Today's online suggestion for couples!

[enhancer 1,586]

I would like to make a suggestion to those couples searching online! Be clear on your profile about who and what you are actually looking for and if other couples are clear about what they are looking for respect that.

 

This morning we had another message from a couple that on their profile says they are only looking for women to join them! This is fine, but our profile is clear that we are a couple that only plays together so why contact us?

 

Our reply to them was there are no unattached women here! Their response was sorry it says you are looking for couples on your profile. Which I responded " yes WE are looking for couples for US to meet". They then decided to back track and say they were interested in mfmf swap. If that is the case then have it on your profile, because at this point there is zero interest from us.

 

This is not an uncommon thing it would seem to be online! Chances are if you only say you are looking for women and only come on to the woman in the couple you will find yourself completely ignored by the couple if you decide you will just settle for the couple when your advance on her fails.

[SA_NewtoLS 163]

I have seen a few profiles like this as well. They either flirt or hotlist us and we go and look at their profile and it says they are looking for women only while we clearly state in ours that we are only looking for couples, full or soft swap same room only. Since we want same room only and their profile makes it look like they don;t want me there, we move on.

 

On the other hand, I also see lots of profiles that say they are looking for a woman only but couples are always welcome. If they state this, it at least let's me know that I am welcome, but I still tend to avoid these as I feel kinda like they are settling for me and they still mostly only want my wife. We might be willing to give a couple like this a shot, if there weren't so many interested in the same thing as us already. Sure, they are still a consideration, but they go in the second string pile.

 

At least the second situation is more understandable. It's what it seems the majority is out there looking for are single ladies to join them for a MFF. It's still off putting to me and makes me feel unwanted.

[enhancer 1,586]

We honestly have no problem if they say on their profile that they are only interested in women! Then we know to avoid them and good luck to them. They will need it.

 

The problem is that so many of these couples seem to think they are just so special that other couples women will just go behind their own man's back to play alone with them. They are not.

 

We find a good way to get rid of them is to tell them we will gladly have sex with their wife alone. Usually meet with either silence or anger, lol.

[SA_NewtoLS 163]

We honestly have no problem if they say on their profile that they are only interested in women! Then we know to avoid them and good luck to them. They will need it.

 

The problem is that so many of these couples seem to think they are just so special that other couples women will just go behind their own man's back to play alone with them. They are not.

 

We find a good way to get rid of them is to tell them we will gladly have sex with their wife alone. Usually meet with either silence or anger, lol.

 

Oh, never said I had a problem with it. If that's what they are looking for, fine with me. If that is what they are looking for though, why are they flirting with us or hotlisting us? We are not what they are looking for.

 

I think I may try that if we get another message along those line, lol. Same if they want only me which has happened once already.

[enhancer 1,586]

Oh, never said I had a problem with it. If that's what they are looking for, fine with me. If that is what they are looking for though, why are they flirting with us or hotlisting us? We are not what they are looking for.

 

I think I may try that if we get another message along those line, lol. Same if they want only me which has happened once already.

 

I can only assume when they are flirting and hot listing you they are just hoping your wife see's it and is such a horny desperate slut that she will just not tell you and hook up with them without you. We know that isn't true, but some are just really clueless.

[SA_NewtoLS 163]

I can only assume when they are flirting and hot listing you they are just hoping your wife see's it and is such a horny desperate slut that she will just not tell you and hook up with them without you. We know that isn't true, but some are just really clueless.

 

I do notice this to be mostly younger couples, early 20's to mid 30's. Have not seen any couples in their 40s to 50s do this to us yet. I guess maybe they just have not figured it all out yet and don't realize what the average swinging couple is like.

[econobiker 165]

I actually think that some folks are clueless. For shits&grins, to get a look local amatuer porn, and to check the pulse of "pop-up" or "independent" swinging parties, I often troll the regional craigslist, and I don't believe the amounts of couples who advertise under the w4w category under casual encounters even when mw4w category is what they are. And the real w4w often comically go off on the mw in w4w section in their own ads.

 

I like the tactic of asking if the wife/woman half will play alone with you two which is exactly the same of what they are seeking from you as a couple.

[angelkin 1,326]

I think may couples that say they are only seeking single women would settle for a couple for full swap. They just don't realize how much opportunity they missing when they appear o be unicorn hunting only.