I just like to watch

[Veteran 22]

I am not really a swinger, I am more interested in watching my wife have sex with another man and then having sex after they are done. Is this the site for my desire?

[kikonkrome 844]

Yep!! We take all types!!

 

It's called hot wifeing, and is not uncommon.

 

Good Luck, and Have Fun

[Shore2Please 612]

Have you acted on it? How does your wife feel about it? My husband liked to watch but I am more comfortable when he doesn't.

[yorktownvaguy 76]

There is a whole website dedicated to it: ourhotwives.org

[M1F2KTJ 473]

i am not really a swinger, i am more interested in watching my wife have sex with another man and then having sex after they are done. Is this the site for my desire?

 

I'm here and I LOVE watching my wife enjoying having sex with another man in front of me and then fucking her after he is done with her.

 

It took me a long time to talk her into trying it. She confessed that she couldn't bear to watch me having sex with another woman. That is the only thing that keeps us from being classified as a "swinging" couple I guess. I wasn't interested in reciprocation. I was more than satisfied watching my wife.

 

We/she has had many experiences with many different men.

[Guest]

Your wants and desire my change with time. We started out with MFM, and hubby only watched as a very active participant although he seemed to enjoy swaps a lot. Now, he still encourages me with my enjoyment of MFM, but he’s often the watcher of me and two others, but he still enjoys that occasional swap, as he says, for something a little different once in a while.

[cplnluv1 872]

We started swinging because I wanted to watch. I just wanted to watch her with a woman. Couldn't find a woman alone and we met a couple. I wasn't sure how I would react to her and a man. Our first couple, was a younger couple, he being way bigger than me. I got to watch me wife with a woman which was a major turn on. I didn't like the attitude of the guy and had a knot in my stomach at first. Looking back it was a turn on and watching my wife with other men and women is still a turn on. But I do participate. I thik you can have any feelings you are good with and here is a perfect place for chatting about it.

[enhancer 1,585]

There is no right or wrong way to be involved in the lifestyle! Just do things the way that works best for you and your wife. As long as you two communicate about what it is you want and are on the same page it is all good.

 

Good luck and enjoy your journey together.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

Veteran, I think you will find some people on the various swinger "dating" or "hookup" sites whose desires mesh with yours. It seems like there's a key for every lock in this lifestyle! And of course, we here are happy to talk about it with you!

[TucsonTwo 1]

On 2/6/2016 at 8:04 AM, M1F2KTJ said:

 

I'm here and I LOVE watching my wife enjoying having sex with another man in front of me and then fucking her after he is done with her.

 

It took me a long time to talk her into trying it. She confessed that she couldn't bear to watch me having sex with another woman. That is the only thing that keeps us from being classified as a "swinging" couple I guess. I wasn't interested in reciprocation. I was more than satisfied watching my wife.

 

We/she has had many experiences with many different men.

I am also interested in watching. I want to watch my wife being pleasured by another couple. We have not yet found the right couple.

[Numex 2,420]

On 2/1/2016 at 10:19 AM, Veteran said:

I am more interested in watching my wife have sex with another man and then having sex after they are done.

That's how we started.  Let you wife choose the lucky man.  She will like the sex and love you afterwards for the double treat. 

[Swingermarriage 3]

I think that is more a cuckold style than swinging..but labels doesnt matter much..important is to enjoy what you like

[Numex 2,420]

On 7/16/2022 at 11:06 AM, Swingermarriage said:

I think that is more a cuckold style than swinging..but labels doesnt matter much..important is to enjoy what you like

 

On 2/1/2016 at 3:05 PM, kikonkrome said:

It's called hot wifeing, and is not uncommon.

My understanding is that cuckolding is when the husband is dominated or humiliated in some way, either when present with his wife and her sex partner or after the fact.  Hotwifing is when the husband is not diminished in any way, and may actually be in control, directing the whole thing.  Again, the wife may play alone or with her husband there.

On 2/3/2016 at 6:53 AM, Shore2Please said:

My husband liked to watch but I am more comfortable when he doesn't.

We started out with Daniela hotwifing alone, figuring it would be easier.  It was with a couple of exes (separately) to start because exes are exes for a reason, but we knew that she already liked them and had past sexual relationships that were good.  What made us all (Daniela, me, and the other guy) feel more comfortable was that they met again first just for dinner to see if the spark was still there, then the three of us met to make sure everyone knew that everyone knew what was going on (that I knew they were going to fuck, he knew Daniela was happily married).  Third time they started doing it.

 

After a couple of months of getting together alone, Daniela wanted me there and we started having MFMs, not all the time, but on occasions, her choice.  Now that we are in our closed group of couples she still plays alone, twosomes MF or FF and threesomes FMF, a lot but we still have our play sessions together as well.  I sometimes play alone, almost always just an MF twosome.

[Anon321 523]

Love to watch. Watching, listening, and just hearing stories are all some of my favorite parts.

[cuckboat 9]

3 hours ago, Anon321 said:

Love to watch. Watching, listening, and just hearing stories are all some of my favorite parts.

Yes I enjoy when I see or not. Even if she is or isnt...my mind makes it all so exciting.....the stories she tells me and I have had others throw it in my face thinking I don't know and me getting off on it and they think it hurts me. I have been in bars with her that she goes to a lot. I have overheard some people that don't know we are together , men and women make comments and jokes about what an easy piece of ass she is and how she has fucked some many guys there. That is the best story. Overheard in public about being a noticeable slut.

[Anon321 523]

51 minutes ago, cuckboat said:

Yes I enjoy when I see or not. Even if she is or isnt...my mind makes it all so exciting.....the stories she tells me and I have had others throw it in my face thinking I don't know and me getting off on it and they think it hurts me. I have been in bars with her that she goes to a lot. I have overheard some people that don't know we are together , men and women make comments and jokes about what an easy piece of ass she is and how she has fucked some many guys there. That is the best story. Overheard in public about being a noticeable slut.

Kind of the same with me.  People talk about her and their sexual activities with her.  Pretty much always gets discussed when I'm with my buddies and my SO likes the attention and the idea that she's being talked about.