Ice breaker question ideas?

[sprinklez69 23]

Some people are nervous and have a hard time breaking the ice for a fun swinger night when finally behind closed doors.

 

A couple has invited a third or another couple over to their home. This couple pulled out cue cards to help learn more about each other and maybe get some ideas of what everyone would want to do that night.

 

What questions should be on these cards as ice breakers and fantasy builders for that night or future nights?

 

Example: You're in your naughty school girl outfit behind a closed door with two men.

If you were the woman would you want them to take control of you or would you want to use them as toys?

 

If you are one of the men, would you want another to take control or would you?

 

What positions would each of you need to happen tonight?

 

p.s. These questions could be used with just you and your partner if you wanted.

[kikonkrome 844]

Wow that's kinda straight forward!! Seems like it would be fun for an intimate group.

 

How about favorite sex positions? Hottest sex you have ever had? What's the most attractive feature of the people in the room?

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Maybe something like "Who'd you rather?" using well known public figures and contrasting young and buff vs older and distinguished, loud and funny persona vs quiet and thoughtful, and so on. Since it's just a hypothetical, it's not as intimidating, and would give some clues to what they like and what their style between the sheets might be.

[Alura 2,775]

I've posted about this incident before, but I will assume you, SprinkleZ69, have not seen it. My apologies to the more tenured folks.

 

My wife and I had visited a regular play-couple in their home, understanding it was to be a play-date. Drapes had been drawn and candles placed around the room. It was warm, quite different from the weather outside.

 

We sat on their sectional, Mrs. Alura with Ron and I with Linda, and talked about politics, road conditions, the rodeo that was in town, last month's gas bill and the Tulsa Public Schools.

 

"Hey, y'all!" said Laura. "Our kids are with Grandma and we have to pick them up in two hours. If y'all want some pussy, we need to get to fucking."

 

Of course, everybody thought it was funny as hell. It set the tone for the evening. Get naked and have fun!

 

Linda put Ravel's "Bolero," on the stereo.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

. . .

Linda put Ravel's "Bolero," on the stereo.

My apologies also to to the people having tenure as I know that I have said this before. Bolero is "climax" music.

[econobiker 165]

Favorite sexy shoes, clothing, underwear type? color? And "Why? Requiring an explanation.

 

Or download/copy questions from those online "how kinky are you?" questionnaires/surveys to ask eachother, maybe.

[afterwork 89]

I listened to Mr Afterwork ask one of the ladies in our five couple house party if she had tried the homemade green onion dip he had made. When she said, "Yes, it's really good.". He replied, Well the, I guess we have the same breath. Want to go play?"

 

Off they went and that launched everyone else in the room reaching for the onion dip. He is a clown, but effective.

[yorktownvaguy 76]

In my very first mmf situation the couple wanted to swing with someone who was uncut. We barely sat down on the couch at their home or she scooted over towards me and said: "show me what you got" and it proceeded from there.