My gf cheated on me with three guys in one night...

[Mike nilson 15]

My flight attendant girlfriend cheated on me with three guys (like gangbang). She's Korean, 5' 8", with a gymnastic body--very beautiful (in my view). One of them is her boss and two of them are coworkers. I'm in a relationship with her for 6 months then she cheated. They fucked her in the hotel and video taped it.

 

In the video, those three guys doing all they want (mouth, vagina, ass) and my girl was still smiling like she wants more and more. I didn't even fuck her in the ass before. Then they all cum on her face and, of course, still smiling when her face was all covered. I don't know what to do , I still love her, I had a crush on her for almost a year then we became a couple. Before we were in a relationship she had many boyfriends. I know she's not a good girl. She says sorry and doesn't even apologize properly to me. I don't know what I should do.

[Brad145 58]

Are you sharing the video?

 

:P

[sunbuckus 3,569]

Welcome, Mike nilson. Did you two talk about being exclusive and monogamous together?

[funcoupledayton 2,710]

I'm sorry you are in this situation. How did you learn about the threesome and the video?

[Mike nilson 15]

I'm sorry you are in this situation. How did you learn about the threesome and the video?

 

A friend of mine showed it to me -_-

[Mike nilson 15]

Welcome, Mike nilson. Did you two talk about being exclusive and monogamous together?

 

No , I think she don't even feel guilty

She said if I love her , I should forgive her

[GoldCoCouple 4,072]

Swinging is having sex with your partners permission and, in most cases, participation. This is just pure cheating. That it was done with co-workers that she sees on a regular basis is even worse, and that she allowed it to be video taped...well that straw broke the camels back. Sorry you are in this situation, but it sounds like this is a broken relationship. Tell her that you had sex with another woman and that she should forgive you and see how well that goes. She has taken no responsibility for her actions and seems to have no remorse. Unless things change (and they probably won't), I wouldn't invest much more time in this woman...sorry.

[enhancer 1,588]

Swinging and cheating are two completely different things! The only advice I have for someone that was cheated on is you deserve better and can find it. Love is about respecting the person you are with. Without that respect you have nothing.

[love2dp 53]

Dump that bitch period. She doesn't give two shits about you. Or pass her around to whoever you want to. She's obviously a sleep around whore regardless of a relationship. Fuck that. DO NOT put up with that type of treatment. Put that vid up for all her friends and family to see. I would. Cheating to that level is unforgivable in my book. What a whore. There have been people kill themselves over such hurt. She is an evil bitch. I don't give a shit who does not like my post. She crossed a bold line of respect for the man who loves her. Lying POS. Move on to a better woman Mike. DON'T show her you have been hurt. She will probably just gloat about it. Or, order up two hottie chicks from craigs list and time it to where she walks in on you cheating with two hotties. Rub that in her face.

[sunbuckus 3,569]

I'm not really convinced that this was cheating in her mind. This is a pretty young relationship (6 months) and if there wasn't any talk about exclusivity and/or monogamy, I wouldn't be surprised if she's just "playing the field". Maybe I'm jaded because of the stories I hear from Mr. Sun and his single friend dating up to 5 women at a time and not being serious with any of them.

 

If it was clear to both parties that things were getting serious and monogamy was part of the deal, then yes, it was cheating. Otherwise, this could be a case of where lack of communication is at fault--one person felt that the relationship was serious and the other thought it was the complete opposite.

 

Perhaps another example of how important communication is--no matter what the relationship type is.

[findinganswers 377]

Either you accept that she likes to sleep around or you don't. Don't expect her to change. You said you knew she wasn't a good girl.

[intuition897 2,180]

I would chalk it up to a difference in values and interests and move on. If she doesn't care enough to even ask, "Hey honey, do you mind if I'm non-monogamous? It's kinda my thing, and I'd really like to fuck Bill, Ted & Bob on my trip...", and instead just does as she pleases, she's not showing you or your relationship the respect you deserve. The way you've described it, you are likely never going to enjoy the pleasures of seeing your partner fucked six ways from Sunday by a herd of men. And likewise, it sounds like she's indifferent to how you feel about it one way or another. This adds up to a big, fat "Nope." in my book.

[Mbgdallas 203]

I don't know that have a problem with her having the sex. Maybe she didn't understand the relationship and how you felt. OK so we chalk that up to both and have a communication problem.

 

Where I really have a problem is the lack of remorse for hurting you and her lack of understanding. She doesn't necessarily need to apologize for the sex but should apologize for the misunderstanding and how she is going to handle it in the future. She should also apologize for the video and the disrespect it showed you. This should not have happened.

 

What I would say is that her doing this and allowing it to be videoed shows a total lack of feelings for you. I doubt she feels the same way about you as you feel about her. That is the real problem.

[SAMnTINA 362]

Her body her decision, your only decision is do you want her as a GF and if so can you learn to enjoy her pleasure?