Dissecting an invitation: Would you attend?

[asncpl 730]

We got an email invitation for a house party yesterday, and though we've been involved with this particular group for a few years, the invitation differs from the previous ones. By way of background, we adore the organizer/host couple. We attended many of their parties and played with them often. The atmosphere is usually casual. The dress code is usually smart casual, unless there is some special theme like lingerie night. Ladies have final say on condoms or not.

 

On this recent invite, it says there will be a special couple from out of town and the female half will have a creampie orgy with all comers (sorry, really no pun intended). Descriptive words like nasty, creamy, kinky, dirty were used, which is out of character for this group. Here are the parts that got my attention: other females are encouraged to join in the creampie fun. And then there is the special dress code: "dressy" for men and "evening dress with no bras and no panties" for ladies. Everything is so different from previous parties. I emailed the hosting couple and they said these were requested by the special guest couple, who is a good friend of the host. Knowing that I sometimes play bareback, the host even texted me today encouraging me to attend. I am hesitant, but Mr. A wants to go just to see who is this special couple that wields so much power and influence.

 

I was telling Mr. A that if he goes and partakes, he's pretty much having sex with not just the special guest female but also all the other guys who cum inside her before his turn.

 

What do you think? Have you encountered a party where everything is catered to a special couple or woman? I too wonder who is this couple and what they look like, but the host would only give a short description of age, hair color and measurements...again at the couple's request.

 

I am also pretty insecure about my small breasts. I don't mind no panties which I usually do anyway, but without a bra, I might as well look like a crossing dressing man in evening dress. Do adhesive bras violate the dress code? Not that the host will kick me out.

[kikonkrome 844]

I am also pretty insecure about my small breasts. I don't mind no panties which I usually do anyway, but without a bra, I might as well look like a crossing dressing man in evening dress. Do adhesive bras violate the dress code? Not that the host will kick me out.

 

I do not really have feedback regarding the first part of this. I do have feedback about the quote.

 

I understand feeling insecure about your body, or a specific body part. I think we all have something we are insecure about. For breast though, small or flat chested, trust me they do not look, feel like a boys. In fact that can be on the perfect list!!

[sunbuckus 3,569]

We got an email invitation for a house party yesterday, and though we've been involved with this particular group for a few years, the invitation differs from the previous ones. By way of background, we adore the organizer/host couple. We attended many of their parties and played with them often. The atmosphere is usually casual. The dress code is usually smart casual, unless there is some special theme like lingerie night. Ladies have final say on condoms or not.

 

On this recent invite, it says there will be a special couple from out of town and the female half will have a creampie orgy with all comers (sorry, really no pun intended). Descriptive words like nasty, creamy, kinky, dirty were used, which is out of character for this group. Here are the parts that got my attention: other females are encouraged to join in the creampie fun. And then there is the special dress code: "dressy" for men and "evening dress with no bras and no panties" for ladies. Everything is so different from previous parties. I emailed the hosting couple and they said these were requested by the special guest couple, who is a good friend of the host. Knowing that I sometimes play bareback, the host even texted me today encouraging me to attend. I am hesitant, but Mr. A wants to go just to see who is this special couple that wields so much power and influence.

 

I was telling Mr. A that if he goes and partakes, he's pretty much having sex with not just the special guest female but also all the other guys who cum inside her before his turn.

 

What do you think? Have you encountered a party where everything is catered to a special couple or woman? I too wonder who is this couple and what they look like, but the host would only give a short description of age, hair color and measurements...again at the couple's request.

 

I am also pretty insecure about my small breasts. I don't mind no panties which I usually do anyway, but without a bra, I might as well look like a crossing dressing man in evening dress. Do adhesive bras violate the dress code? Not that the host will kick me out.

 

So...it sounds more like a free-for-all gangbang with this female, no condoms allowed? I guess if we were in your shoes, our curiosity might influence us to go and see what this couple looked like. However, since we always play with condoms, we would not be partaking in any play so it would just be voyeurism for us. Do you know if that would be okay with the hosts and special couple?

 

I know you said you play bareback sometimes but have you played bareback with all of the people in this group? Would you feel comfortable doing so? What about Mr. A? How does he feel about it?

 

 

As for attending a party just for a special couple/woman--no. We've seen open invites for such but never attended one. And I've seen your pictures...you wouldn't pass for a cross dressing man!

[econobiker 165]

We got an email invitation for a house party yesterday, and though we've been involved with this particular group for a few years, the invitation differs from the previous ones. By way of background, we adore the organizer/host couple. We attended many of their parties and played with them often. The atmosphere is usually casual. The dress code is usually smart casual, unless there is some special theme like lingerie night. Ladies have final say on condoms or not.

 

On this recent invite, it says there will be a special couple from out of town and the female half will have a creampie orgy with all comers (sorry, really no pun intended). Descriptive words like nasty, creamy, kinky, dirty were used, which is out of character for this group. Here are the parts that got my attention: other females are encouraged to join in the creampie fun. And then there is the special dress code: "dressy" for men and "evening dress with no bras and no panties" for ladies. Everything is so different from previous parties. I emailed the hosting couple and they said these were requested by the special guest couple, who is a good friend of the host. Knowing that I sometimes play bareback, the host even texted me today encouraging me to attend. I am hesitant, but Mr. A wants to go just to see who is this special couple that wields so much power and influence.

 

I was telling Mr. A that if he goes and partakes, he's pretty much having sex with not just the special guest female but also all the other guys who cum inside her before his turn.

 

What do you think? Have you encountered a party where everything is catered to a special couple or woman? I too wonder who is this couple and what they look like, but the host would only give a short description of age, hair color and measurements...again at the couple's request.

 

I am also pretty insecure about my small breasts. I don't mind no panties which I usually do anyway, but without a bra, I might as well look like a crossing dressing man in evening dress. Do adhesive bras violate the dress code? Not that the host will kick me out.

 

 

I would not play outside of your comfort zone or boundaries in regards to bareback or condom. There used to be special gang bang parties held on Sunday evenings at a local swing club. One guy from our house parties attended and said that while he wouldn't go bareback, he ended up letting one of the "focus" ladies perform oral on him and then he masturbated to come on her face and body. Perhaps that or similar might be an option for your husband.

 

Something sounds like that guest couple is too professional or that the host couple is getting uptight and wants to put on a "classy party" for the guest couple. Perhaps the woman of the guest couple is a pro-amateur porn star and some of the action will be on video for the guest couple to sell? Or maybe the host couple is submissive in some Dominant/submissive or bd/sm way to the guest couple?

 

As for body image, you are a woman, and while all women are shaped many different ways, remember that you are always still sexy!!!

[asncpl 730]

So...it sounds more like a free-for-all gangbang with this female, no condoms allowed? I guess if we were in your shoes, our curiosity might influence us to go and see what this couple looked like. However, since we always play with condoms, we would not be partaking in any play so it would just be voyeurism for us. Do you know if that would be okay with the hosts and special couple?

 

I know you said you play bareback sometimes but have you played bareback with all of the people in this group? Would you feel comfortable doing so? What about Mr. A? How does he feel about it?

 

 

As for attending a party just for a special couple/woman--no. We've seen open invites for such but never attended one. And I've seen your pictures...you wouldn't pass for a cross dressing man!

 

Yep, from what the invite says, this woman does not want condoms. We have not played bareback with everyone in the group. I'm pretty selective in this respect and also the host brings in new people every once in a while. Normally I'd tell you I wouldn't even consider being a part of it, but I'm in a strange mid-life crisis where I've thrown much caution to the wind in my vanilla life. Mr. A is just obsessed at finding out who is this very special couple. He doesn't care for the bareback play one way or another. We may just attend to satisfy our curiosity. The general rule that we don't have to play if we don't want to still applies.

 

Perhaps I should phrase my question a bit differently. For those who throw house parties, what would make you cater a house party to a particular couple, as in what is required for that "guest of honor" privilege? And for those who have been invited to one, what's so different about the guest of honor? Econobiker's theory that the special couple can be pro-amateur is a good one. Perhaps someone with a webcam following. It's not jealousy on my part; it's just I'm so curious what kind of people get special treatment like this. Is it simply the fact that a woman is willing to have a creampie gangbang?

 

By the way, thanks everyone for the positive body image comments! Sun, thanks so much, not sure if you noticed I have a top on in all my pictures and now you know why.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

I'd skip this party date and catch up with them when they are hosting a normal party. My curiosity about who the special is would be satisfied when I heard stories the day after.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Perhaps I should phrase my question a bit differently. For those who throw house parties, what would make you cater a house party to a particular couple, as in what is required for that "guest of honor" privilege? And for those who have been invited to one, what's so different about the guest of honor? Econobiker's theory that the special couple can be pro-amateur is a good one. Perhaps someone with a webcam following. It's not jealousy on my part; it's just I'm so curious what kind of people get special treatment like this. Is it simply the fact that a woman is willing to have a creampie gangbang?

 

By the way, thanks everyone for the positive body image comments! Sun, thanks so much, not sure if you noticed I have a top on in all my pictures and now you know why.

 

We haven't hosted parties but if I were in that position, I would only do it for really special friends. Unless we were known for throwing parties and someone asked us to throw a special party for them because of our "expertise" then maybe.

 

And I thought you kept on most of your clothes because you were doing the modest/naughty thing.

[Brimba 30]

Perhaps you should attend to another swingers club/resort that night instead. - that special couple are asking to much attention and the host is too accommodating. Consider this as an opportunity to start a new place to play.

[Mbgdallas 203]

 

I am also pretty insecure about my small breasts. I don't mind no panties which I usually do anyway, but without a bra, I might as well look like a crossing dressing man in evening dress. Do adhesive bras violate the dress code? Not that the host will kick me out.

 

 

Please please please don't be insecure about small breasts. I love small breasts and am much more attracted to a woman with small breasts than one with large breasts. I will notice a woman with small breasts way before one with large breasts unless it is a woman that is,so,large it is just disgusting. These are my just my preferences so again please... Don't be insecure.

 

I think woman who are braless can be extremely sexy but you have to have the breasts for it to work. Anything bigger than a c will never work unless they are fake and that just ruins it all together for me. A and B are perfect and going braless with these sized breasts are one big hot turn-on.

 

I have "worked" with women who have small breasts and successfully hidden them,through padded bras and such. Every once in a while I would be around them when the padded bra wasn't appropriate or they had just been running or exercising. I so wanted to tell them to stop hiding the fact there spectacular breasts were small but would have been inappropriate for me to do so. It is such a shame when such beautiful sexy objects are obscured due to insecurity issues.

 

I haven't seen you pictures and don't no where to see them but would absolutely love to do so if you have small breasts.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

You know, we'd have to go, just so we could be let down by a build up like that.

 

As for who gets the guest of honor treatment? Well, the first thing that pops in my mind is this: The host couple and the guest couple were very close swinger friends at some point, then were separated by distance, but stayed in touch. Guest couple decides to visit, and guest female likes this kind of party, so she requests it as a favor. Host couple thinks it will be fun, so they go for it.

 

Oh, and like Sunbuckus said, I've seen your pics. You have nothing to worry about.

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

We have been to a party that has some similarities, and it was one of the best we've ever been to. The scenario we attended was a party thrown by a couple for her birthday. It was called a couples gang bang party. They had about 12 to 15 couples attend in a hotel suite. Her fantasy was to have a gang bang, but not with strangers. We all knew each other pretty well. The invitation was clear that if you came you were expected to play with her. She was blindfolded and hands restrained at first.

 

It was really magical actually. All the girls were very invested in our friend having the best possible experience, so we were "fluffers" and encouragers for our husbands and each other's husbands and played with her also. She was fucked over 25 times in every way imaginable. In the end it turned into a massive orgy with nearly everyone on the bed (which we did indeed break). There was a great sense of community and a wonderful energy.

 

We all use condoms so the bareback thing wasn't a factor in our play.

 

Your invitation is really interesting. Since you can go, but are not required to participate, I would go and check it out. It might be really exciting.

 

oh, and don't worry about your boobs! Small breasts are wonderful.

[Fundamental Law 2,903]

Trust your instinct. Missing one of a large number of parties is preferable to attending the one you absolutely positively did not want to be at.

 

As far as your body is concerned, bodies are issued one to a customer. Each is unique. Look after it as best you can. Take pride in it. The image you project is the image that others receive.

[econobiker 165]

 

By the way, thanks everyone for the positive body image comments! Sun, thanks so much, not sure if you noticed I have a top on in all my pictures and now you know why.

 

YOW-ZA! I hadn't checked your profile to see your picture as I just saw the avatar in your posts. HMMMM HMMMM HMMMM, you're a sexy damn woman!

 

We have been to a party that has some similarities, and it was one of the best we've ever been to. The scenario we attended was a party thrown by a couple for her birthday. It was called a couples gang bang party. They had about 12 to 15 couples attend in a hotel suite. Her fantasy was to have a gang bang, but not with strangers. We all knew each other pretty well. The invitation was clear that if you came you were expected to play with her. She was blindfolded and hands restrained at first.

It was really magical actually. All the girls were very invested in our friend having the best possible experience, so we were "fluffers" and encouragers for our husbands and each other's husbands and played with her also. She was fucked over 25 times in every way imaginable. In the end it turned into a massive orgy with nearly everyone on the bed (which we did indeed break). There was a great sense of community and a wonderful energy.

 

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That's almost like the queen being serviced by her stable with her handmaidens preparing the studs for mating with her...

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

How many times have women told guys here that size doesn't necessarily matter? Well, the same is true for women's breasts. We also checked out your profile picture and you a very proportionate and very sexy. We wouldn't hesitate for a minute if you were here (unless you had a crappy attitude...which you don't seem to have from your posts).

 

Personally, we would skip because we wouldn't be participating (we don't ever play without condoms) and this way there wouldn't be hurt feelings or others trying to pressure us into doing something that we don't want to do. Still, I can understand the curiosity. I would thin that the hosting couple would WANT to give up more information since this couple is so 'special'. No matter what you decide, be sure to let us know what happens...

[MarniJohn 172]

First off I would also avoid the party and find something fun to do. The party does not sound like fun for anyone but the "guests of honor". You will find out 12 hours later who they are.

 

More importantly I will tell you that my significant other way prefers women with almost no breasts at all. He says he doesn't care either way but trust me I see who he is attracted to any they NEVER have breasts. Beauty, my dear, is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone likes something different! You are beautiful and sexy!

[asncpl 730]

thanks so much for everyone's comments. We have decided to go and check it out. I was on the fence but my curiosity about the whole thing, not just the couple, took over. The party guarantees my husband playtime (how often can you say that!) while I don't have to play if I don't want. That itself alleviates many of my concerns. And if any bed is going to be broken like funcoupledayton said, I want to be there for that!

 

I'll report back next week!

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

It seems like you have gotten advice both ways, from lots of good people here. I guess that means that, as long as you are going in with a decent understanding of the possibilities for each of you, there's no wrong choice! As for us, if we knew that we we're going to o see lots of friends, and we were prepared for the possibility that one or both of us might not play at the party, we would be curious enough to go, too! Being the sneaky, horny people that we are, we might also talk to one of the other couples who are going, and see if they wanted to get together for an after-party!

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Mrs. A, a thought just came to me...are there any rules that party goers can't play amongst themselves as well, and not just with the female guest of honor?

[asncpl 730]

It seems like you have gotten advice both ways, from lots of good people here. I guess that means that, as long as you are going in with a decent understanding of the possibilities for each of you, there's no wrong choice! As for us, if we knew that we we're going to o see lots of friends, and we were prepared for the possibility that one or both of us might not play at the party, we would be curious enough to go, too! Being the sneaky, horny people that we are, we might also talk to one of the other couples who are going, and see if they wanted to get together for an after-party!

 

That's EXACTLY my thought process! I did talk to a few of my friends from the group and they are going so at the very least I know people there.

 

Mrs. A, a thought just came to me...are there any rules that party goers can't play amongst themselves as well, and not just with the female guest of honor?

 

A rule like that was not explicitly mentioned, and I can't see it that way. The invite said all the men are "encouraged" to...make a deposit with the female guest of honor. So I read that as if a guy can cum twice with another or if he wants to play with others before he cums, he can certainly do it. I think it's similar to funcoupledayton's experience: there is probably an expectation that everyone plays with her for at least a bit. I can't imagine a woman taking on all the guys without any help.

[kikonkrome 844]

So can I buck a trend here as a committed, married man?

 

The idea getting inline with my hard on, stroking myself and waiting my turn to put said hard on in woman being gang banged, is pretty much a boner killer.

 

Am I the only one that feels this way? I mean it's right up there with getting a blowjob in a glory hole? Really super disconnected, dispassionate sex, maybe I am getting old, but I don't think it's for me.

 

Looking back on it, I do remember getting the head nod, invite from a guy who had his partner tied up and was looking for guys to go for it. I am going to man enough to admit it, I was a bit freaked and just turned around and left.

 

How much in the minority am it with this?

[Mbgdallas 203]

Part of me sees your position but the other says helping a woman fulfill a fantasy of being gang banged hot. I don't see this like a glory hole at all.

[Guest sandraandalex]

First, we're torn because there are times to listen to that warning in your head and then there are times when you need to ignore it.

 

And far as small breasts, Sandra and I both agreed we'd fight over who got to enjoy you first

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

So can I buck a trend here as a committed, married man?

 

The idea getting inline with my hard on, stroking myself and waiting my turn to put said hard on in woman being gang banged, is pretty much a boner killer.

 

Am I the only one that feels this way? I mean it's right up there with getting a blowjob in a glory hole? Really super disconnected, dispassionate sex, maybe I am getting old, but I don't think it's for me.

 

Looking back on it, I do remember getting the head nod, invite from a guy who had his partner tied up and was looking for guys to go for it. I am going to man enough to admit it, I was a bit freaked and just turned around and left.

 

How much in the minority am it with this?

 

The party we went to wasn't like that at all. Since it was couples there was no standing around with you cock in your hand. Everyone was actively involved, but one woman was the focus.

 

There were a few people who were invited who declined saying the same thing you said. They missed out on a really great time. We didn't know how it would go, but figured we could always leave if it was awful. Typically we don't have several invitations for any given night so, if it doesn't cost anything but time we will go to a party if invited. We are also pretty easy going and make our own fun. We're not traumatized by negative experiences, so it makes sense for us to give things a try. In this case it was totally worth it.

[PeterJ 960]

I've only participated in one gangbang, but i enjoyed it and will certainly do it again if and when the opportunity presents itself. At a club I had just finished a longish session with a woman in a room with the door closed. I went looking for the friend I was with that evening and found her in another room giving head to a fellow she'd met. Also in the room were another couple I'd met earlier in the evening. She was on another bed, being fucked by one guy, with a couple of men laying on either side of her, watching and sometimes speaking with her while she was taking it from the man on top of her. Her husband asked if I'd like to be next and I thought "why not." It must have been pretty exciting because I had no problem getting erect again, and almost as soon as the guy ahead of me reached his orgasm and withdrew, I positioned myself between her thighs and slid my cock into her pussy. Between her husband's encouragement to "fuck her hard," and my thought that she was trying to run up the score and was probably going to be pretty sore the next day, I didn't hold back and let myself cum pretty quickly. (Having just been well drained a little while previously, I don't think I added much to the pool of semen in her. On of the guys laying next to her said I was the fifth guy to mount her and soon as I rolled off, another guy was waiting to take my place, and there were two or three guys behind him. As I said, I enjoyed the experience and was happy to help this couple live out their fantasy

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

So, when IS this party and I hope we get a follow up afterwards.

[asncpl 730]

As for who gets the guest of honor treatment? Well, the first thing that pops in my mind is this: The host couple and the guest couple were very close swinger friends at some point, then were separated by distance, but stayed in touch. Guest couple decides to visit, and guest female likes this kind of party, so she requests it as a favor. Host couple thinks it will be fun, so they go for it.

 

We went to the party last weekend and just want to report back that we had fun but not sure we would do it again. First, two4youinswva gets the prize for guessing the nature of the special couple. It's exactly what he said. They are normal people with jobs and kids but just happen to have a real kinky streak. No prize money here unfortunately.

 

My guess was about 15 couples or so were there plus 6 single guys, which is more than the usual but understandable given the theme of the party. It actually went pretty much like what fundaytoncouple experienced. The female half of the special couple is bi and a few of us girls, including myself, got to play with her before the real event began. And then it was a group effort to get the guys hard and keep them hard as they wait their turn. After every guy had their turn, the party turned into an orgy of sort. People are free to play among themselves or go another round with the special guests.

 

When the woman stood up to change position in the middle of her gangbang and cum leaked out from her endlessly like squeezing a honey bottle, I could hear whispers of "oh my god" and gasps and giggles from other guests, myself included. I just had never seen anything like it. I was near a few of the couples I know well and we were all watching in amazement. So it was fun in a new and interesting way. It reminded me of going to a strip club for the first time with my guy friends a long time ago. It's new, lots of giggles, a good time, but I never went again. I didn't expect to get a lot of play here so that's fine. But with the novelty out of the way, not sure it's something I would do again....unless it's me as the guest of honor. The bonus: We got the contact info for one of the single guys to possibly set up a threesome with us. Mr. A said I had laser-locked on him the moment I walked in but I don't remember that.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

asncpl, it sounds like a good evening, and a new adventure in swinging for you two! Although you might not do it again, you enjoyed yourselves, maybe put a "me as the center of attention" item on your bucket list, and made a possible friend for another time- that sounds like a pretty good party in my book! Kudos to you two for saying "yes" to adventure!

[sunbuckus 3,569]

So glad you came back to let us know how it went and that it was a positive experience! And I hope the new guy works out for you!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

Thanks for sharing!

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Thank you so much for the follow-up! It does sound like it was a fun night as a one-off type thing.

Good luck on the potential threesome.