Older I become the more I am interested in the same sex?

[Havasmoke 29]

I have found that the older I get the more interested in male bisexuality I become. Not too long ago, I would have been disgusted by the thought. Now, I find myself watching bisexual videos and am fascinated by the action. I want to try sucking a cock. I think about it a lot. I see lots of ads on Craigslist for guys like me that want to do this. I love everything about women but I still keep thinking about sucking a cock! Anyone else find this to be true as they've gotten older?

[kikonkrome 844]

I thought this was interesting topic and would love to hear people's responses!!

[love2dp 53]

Not going to lie. I've watched and jerked to gay porn a few times. I love the super raunchy dirty filthy porn. Gangbangs, DP, DVP, even DA, even though it is not my favorite, it hot and filthy so I love it. I've done anal play with toys many many times. Just don't know if I could bring myself to do a guy or not, or let him do me. Or take a dick in my mouth. It would have to be just the right guy. I have really no idea who or what that is either.

 

I'm sure anal sex feels sooo fucking good. It feels good to the women I've had anal sex with for sure. I just wish you could have anal sex without it being "Gay" lol.

 

I'm sure I'd have sex much more often. But the promiscuity of gay men and being with them also frightens me. I'd rather meet and find a buddy just like me in my shoes, straight but willing to play but be totally monogamous with this side play with me. Other than that we chase woman together or something. Maybe even DP some ladies together.

 

I'm a shop guy. I am a man's man. I ride dirt bikes and am a machinist and welder by trade. I have my own personal fabrication shop. Gay is the farthest thing from who I am. But sex, haha, I said but sex. I mean sex, even gay sex, anal sex, oral sex is sex. Sex is fucking hot as hell. If it wasn't hot and fun to do with guy on guy, no guys would be doing it. But it apparently is.

 

I just love the female body and beauty and femininity. Men are just gross to me. Freakin hairy and all. Whiskery facial hair, male body odor, nasty. What the hell makes you ladies even like us anyway? lol! If I was a female I would be a lesbian. I'm a male lesbian now hahaha. I love woman.

 

As soon as gay becomes totally whatever, accepted without a second thought, I might try it. Doubt this will ever happen though. I was molested by a gay man, so I have serious issues with anything gay. But I also am a very sexual man. I love sex and anything and everything about it. But guy on guy stops me in my tracks. Maybe I could do a hot tranny shemale. More like a woman. Hell I don't know! lol And I am older as well. 48.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Came back to same sex play after a 30+ year hiatus. Had a bi history, along with group sex, back in my twenties. Drifted away from all that & was both straight & monogamous for many decades, but early last year I had a opportunity to revisit it with a acquaintance & found I am still comfortable having sex with a man.

[yorktownvaguy 76]

I had a very mild bi-curious tendency when I was younger. This was partially caused by the fact that my brother was raped by a guy and partially caused by my interest in swinging with couples. In my young fantasies I always needed to prove to the guy I was worthy of sleeping with his women by first sleeping with him. It never came to that, but those were my younger fantasies.

 

Fast forward to now. I am 62 and yes, I have become much more bi curious over the years and approximately 15 years ago taken the plunge and for the first time I had a 3-some with a couple with a bi guy. They made me feel comfortable. She started out playing with me and gently handed me over to her husband. It felt very natural. He let me touch him, but did not push it, knowing it was my first experience as well. It was an absolutely great introduction to the bi lifestyle. I never looked back.

 

Since then I have been with a number of couples. Regretfully, I have no steady couple, but that's ok. I've done mostly oral and fucked the women. I have fucked a guy once and been fucked by a guy once. The guy on guy stuff was always safe (using condoms) and I greatly enjoyed getting fucked. The fucking itself is the same, love it, but it is not really a new experience.

 

All I can say and I have said it somewhere else on this site before. When I walk outside, am on the beach, look online, I'll go gaga over (I'm turned on by) a woman's body, physic, lips, butt, pussy, boobs etc., but I am never turned on by a man's body or any of his attributes. So yes in bed it's fun to be with a guy so now and then, especially in a 3-some situation and in showing off to the lady, but I could not survive without a woman.

[JandKinBoise 859]

I was curious when I was young but would shunt those feelings. I don't know if I became more curious as I aged or not. I had a gay friend, which was an open door to go thru, which I did. Then there was Al Gore's invention that suddenly made casual sex as easy as a few clicks and a moderately intelligent e-mail away. Had I not met a slutty gay man and the internet had not been introduced, I may still be fully straight. and wondering

[B3300 22]

Long time lurker on Swingersboard but a first time poster. I felt compelled to post here as I am very Bi-curious and at age 61 been thinking of it for several years now. My wife and I are not longer in the lifestyle and she knows nothing of my curiosity, but still the fascination seems to be building. I don't want to go with a guy 1 to 1 as I think that would be akin to cheating. I have however jacked on cam with other guys and enjoyed the feeling and watching them come at the same time. Sorry for the rambling, but I guess it will remain hidden unless I can talk the wife into getting back into the lifestyle and then see what she thinks of my curiosity.

[love2dp 53]

So the curiosity has started to make me watch more gay porn. I've even started browsing CL in the men for men just to see what's out there. Even answered an ad. Guy responded, I responded back. Right before sending the first email I got super nervous! Even said in my email I got super amped heartrate up just sending it. What was I doing and thinking!!! But I did it anyway. There is a first time for everything. I'm pretty sure I'd prefer top then bottom. I would imagine if I can get past it's a dude I'm fucking, that a guy's asshole feels the same as a woman's. And I LOVE having anal with a woman.

 

Was searching for a white hairless younger late 20's up guy. I hate hairy pussy, and a dude that's hairy is revolting to me. A pink hairless white dude not so much. This is some serious experimenting with my sexuality. IF, I say IF I try it, it may end up being a one time thing. It may turn into a regular thing if I like it. Women are #1 for me but if it is safe and fun.....we will see. Thoughts please? Am I treading where I shouldn't? One meeting with this person will tell me whether I will or won't continue. I'm not confused about my sexuality or anything like that. I love women.

 

But I also love sex. Sex with a dude is still sex. I'm sure a guy who loves sucking cock can suck a cock but good. I just know I like seeing a woman do it. Watching porn I really only like seeing anal. Male cock sucking disturbs me still. Actually it's the cumming in a guy's mouth I find just gross. The sucking is fine. I'll eat my own creampie out of my woman's pussy but do not want a dude coming in my mouth. My asshole if I go there .....cool if I enjoy it. This has got my adrenaline going. I sure get hard watching guys dp a guy just like a woman being anally dp'ed. Like I say I like it naughty. The dirtier the better.

[love2dp 53]

Anybody? lol! I'm nervous as all hell about this. I've contacted 2 other ads. WTF am I doing?!?! Watch me be some cock slut lol! FUCK ME! DID I JUST SAY THAT!?!? LOL!!! Kidding! I'm just kidding!! hahahaha! This is two nuts hahaha...get it... two nuts! lol! Oh fuck I guess I just need some cock...WTF IS THAT!?!? I DIDN'T MEAN TO SAY THAT!!!! HAHAHAHA! oH FUCK i AM HIGH! lol Some beautiful sexy woman's sweet tasting wet pussy would really be very very nice though. My favorite. Oh how I miss it so lol!

 

A thought?....I could increase the opportunity for sex by a lot with the male population... I like fucking women's asses...Hmmmm. I know how to tongue a soft serve ice cream like nobodies business, none of my women have ever complained about my oral. In fact its been openly given compliments always, So I have "Good mouth skills " I know. I've always known hehehehe....hmmmm. Women are so much softer. Men stink. Take a freakin shower jeez lol! I'm only doing it if we shower first period. No stinky balls on my chin god damnit! lol! God knows I love to lick and tease a woman asshole. FUCKING LOVE IT!!! So I KNOW a guy would like it. Hell I'd lick my own asshole if I could. I AM jealous of dogs!!! Little fuckers. Dog in thought..., "Oh I feel like tonguing my asshole right now in front of these fucking humans". Fucking show off! LOL!

[B3300 22]

I know how you feel; I went as far as putting an ad on a gay site and saying that I was curious. After getting 5 responses from the same guy I took it down. It made me kind of nervous like I was being stalked right out of the gate. I like looking at CL but I would never answer an ad there.

[love2dp 53]

Well I got no further response so I will probably just leave well enough alone. I'll remain a virgin for now lol!!!

[sohorny 21]

AS one who gets older (60 yrs young) one gets more attracted to the thought of bi sex. I find myself looking at bi porn, also transexual porn. Probably will go all the way one day...soon.

 

Wife knows and it turns her on...she mentioned she wanted to see two males together about 35 years or so ago.