We both sleep naked.

[Ems1485 37]

We’ve always slept naked. I personally can’t stand wearing anything in bed not even socks, I somehow take them off when I’m sleeping - without me knowing. The only thing that seems to stay on are holdup / stay up stockings, and yet if I was to wear tights they somehow have come off when I’m asleep.

[Numex 2,409]

"What do you and your SO wear to bed?"

My favorite is when my wife is wearing the smell of another woman. Naughty girl.

[Ems1485 37]

"What do you and your SO wear to bed?"

My favorite is when my wife is wearing the smell of another woman. Naughty girl.

I like the smell of another woman on my husband, be it her perfume or just the smell of her vagina after he’s dropped his boxers. It’s horrible I know but it’s dirty and naughty knowing his just come home after been inside another woman

[couplers 4,614]

I like the smell of another woman on my husband, be it her perfume or just the smell of her vagina after he’s dropped his boxers. It’s horrible I know but it’s dirty and naughty knowing his just come home after been inside another woman

Call me weird, but after David or Red has finished with Lora or Clair, that's when I love to immediately get him in my mouth and taste it, take in what they were doing, and hopefully start a round for myself. (Going down on her is nice too.)

[PSULioness 839]

It depends on many thing. He goes to bed in his CK boxer briefs then on most nights we have some fun before falling asleep and he will fall asleep naked.

I need socks no matter if it’s cold or warm, my feet are always cold. I also have a sleep shirt when it’s warm. Now that it’s getting colder I have sweats and will put them back on after sex. I also have a onesie with a drop seat. He thinks it’s sexy.

My stand in friend, the one who keeps me company when my husband travels sleeps nude.

[lovefest04 697]

She sleeps in t-shirt and panties. I sleep in 'panties' (Secret Male style panties is all I wear these days) or naked.

[TricianMike 772]

Joke: what are you wearing tonight? You’re putting me on!

 

I need to wear something when I sleep. My usual is a tee like gown or a tee and cotton shorts. I also have sleep sweats.

Mike either is nude or his underwear.

[JessicaJamison 861]

We go to bed Naked

[JessicaJamison 861]

On 11/4/2019 at 9:32 AM, Ems1485 said:

I like the smell of another woman on my husband, be it her perfume or just the smell of her vagina after he’s dropped his boxers. It’s horrible I know but it’s dirty and naughty knowing his just come home after been inside another woman

Me to woman! Me too.  I live when my husband comes to bed smelling like another woman and sex.  That makes me so wet.  

[The other side of us 23]

Me naked, Mrs shorts and a vest, occasionally naked.

[J&Wu 408]

I was always a pj or gym short sleeper but Wu was and is a hot little number, when I saw her heading for the sheets the first time au naturel I left the shorts in the bag and never looked back. She always keeps me warm/hot! Actually I did have to pull out the shorts for the year in Viet Nam and 6 months non accompanied in Germany, up and down nights, boots by the bed.

[Fundamental Law 2,885]

Our preference: nude* when sleeping together, a t-shirt when we are apart. The reason for the t-shirt--warmth. There is a narrow band of temperature on our torsos that provide for our greatest comfort while asleep. How much we cuddle or drift apart in the bed is a reflection of the search for that ideal sleep temperature. It has been this way for nearly 50 years. 

 

*With age comes the probability that one or both partners will be prescribed CPAP to manage obstructive sleep apnea. So, "nude except for prescribed assistive device".  For those who are thinking "Ewww...", a reminder: not everyone is granted the gift of seniorhood.  No, CPAP is not "sexy". But one wears CPAP to sleep, not for play. 

[NYirCPL 38]

Him:  always naked

Her:  naked or bottomless with a tank top on

[David Lovell 160]

Last night I was watching TV and Amy came into the room wearing silver high-heels and silver bra and panties. I asked what was the occasion and she said Ken's  birthday party.  Lesley will be wearing a gold outfit.

We are invited to a swinging celebration next Saturday. Amy said there will be five or six couples. Might be the  igbest party we have attended.

[let's do it again 414]

3 minutes ago, David Lovell said:

Last night I was watching TV and Amy came into the room wearing silver high-heels and silver bra and panties. I asked what was the occasion and she said Ken's  birthday party.  Lesley will be wearing a gold outfit.

We are invited to a swinging celebration next Saturday. Amy said there will be five or sixce couples. Might be the  igbest party we have attended.

Keep us updated on your swinging party, sounds like a blast.