Curious couple about mfm

[AbbyandJulian 17]

Well I figured what better place to ask my question / our question than here. After many months of bringing up the idea of swinging, Abby finally became interested or at least more into it. So I could write all the details but here are the main key points.

 

She is one of those women that is absolutely not into women, like at all. Couples swing was out and to be honest Not a deal breaker for me. So as one of my fantasies I finally told her I would like to see her with another guy and myself as a mfm. She seems to like the idea but of course the details are rough and we figured we could work our way up to it. Parts of ironing out the details meant interests in the kind of guy, so far she likes Spanish or Latin guys (she is very white but it's her fetish), she is more into uncut penises than cut but not a deal breaker and she would like the guy to have a thicker one rather than a long one. Must be a stranger for a one time thing and we have to be in control the whole time including our privacy.

 

Since then we have started to use a dildo for anal play during sex as a DP and needless to say she lasts about 10 seconds before she has the most serious orgasms. During sex we have talked about her getting it from another guy and she kinda likes it but is still shy. Now my questions...I am very into this fantasy but I have no idea how I will feel after seeing her with another guy, sucking him or even seeing her just cum on someone else's dick. To be honest I am not the super jealous guy and I am always encouraging her to dress sexier and even show the most skin possible lol but idk how it'll be until that moment. How did you guys feel?

 

Abby wants me to ask you ladies, did you feel any loss of respect for your man after the fact for wanting to share? We have been together 10 years mind you and have been exclusive to one another.

 

Ans for the guys, once that first orgasm happens and the fantasy fades. There is a 5 min the period where there's no more desire and I am worried i will cum and ahe will continue to fuck and I'm gonna be jealous. How to handle this? I'm sure I'll be horny again and I will get back to the game but how to handle that small period of time.

 

I'm sorry for the long post.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Common question that is asked fairly often. Search is your friend. As long as you both feel 100% committed to your relationship, it's just sex. No matter how big, how good, how long it takes, it's just sex. She's coming home with you and usually feels more in love since you are both sharing this together. So few couples have a relationship strong enough where you can talk about this, let alone DO it. While it's something you will never know the answer to until AFTER you are done (Pandora's box), as long as you have trust in each other and can talk about it, it usually will be just fine. Most of the couples who are into the MFM thing don't only do it the one time, but continue to do it. There's nothing wrong with wanting your partner to experience their fantasies. What could be wrong with watching someone you love enjoy themselves with your permission? I'm sure you will have others chime in here, but as long as your relationship is strong and the communication is continuing things should be just fine.

[JandKinBoise 859]

Hello. I think it's cool that you are getting so prepared for this. How you will feel about seeing her having great sex with someone else is impossible to gauge. If you aren't jealous, aren't insecure, you will probably feel fine. I was surprised that my strongest feeling was pride.

 

Concerning how to deal with the 'post orgasm' period, my solution for that is to not come. We have had dozens of MFMs and I probably have had 3 or 4 orgasms. When I did though, it was not big deal. Good luck and have fun!

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Abby wants me to ask you ladies, did you feel any loss of respect for your man after the fact for wanting to share? We have been together 10 years mind you and have been exclusive to one another.

 

 

Actually, I felt a lot of love for Mr. Sun that he would be so accepting to share me and desire to see me "sexually blossom" in my sexual wants. I always felt that I had to "hide" the fantasies that I did because I thought he would be hurt or offended. When we were finally at that place in our relationship to be open and honest with each other, our relationship went to the next level--trust, communication, love, openness, and respect.

 

However, I think it also depends on the mindset of the people within the relationship. Others are not ready or desirous of non-monogamy and just talking about it can be disastrous.

[AbbyandJulian 17]

Thank you so much for your response. That is partly what I want to ensure happens as we are both into the idea. We have become very close and even creating this account where we both participate and even talk about the taboo subjects like sharing the wife. Our last love making involved a dildo and before the play I actually asked her if she wanted the small one or the big one (knowing it was for anal DP) she said pick any, so I laughed and picked the bigger one. During sex I used the big dildo in her ass and in less than a minute she had cum so hard. The funny part is how big this dildo is and while she is in sex frenzy mode she just wants it all the way in, very little stretching. Right after she just told me omg that was amazing, it feels like going empty to very full very fast. Mind you that's probably the first time she even mentions the kinkiness of the DP as she is shy. So I'm guessing we are in the right direction.

[love2dp 53]

Hell yeah you are! Oh how I hope this all goes sooo well for you. Hottest sex I've ever had has been doing DP. There just is nothing like it. Pure ecstasy, at least for me it was. For my girlfriend it sure seemed to be too. And she said she loved when we talked about it later after my buddy left. I'm sure he enjoyed it greatly too. Enough so we did it again several times. That ex girlfriend and I had sex daily and often times several times a day. I would have been more then happy to share her everyday if I could do that everyday. DP just gets my cock hard period. LOVE IT! Hence the screen name lol! I think every woman would love it. The attention, the filled pussy.

[Curiouscouple84 15]

Interesting article, we're mom curious. Alot of good info and advice on here. I hope you find what your looking for