Asian interracial swinging

[cathaycouple 17]

Hi, we are an Asian interracial couple..husband white Canadian, wife Japanese.

 

We are curious about other Asian interracial couples' experiences with swinging in North America and in Asia, not only Japan, particularly those of couples whose wife wasn't raised in North America. Although people will differ in background and upbringing,and thus people's feelings will differ, we'd like to know what you went through in discussing the subject (perhaps it was the same as couples from the same culture), how the wife felt, and if you know of any forums/sites/blogs/pic exchanges/real swinger pic sites that could assist in this foray of ours. We are in our 40s, so would particularly value the experience and views of those close to our age, but of course, insight from all are welcome and appreciated.

 

We are members of Swingasia, but it doesn't have a forum section, unfortunately.

 

Thanks for your help.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Hi and welcome to the forum, cathaycouple. I'm sorry I can't help with the "wife wasn't raised in North America" part of your question but hopefully members who fit the bill will come forth and help you out. The only thing I can imagine for those who have wives that were not born in North America yet have an Asian heritage is that if their husband brought it up, they might feel obligated to "go along" with him because he is considered the head of the household--if they were raised to view the male as the head and to follow his desires and instructions.

[asncpl 730]

We don't exactly fit the bill here either since we are not an interracial couple, but we had some swinging experiences in Asia and Sun's comment that many Asian wives feel obligated to "go along" is pretty spot on from my experience of getting to know them. It's not uncommon for husbands to keep mistresses in Asia, especially the wealthier ones, and many of the women feel that it's either go swing WITH their husbands or be left in the dark.

 

I think you have to do what's comfortable for you, given your and your spouse's different background and cultural upbringing.

[falcon50 16]

We are new to this but horny and very willing to try with right couple. Wife is asian, I am mixed. We want someone who is patient. Want same room swing first, then try other experiences.

[hkdilbert 182]

This is the husband writing here. We are an interracial couple (American husband and wife from the Philippines). I've been living in the region for over 25 years now and from what I can see there is no hard and fast rule. For that matter I think this goes everywhere. With that said there are regions where either due to a more prudish upbringing (Hong Kong for instance) or strong religious beliefs (Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia) it can be more difficult to get past that mental block. The various religions seem to treat sex as a bad thing, which takes a bit of coming to grips with. Then in our case there is the fear of friends or family back home finding out (this is our main roadblock at the moment). We're waiting for the time we can get away to Hedo for a couple of weeks (half a world away from home) to work this issue out.

 

As far as the comment about Asian wives going along as they feel obligated - I'm sure they exist (as they do in other regions) however I've yet to meet one. If one were to try to convince my wife (or ex-Chinese wife) that they had an 'obligation' to go along, the results would not be pretty....

[twohots4u2 188]

My Asian GF was the one who suggested we go to a swing club. We had driven past it and she asked about the name on the marque. That was 10 years ago. She had been in past relationships where the guys cheated on her. I think she felt that if we swung, I would remain sexually satisfied and be less likely to cheat. As it turned out, about 3/4 of the swinging we do is MFM or MMFMs, so she regularly gets her horns trimmed. But, that is fine with me and our relationship has been free of any jealousy.

[Numex 2,459]

., about 3/4 of the swinging we do is MFM or MMFMs, so she regularly gets her horns trimmed. But, that is fine with me and our relationship has been free of any jealousy.

Same with us, my wife does about three times as much outside fucking as I do, although it's usually one-on-one, not multiple guys. It's the same guys/couples that we swap with. I'm fine with it; keeps her happy and I still get all that I want.

 

My wife has fucked Asian guys, but I've never had an Asian girl.