Have you ever seen anyone get thrown out?

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Have you ever seen anyone get thrown out of a swingers club? What was it for and did they go quietly or did they make a scene?

 

Life has kind of gotten in the way of our club-going the last few years, but we used to go to a club or some type of event fairly regularly. For just about any event I have ever seen advertised, it will say something about those not following the rules will be asked to leave. But, we have never seen it actually happen and was curious if others have?

[sunbuckus 3,569]

We don't really frequent swingers clubs but the closest time we've seen someone possibly thrown out were us and another couple at a vanilla club! At this club, swingers would meet in a specific area at the club. We were making out with another couple at one of the club's cabanas and security came over. I guess my skirt had risen to show a bit too much and were asked to cool it down or else we'd be asked to leave.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Yes, kind of. Several years ago at an off-premises club there was a couple that had a public blowout for some reason or another. They stormed out of the club, making a scene as they headed out the door. When they attempted to return to the club an hour or so later, they were turned away at the door, and told they were not welcome to return ever again.

 

As for someone actually being escorted off the premises, we've never witnessed that. If it happened, it was so low key we didn't notice, which we'd have to say "job well done" to the staff if that were the case.

[kikonkrome 844]

Saw a woman asked to leave for soliciting, she left quietly.

 

I saw a guy get thrown out kicking, punching and screaming (I posted that one about the 'fight at the club). That was a pretty confusing scene as there were some other people involved that kinda just 'disappeared'.

 

I think I have seen some 'drama' couples that were asked to leave. For some reason those make me laugh.

 

Finally, I think I have seen some single guys get asked to leave for not obeying rules. Again that was done pretty quietly.

 

I really like to people watch when I am at the club, which is why I pick up a lot on what is going on. My wife often wonders what I am talking about. Also I am tall so I think I just generally get a better view.

[AskMeOk 148]

Oh, you betchum......

 

1) Too many (newbie) single males allowed into a houseparty one Halloween night... couple of guys got mad and started calling out the partiers because they had been there for at least 20 minutes and not gotten laid. I know two were thrown out and probably about 5 left.

 

2) Guy at large party was denied entrance, since no single males were allowed. He came back an hour later with his lady friend (who turned out to be a hooker). They made the rounds, she left, and somebody caught on that he was a single guy (again).

 

3) The generic few that got jealous, made a scene, and were asked to leave.

 

4) At a house party, the guy that pushed another guy out of the glory hole, and the girl that started to give him head jumped up, ran outside and threw up. He was given the option of taking a shower or leaving... he left.

 

and it goes on.....

[intuition897 2,179]

Oh, you betchum......

 

1) Too many (newbie) single males allowed into a houseparty one Halloween night... couple of guys got mad and started calling out the partiers because they had been there for at least 20 minutes and not gotten laid. I know two were thrown out and probably about 5 left.

 

2) Guy at large party was denied entrance, since no single males were allowed. He came back an hour later with his lady friend (who turned out to be a hooker). They made the rounds, she left, and somebody caught on that he was a single guy (again).

 

3) The generic few that got jealous, made a scene, and were asked to leave.

 

4) At a house party, the guy that pushed another guy out of the glory hole, and the girl that started to give him head jumped up, ran outside and threw up. He was given the option of taking a shower or leaving... he left.

 

and it goes on.....

 

Oh God. Please don't go into any more detail on that one. If there was a 'barf' smiley, I'd use it here.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I know, it's like a car wreck...you don't want to know, but it's hard not to look to try to find out more

[Branigan 33]

I have, twice. First time was a guy who had WAAAAY to much to drink at a hotel party. He was overly aggressive with numerous women and when asked to treat everyone with more respect, he lost it and started throwing punches. Needless to say, he was promptly removed and the cops took him away.

 

The second was recently at the club. My wife was about to play upstairs with another couple when some random guy started fingering the girl of the other couple. The husband pushed him back, said "Hey, thats my wife and you don't have permission!" The guy took a swing at him and three other guys took him down. He was removed immediately and banned. My wife was disappointed as she was soooo excited to play with them and that kinda ruined it.

[SA_NewtoLS 163]

The second was recently at the club. My wife was about to play upstairs with another couple when some random guy started fingering the girl of the other couple. The husband pushed him back, said "Hey, thats my wife and you don't have permission!" The guy took a swing at him and three other guys took him down. He was removed immediately and banned. My wife was disappointed as she was soooo excited to play with them and that kinda ruined it.

 

While that kinda sucks, it reinforces what I have heard before. If there is someone disrespectful there, there is a room full of angry husbands to help out. Three guys, not involved in the situation at all took the guy down. That's awesome and things like that make me less nervous about going to a club.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

That's a great point, and the group thing swingers have going where everyone helps looks out for everyone, whether it's being responsible with sexual health or helping some asshole quickly find the exit door, is one of our favorite things about the swinging community.

[econobiker 165]

I've not remembered seeing anyone tossed from a swingers club but our house parties- hell yes.

 

tl/dr version: thrown out or left due to- 1.Drugs, 2. Sloppy, fall down drunk, 3. Drunk, possible violent act 4. Threatened violence 5. Touch/groping without permission

 

1. Asked a younger (very early 20s) couple, who arrived as friends with someone else, to leave because they thought they could smoke pot on the exterior (but shielded from outside public view) deck. Thing was our parties were alway "drug" free because of the homeowners legal safety and some folks who attended were/are law enforcement or related to law enforcement- active & retired civilian or military police, prison guards, lawyers, etc. While I suspected that some people toked up in their own cars parked on the property or got wired before getting to the party, the couple was too in your face about it.

 

2. Had to have a one young military guy who was way too drunk and acting stupid leave with his fellow soldier friends who weren't. They weren't happy but "orders are orders: get him the hell out of here and come back without him later if you want". They didn't return. If they had caused any trouble, we could have reported them to their unit's commanding officer for much less than getting any civilian police involved. We had some active career military people from that same base as our friends so not very difficult to do.

 

3. One drunk guy quickly removed himself before we found out that he had supposedly punched an even drunker woman on the back of her head because she threw up in his lap while trying to give him oral. We kind knew who he was and asked her if she wanted to call the police. She declined because she had ~several~ bench warrants outstanding on -herself- for failure to appear in court for everything from driving on a revoked license, drug charges, and failure to pay child support. Yes she had failed to pay child support TO her children's father who had full custody of their children. [bluntly, her personal life was a train wreck.] So she had a lump on the back of her head which we iced that down, got her drinking water and eating, and then she slept overnight at the house. The follow-up was the guy actually showed up at a party about 8 months later (the woman wasn't at this party), and before throwing him out as soon as he arrived, we point blank asked him "WTF happened with her?" His story was that when she started puking into his lap, he pushed her away which caused her to fall back and hit her head on the edge of a desk in the room. Possibly plausible given the position we had found the woman in but why would he bail so quickly? He didn't have an answer for that -we later thought that he might have been married. So we read him the riot act about being cool, allowed him to stay, and told every regular lady to immediately tell us if he even slightly got obnoxious so we could throw him out.

 

4. The hosts threw out and dis-invited the ex-boyfriend of one regular woman because the ex-bf had told her at the party that he would "fuck up" her new boyfriend when he saw him. No great loss because her ex-bf was a lazy freeloader who never contributed a thing except his big cock while her new bf was a very classy saint of a guy, contributed donations, and eventually married her. We were on high alert (one of us hosting husbands sober with appropriate measures ready) for the next couple of parties, until the poor, car-less, lazy ex-bf took the bus to move to another city.

 

5. Actually had a pair of twin guys from Eastern Europe or Russia we would have thrown out because one was a complete dick to women groping and grabbing ass etc without permission. I told the more mellow brother (luckily wearing different clothing!) to calm his grab-ass twin brother the fuck down or they both would be out. Unfortunately, because the host husband and I had heard the same things separately from different women, we didn't know he was doing it to so many women. By the time we put our notes together, the pair had left fairly early in the evening, like before 1000pm when they had only been there since 8:00. They were banned from future parties.