Wary of women looking for other women

[kikonkrome 845]

On two separate occasions with two separate couples the following has happened at the club.

 

We have all been chatty, etc. and she has been really flirty with me, ok to the point of making out. Sitting on my lap, just super touchy and flirty.

 

Also and this may seem where it is off the track, and looking back in retrospect, mostly when their SO is not around. Which is a pretty good indicator, but hard one to spot in the moment.

 

So then when we propose going somewhere private, we get the feedback that she only plays with girls. HUH?? I am SO Confused?

 

One women said sure let me discuss it with my husband, he later told me 'She only plays with girls'. Which may mean they are just not into us, ok? However, now when I see them, it seems like he's right, she only plays with girls and he hangs out.

 

Why are you flirting with me to get it on with my wife? I must admit it makes me feel pretty used. Also these days the wife is much more into penis than vagina, so we are both left feeling pretty cold.

 

Any feedback, must admit I am pretty confuzzeled.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

I would be confuzseled, too!

 

We had a slightly similar situation with a couple once. They were not nearly as flirty as your situation, but still indicating an openness to play- at first. Then when it came down to talking about going to play, the woman, standing next to her boyfriend, pulled out the "I only play with couples with bi girls" card. Now, since she knew of the Mrs.'s ambivalence about bi play from the start, this whole thing starts to sound dishonest to me. I think she just decided that she could do better than me, and wouldn't be honest about that. I'm not a fan of dishonesty or manipulation, so we have not remained friendly with this couple.

[enhancer 1,588]

We sometimes make arrangements with other couples where only the girls play, but the last thing Ms Enhancer would do is flirt with and lead the other guy on. That would honestly just annoy the hell out of me if someone did that.

 

Could be the other woman would actually like to play with other guys, but the husband is not cool with that or maybe she just likes the attention she gets flirting with other guys! Either way we would prefer her finding someone else to lead on. We prefer transparent people that don't play games and waste others time.

[kikonkrome 845]

We sometimes make arrangements with other couples where only the girls play, but the last thing Ms Enhancer would do is flirt with and lead the other guy on. That would honestly just annoy the hell out of me if someone did that.

 

Thanks I needed to hear that, kinda thought I was going nuts.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

If the ladies are super flirty when the husband is away and it's the husband that says, "She only plays with girls," it's a pretty sure bet that he isn't comfortable with her having sex with another man. Depending on if you like to just watch girl/girl, then I guess there wouldn't be too much of an issue...unless you guys like to have a full swap, then it is and I would move on. Sounds like a lot of trouble waiting to happen.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,027]

You'll excuse me for making light of this but i would have felt an urge to reply, "well I'm a girl."

[GoldCoCouple 4,072]

Thanks I needed to hear that, kinda thought I was going nuts.

 

You may still be, but just not from this instance...

[kikonkrome 845]

You'll excuse me for making light of this but i would have felt an urge to reply, "well I'm a girl."

Yeah lesbian in a man's body...god that's a lame joke...

You may still be, but just not from this instance...

[Cheetah 85]

We have gone to many adult theaters, swinger clubs, swinger parties ect and several times the woman lick each other for a long time and that is all they both wanted. I have no issue with the wife enjoying another woman or two. She gets hornier and wetter that way. There have been times she ate another pussy but the woman did eat her. But she loves eating pussy and there are many others that will eat her pussy both girls and guys and me of course.

 

One time we met a couple at a motel and the other woman sat on my wife' s face and had more orgasms than I could count then we left.