findinganswers 369 Posted March 21, 2016 We went against all the advise and are having the best time. We are swinging with friends, best friends. This is my wife's best friend and husband and another couple that we have been friends with for years. The two couples have been playing for many years. We had no idea. We just entered their swinging world. First with the BFF then with the second couple. I know this could have been a disaster. It is turning out to be so much fun Having sex with someone you know so well was weird and frightening but also great. Watching a friend doing your wife was at first not that much fun. It now is. My wife and I are now experiencing new things, new sensations, and new feelings. I don't think my wife has ever had two men in the same day, I did in college. This weekend was the second time we met as three couples. We are still the new couple so much of what happens is centered around us. The first time we did this the 2 guys were with my wife and I had the two women. Again these are our friends. This time they wanted me to watch closer what my wife was doing. The guys started by going down on my wife. What was different, one was in the front and one was doing her butt. We have dabbled in that but not much. These guys really had her going. Finally they say they are both going in. My wife was going to have two men in her. It was hilarious watching this happening. Anyone saying that one in the front and one in the butt is an easy feat must be very athletic. These guys are not new to this and they had a hard time. I think it was more my wife being nervous about it. I am happy it was freinds and the jokes were flying. I did get my new feelings with the ladies and now I kind of know what my wife wass feeling 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted March 21, 2016 Congratulations! While it is always risky to try swinging with best (or close) friends, it can also be very...rewarding, exciting, comfortable, easy sin you are already friends to start with. The drama only happens when the communication breaks down or other inter-couple problems arise, so be aware of these things and enjoy yourselves. Thanks to letting us know how your experiences are progressing and continued good luck! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
findinganswers 369 Posted March 21, 2016 Congratulations! While it is always risky to try swinging with best (or close) friends, it can also be very...rewarding, exciting, comfortable, easy sin you are already friends to start with. The drama only happens when the communication breaks down or other inter-couple problems arise, so be aware of these things and enjoy yourselves. Thanks to letting us know how your experiences are progressing and continued good luck! We know both couples have been playing at least 5 years together and they have a great friendship. As the newcomers they are going slow, not that slow, with us. The first time was the hardest for me. Once you do it there is no taking it back. My wife was eager. That was putting a doubt in me. I can say I worried about my own sexuality knowing she wanted another man. The trade off was me and our friend. My fear was unfounded. We discussed everything the next day. Sex was good for both of us. It was different not so much better. Being with two couples, all friends was like something hard to describe. Our sex was fun and playful. Nobody was trying to outdo the next. Things were done that neither of us have experienced before. We keep growing and enjoying 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Pklon 62 Posted March 21, 2016 This is what i found great about swinging. You just never know who is in it. Glad that you all had fun. I am also lucky enough to have great friends who are also swingers. My bff since childhood. Throughout the years when we went local swingers clubs we meet old school friends that we have not seen in years. And like I wrote in a old post, you just never know who is a swinger, we went are old teacher that we had. Glad that it all work out. If it ok to ask, how long have you known them Quote Share this post Link to post
findinganswers 369 Posted March 21, 2016 My wife knows the one wife since before we knew each other. They went to school together. Her husband is a second husband. He got her into swinging. We know the other couple over 10 years. Quote Share this post Link to post
Pklon 62 Posted March 22, 2016 My wife knows the one wife since before we knew each other. They went to school together. Her husband is a second husband. He got her into swinging. We know the other couple over 10 years. That nice. If it ok to ask another question. How long ago did you know that either were bi ( the wifes ) and that they were swingers. And also how did you found out that they were all swingers? Quote Share this post Link to post
findinganswers 369 Posted March 22, 2016 I found out about 6 months ago. My wife before that but not sure how much before. The bi part I didn't know until it happened. The second friend we found out last month. The first couple intimated we knew someone they played with but wasn't specific at first. Quote Share this post Link to post
TricianMike 772 Posted March 23, 2016 Good for both of you enjoying your new found pleasure and doing it with people you really like. Mike has told me plenty of times he would like to screw one of my friends. I have joked about taking one of his friends home. I too have a question, are you having as much fun as your wife? You write that you are now comfortable watching but I sense something. How does she feel watching you. Do you talk honestly after? Quote Share this post Link to post
findinganswers 369 Posted March 23, 2016 Good for both of you enjoying your new found pleasure and doing it with people you really like. Mike has told me plenty of times he would like to screw one of my friends. I have joked about taking one of his friends home. I too have a question, are you having as much fun as your wife? You write that you are now comfortable watching but I sense something. How does she feel watching you. Do you talk honestly after? No problem with questions. You are right I was hesitant. Watching a friend "screwing" your wife is not something that was easy to watch the first time. It got a little easier the second time. Watching her with two friends, well it was funny but I was worried. We have done some anal play before, I always use plenty of lubricant. This was her doing anal with my friend, using only his mouth as a lube and then watching my other friend screwing her at the same time. I think the anal hurt her though when I asked her later she said it didn't hurt that much. The positions they tried were hysterical. I think the girls made me laugh with their helping and laughing. The girls did things to me that were new to me too also including my butt. I am learning to relax. My wife and I are sharing our feelings after and I feel we are open and truthful going over what we are doing. We have even done things to one another that are new for us. Quote Share this post Link to post
Baconheads 432 Posted March 23, 2016 You had two men on the same day in college? Quote Share this post Link to post
findinganswers 369 Posted March 23, 2016 You had two men on the same day in college? Maybe I should re-read before posting No I have never been with a man and don't think I will. Not that there is anything wrong with that. In college I had two dates in the same day, not at the same time. Quote Share this post Link to post
