Men, how long is your refractory period?
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sunbuckus, in Let's Talk About Sex
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By km34
Ms. Julie's thread about being able to stay hard after cumming made me think about the few times Keith has managed to orgasm without actually ejaculating which leads to him having multiple orgasms in one session, with no break at all needed in between.
I was wondering if any other men have been able to do this. I know I've read about techniques where men can learn to isolate the muscles but it is supposed to be a rather tedious process. The times it has happened to us have been purely accidental.
If you have been able to do this, what do you think causes it? Did you learn to do it or is it a specific activity or situation that allows it?
I think if more men were able to do this the whole "sex is over when the man cums" idea could be overturned sooooo much easier!
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By foozballnow
In your experience with swinging, either being the guy yourself, or the woman experiencing it, when does the guy normally cum? Do you have the woman perform oral and cum through there so you last longer for sex? Do you let the woman get you started with oral but only cum during sex? Or do you skip oral completely and just cum through sex. Normally we cum through sex, but sometimes the girl is really good at oral so I (male) don't know to make her stop or let it go...Just curious what the rest of you do in a similar situation.
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By iIANVARIVS
I’m curious as to how to handle an issue of not being able to cum. With my wife I am able cum somewhere between five and ten minutes. When I play with others it seems impossible to achieve orgasm. A condom is definitively part of the problem. When we play with couples we don’t know very well we always use condoms. I don’t think the condom is the real issue though. We have a close play couple that have been our friends for over fifteen years. We full swap with this couple without protection. Even without wearing a condom it takes me upwards of a half hour to cum. Even then, to cum in a half hour I have to fuck hard and I’m not sure she’s enjoying twenty plus minutes of pounding.
I don’t know why but I start to feel pressure to wrap things up and that seems to make things worse. My wife and the other guy are done and it seems like everyone is waiting for me to pop.
How do I tell our play friends I’d rather not always cum? At first I was thinking yeah, I'm Superman. Now it's stressing me out. Nobody wants to feel stressed when they're playing. I'd prefer to fuck long enough to know we’ve all had fun and then just quit. I’ll finish later with my wife. I don’t want to offend anyone. It’s not her, it’s me…
And… why does this not happen with my wife. She can climb on top of me and slowly ride me to orgasm in five minutes???
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By cavalier2004
What is the best way to make a guy cum just by oral? My guy doesn't like to have intercourse when I have my period but I still want to make him cum. So here are the questions.
How do I make him cum with oral? How long should it take? I'm always giving him blowjobs and he says it is great but he doesn't cum.
And also, do guys like to do it when the girl has her period. Intercourse and/or oral?
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By M1F2KTJ
Are there any husbands or "bulls" that stay hard after they cum? I've cum in my wife, embarrassingly, after only a few strokes, to get the party started. I tried hard not to but the excitement of knowing she was going to be getting fucked by another man was more than I could resist.
If he wasn't ready at first, watching her getting fucked usually made him hard enough to take my place. Most first timers with her didn't last long either. Watching her getting fucked was keeping me hard and after he came in her she thought the party was over but I wanted to fuck her again.
She was really wet and I could barely feel her at first but I was able to stay hard and fuck her longer than I did the first time. I noticed that he was still hard also so after a while I let him take a turn. We fucked her for hours until she became so sore from the friction that she begged us to stop. That is when I rolled her over and fucked her ass.
Fucking her ass made me cum again. He was still hard and fucked her ass also after I was done but couldn't cum again. She called a time out and the party was over (as the sun came up)
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