Are we doing it wrong?

[WannaPlay4Fun 15]

The wife and myself have been trying to get involved in the lifestyle. She has been to so many different sites, it's crazy!! I think we now have about two whole notebook pages worth of user names and passwords. And yet, nothing happens. Well almost nothing. It's always, upgrade this or upgrade that.

How do we get acquainted with some folks? Oh, and by the way, we are virgins to the lifestyle. lol. We would really like to meet a couple with expierence at this, for our first time. There was one guy who answered the message my wife sent. He told her he would love to introduce us to the lifestyle,but would have to ask his wife first. She never heard from him again. So aggravating.

Any help on this is appreciated. Thank you

[Brimba 30]

The wife and myself have been trying to get involved in the lifestyle. She has been to so many different sites, it's crazy!! I think we now have about two whole notebook pages worth of user names and passwords. And yet, nothing happens. Well almost nothing. It's always, upgrade this or upgrade that.

How do we get acquainted with some folks? Oh, and by the way, we are virgins to the lifestyle. lol. We would really like to meet a couple with expierence at this, for our first time. There was one guy who answered the message my wife sent. He told her he would love to introduce us to the lifestyle,but would have to ask his wife first. She never heard from him again. So aggravating.

Any help on this is appreciated. Thank you

 

Forget it in here. Just start going to Swingers Clubs or Resorts or make your own little parties. You might also want to go to some swingers events and like functions. Let me know okay.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,027]

WELCOME, WannaPlay4Fun, to the Swingersboard. Pleased to have your here.

 

I just had a look at your SLS profile. Don't believe that my wife and I would send a note to a profile like yours. It falls short in several ways.

 

The members here try to be helpful and you have asked what are you doing wrong. We have a discussion entitled Couples Profile Reviews in the Swinging Online forum. You might ask the members to review one or two of your profiles by posting a message there. I do believe it will help.

 

~Michael

[GoldCoCouple 4,072]

It's not easy but that makes it even more rewarding when it works out. Be patient and find one or two sites that have a fair amount of people in your area and concentrate on those sites only.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Welcome, WannaPlay4Fun! Do you have any swingers clubs in your area? Have you checked out any of the local Meet and Greets? Those are the two places we went to when we first started.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

It's not easy but that makes it even more rewarding when it works out. Be patient and find one or two sites that have a fair amount of people in your area and concentrate on those sites only.

 

Got to agree. Look over the sites & pick a couple with the largest number of people registered in you area. Also look at any indicator of people looking at your page. Also would recommend picking a site with discussion forums. Read those & participate with questions ect... I noticed after I'd posted for a few months on the forums at SZC people started communicating with me.