Seeking playmates on vanilla cruise

[Bamher216 15]

We are mature couple occasional cuckold swingers. What is the best way to hook up or find like minded couples while on a NON Lifestyle cruise? Are there any blogs or boards to see if perhaps there might be some others on our cruise?

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

Hello, Bamher216, and welcome to SwingersBoard!

 

I'm not myself aware of any places specifically oriented toward helping lifestyle couples to meet up on vanilla cruises. If I were in your situation, I might post in the "Hot Date" section of whatever swinger sites you might be on. There is also a site called AlreadyBooked.com, that is mainly oriented toward lifestyle cruises, but you might find some information along the lines of your question there as well.

[Bamher216 15]

Thank for the info. At least it is a place to start

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

Maybe another forum here?

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

If you want to catch fish, it's always best to start in a lake that you know HAS fish in it. Otherwise you shouldn't be surprised when you come home empty handed...

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I think I would try to find some discussion groups for that cruise, introduce yourself early on, be an active poster, and give people a chance to get to know you. Once you've spent enough time on the site to have gotten a good reputation, you'll probably already have gotten a good feel for what the cruise is like, and you will also have probably identified one or more other members you could approach privately to find out what really goes on behind the scenes, if anything. Some of it may just be the cruise equivalent of suburban legend, or there may be some good info available.

[intuition897 2,179]

Hello, Bamher216, and welcome to SwingersBoard!

 

I'm not myself aware of any places specifically oriented toward helping lifestyle couples to meet up on vanilla cruises. If I were in your situation, I might post in the "Hot Date" section of whatever swinger sites you might be on. There is also a site called AlreadyBooked.com, that is mainly oriented toward lifestyle cruises, but you might find some information along the lines of your question there as well.

 

Signed up! No idea if I'll actually ever get to book anything (in 22 years of marriage, we've never been on an actual vacation where I needed to pack sandals and sunscreen. Long story.) but I'll get to daydream. Oh man, I would LOVE to go to Naughty in N'Awlins!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

There is a group on swingerzonecentral.com called: Ocean Cruise Connections specifically for that purpose.

 

There are so many vanilla cruises that it's kind of like looking for a needle in a haystack. I gwill say though that last year a group of us went on a vanilla cruise. We posted on SLS hot date for the departure city and found another couple going. Turns out the guy was an asshole, so didn't work well for our group. So, there's that. You may find someone, but not be compatible.

 

I usually post here in the travel section when we travel, but have never gotten any bites, it's worth a try though!

 

Have fun!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I think I would try to find some discussion groups for that cruise, introduce yourself early on, be an active poster, and give people a chance to get to know you. Once you've spent enough time on the site to have gotten a good reputation, you'll probably already have gotten a good feel for what the cruise is like, and you will also have probably identified one or more other members you could approach privately to find out what really goes on behind the scenes, if anything. Some of it may just be the cruise equivalent of suburban legend, or there may be some good info available.

 

I do this on CruiseCritic.com they have role calls for every cruise and sometimes do meet ups. I use a user name with sls as part of it, hoping someone will inquire. I never go as far as saying publicly we are swingers. There are some very funny, outraged threads about swingers on cruises on that site.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

My wife and I actually did make a connection by putting a message into a discussion group at SLS. I've also seen the discussion group at SZC that funcoupledayton mentioned but have not used it.