Any lifestyle action at Sandals or Beaches?

[phizzle 15]

My wife is a travel agent for Sandals and Beaches resorts. Has anyone had any lifestyle experiences at any of them? I am trying to get her there for some experience, but can't really openly say that's my motivation to her. But once in the situation, she's completely open. We just need to know where I have the best chances.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

We have not been to either of those resorts, but we have been to a romantic resort on St. Lucia. I got the impression that there was no more lifestyle activity taking place there than at any other vanilla resort. If you're looking for a sexy resort that is not explicitly lifestyle-friendly, but might have some swinging going on behind closed doors, perhaps a nudist, topless-permitted, or clothing-optional resort might be a good bet.

 

I might also caution you against springing a swinging scenario on your wife. That is often a formula for disaster! It might be better for you to discuss your interest in swinging with your wife, see if she is interested in the idea, and have both of you on board with the notion before you pack your bags.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

If you want Mexican food, don't go to McDonalds. If you want a resort that features either nudity or swinging, don't go to a resort that has a program for kids.

[Guest]

By comparison, you can go some place like Desires and treat it as a swingers place or treat it as a nude or topless place. In any case, you should both decide on where you are going and what the expectations are.

[J&JSwinginPA 18]

If you want Mexican food, don't go to McDonalds. If you want a resort that features either nudity or swinging, don't go to a resort that has a program for kids.

 

I had a literal LOL with that response.

 

Go to Sandals Negril, walk to the beach, hang a right, walk the few hundred yards to Hedonism 2 and buy a day/night pass, easy peasy, LOL

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

We've been to Sandal's. It's very nice, and there are no kids allowed. However, people mostly keep to themselves. I can't imagine there is swinging going on. If she can get a good discount, I would go to Sandals (Beaches is for families). it would be good for her business to be able to give her clients first hand knowledge and you may be able to write her part of the trip off on taxes (I am not an accountant, talk to yours). Use the time to really get to know each other, romance and sex and connect. Talk about everything and bring up swinging as a conversation, not as something you want. If she wants it, talk about how you can pursue it on your next vacation.

 

 

I agree that your wife needs to know what she is getting into before springing a swinging vacation on her.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

...not swinging vacation, a nude or topless vacation (that has an optional swinging component)

[Baconheads 438]

I had a literal LOL with that response.

 

Go to Sandals Negril, walk to the beach, hang a right, walk the few hundred yards to Hedonism 2 and buy a day/night pass, easy peasy, LOL

 

Kick ass! I just booked with Sandals Negril in April. I knew Hedo was up there too, but didn't realize it was literally right next door. I heard of a guy that was walking along the beach with his wife, staring at a naked girl, and broke his toe stubbing it on a banyan root!

[diablodel3 16]

We went to Sandals Negril for our honeymoon. We didn't know that Hedo was next door, just got lucky. It was the off season in sept. so there was nothing to see on the Hedo beach. As for sandals, the only thing we saw was a topless woman late at night, on the porch of one of the higher end rooms that had a pool just off their porch. For a vacation destination, it's wonderful and peaceful. For a swingers location, it's gonna leave you disappointed unless you are meeting a couple.