Picking up two guys at once?

[Lylavin 23]

So my man and I have been doing this for a while now. We like to swap together as well as he enjoys hearing about me picking up guys and taking them home if it's communicated beforehand. We've done this quite a few times and now we've talked about the fantasy of me trying to go home with 2 guys but it seems sooooo hard to propose that to 2 guys even if they're friends to do it. Haven't tried but can't think of a good way to go about it, any suggestions? Lol.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

Maybe not what you were thinking of, but what if your man is one of the two guys?

 

I can also tell you that my Mrs. has been able to play with multiple guys at house parties and hotel parties. Is that kind of thing compatible with your fantasy?

[Lylavin 23]

We've done it with him and another guy but the one we've talked about too is 2 guys other than him. And Yeah that's compatible, That could work too. Just haven't found the right house party I guess lol.

[Swing*8701 887]

Here's what worked for me,"Hi, I'd like it if you two would take me home to my place and ravage me for a couple of hours in full view of my husband ." They did not turn me down. In fact we did it three more times with them because of how fun it was.

[Sandra_sff18 17]

Here's what worked for me,"Hi, I'd like it if you two would take me home to my place and ravage me for a couple of hours in full view of my husband ." They did not turn me down. In fact we did it three more times with them because of how fun it was.

 

I agree just ask, most guys will say YES.

I have been 'gang-banged' lots of times (when I am in the mood)

[SA_NewtoLS 163]

I will say, back in my single days, my friend and I that used to frequent bars/clubs together would have taken an offer like this if it was brought up to us. We had discussed it a few times, kinda hoping it would happen.

[Guest]

Most of our MFM activity comes from bar type random pick-up; simply some guy sitting near us at the bar starts chatting. I agree with you that turning that into an MMFM seems vastly more difficult. Our only successes have been when very male dominated conventions are in town or some special event. For example, when we stay in FL sometimes, a very large number of predominately males come in to town for the Patriots vs Miami game and flood the local bars or in Key West when the NORML attorneys come to town for their annual convention.

[TricianMike 767]

We have gone the hotel pick up route. Football season we have gotten a room near the stadium. I will friend guys while my husband watches from the other side of the bar. Finding a single man is different. Go to an upscale business hotel. Usually there are lonely business guys at the bar. Picking a single up is harder. They are eager to talk but not as eager to have my husband watch. It is fun trying but many will think you are a pro. We frequent a hotel where there are business meetings. Picking up colleagues is easier but guys who are business friends are sometimes shy getting into bed together.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Have you looked at the legit swinger web sites? Some conversation with the many single males on those can turn up the appropriate pair. The pay requirement on those sites filters out some though not all the crazies.

 

In any venue I'd make sure the men are comfortable with incidental m/m contact. Guys who are nervous about that tend to be fairly awkward when naked next to another male in bed. If the guy admits to being bi he will have no problems with another man next to him & most bi guys will be ok with it if you make it clear you don't want actual m/m action.

[GoldCoCouple 4,064]

Expanding on above: Legit swinger sites have an overabundance of men looking for either other women or couples to have sex with. Sign up for one (most have free sign ups) and say that you are looking for men for your woman and then prepare for the tsunami of responses. Most couples have problems with getting too man single men responding to their ads even though they specifically state NO SINGLE MEN. By going through a swingers site, you know that the men already know somewhat to expect: that you are going to be there and what is expected and not allowed due to discussions beforehand.

[TricianMike 767]

It depends on what you really want. The answer Sandra gave is not always correct. We have found while many guys will talk to you in a bar and talk like they would, many chicken out when it comes to doing it, especially when you say your husband wants to watch.

 

If you go to a club, most clubs restrict the number of single men. You most likely will find some men who will take you up if asked. We have used CL. Not the best choice. Too many fakes and to many penis pictures. Pictures don't always tell a story. What you see is not always what you get.

 

We also don't like taking anyone to our home. You may feel comfortable doing that but we feel we lose our privacy.

 

We prefer, if we want to meet men, the hotel route. We have decided the best thing is to get a room in advance. This can be a waste if you don't find anyone. It has happened and we just have our own fun then. We also like the vanilla aspect of people we meet. I can look for a type. We are not always going to find someone let alone two men. We have a hotel in the Princeton area that caters to businessmen and they host training sessions for new hires for one of the local companies. I would say for most times, I am the first time many of these men have done this. Getting two men is much harder and we have found the training sessions have younger men who have no wives.

[EastInWest 1,524]

I would say for most times, I am the first time many of these men have done this. Getting two men is much harder and we have found the training sessions have younger men who have no wives.

 

I would suspect the biggest issue with finding two men in a business setting is that it's just too uncomfortable to worry about other people knowing what went on. I'm even leery of going to a strip club at a conference (with Mrs. EastInWest or not), because even though everybody else who might see me there is obviously at a strip club as well, it's not the insight into my personal life I would prefer for other people in my industry to have.

 

It's a very different setting when people are already there to have fun. Our one experiment along these lines happened in the aftermath of a Halloween party.

[FunOzCouple 40]

Firstly I would say house parties to meet a couple of strapping younger guys but getting an invite is the hard part.

 

Hubby and I have on occasion headed to the city to 'pickup'. We usually stick to one guy but on occasion have brought back a pair of guys as the 2 were mates. There's an abundance of attractive young university students hanging out at bars and clubs on the weekends. My suggestion is to head to the bars earlier say around 8-9pm (the less drunk the guys the better). Spend the first hour or so scoping things out. If you find some a pair of guys you like grab one of their phone numbers and see if they're interested in joining you back at your place. Once you have 2 or 3 then make your decision and grabs the guy and head home :-)

 

Aim to pick guys that are friends. Should be easy to spot as they'll be chatting together. Make sure you lightly flirt with both of them infront of your partner so things are clear and they get the hint!

[JessicaJamison 859]

For me finding two guys at once is a bar hopping activity.  I'd recomend trying hotel bars, I have a lot of success at them, guys are away from home, not worried about being judged.  This takes some work, you pull in two you find attractive and flirt with both, then when you are ready, I say "oh you know what would be fun??  no, nope, never mind, I'm drunk and you guys won't be into it." They will want to know what it is,, desperately.  I tease em for a minute then say "I've always wanted to fuck two guys at once,, we should go to my room and have some fun."  Its about a 50% success rate for me.  

 

Second option is hit a guy up on tinder, make it obvious this is a hookup, not a date, ask him to bring a friend.  Success rate is lower but you can talk to multiple guys at once cause its chat.