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We are planning a visit to Menages in Nashville the first Saturday in May. If anyone has been there recently we'd like a review. Are the group play areas more participants or watchers? Lockers available, towels, etc.

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We used to go to Menages 3-4 times a year, and now, it's been 3-4 years since we've been there :( So, hopefully someone with some more recent experience will chime in.

 

Granted, this is dated info, but I haven't heard anything that disputes it...we always thought Menages was very well run and a great place to go. The way I remember it, no on the lockers, think they did have some towels and wipes sitting out, and the times we used the public play areas it was still fairly early in the evening so there weren't that many people up there anyways. About 50/50 with a few couples playing, a few couples watching.

 

Hope you have a great trip and please let us know how it went!

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This was fall of 2013:

 

We visited Menages this weekend. It was a fun time, we would go back, but probably not by ourselves.

 

Pros: Very well-organized and well-run. Free valet parking, efficient door staff and everyone gets a tour, which explains all the areas.

 

It is a very large club. Lots of play space, lots of tables, a large bar and a big dance floor.

 

It's byob, they do have waitresses for mixers. There is no food service.

 

Very clean and upscale in appearance.

 

Fairly diverse crowd in terms of ages, races and body types. Tending more toward younger and thinner, I would say. It is definitely couples focused. Single guys are restricted to the bar area and a small separate play area.

 

There is a cool outdoor play area with 3 cabanas.

 

There is a "fetish room" that consists of a swing, a yoga/sex bench, two throne-like chairs and a St. Andrew's cross.

 

Good dance floor, music, lights, etc.

 

We arrived shortly after 9pm and there were a lot of people there.

 

Cons:

 

Very dark and Very loud music. It is really difficult to even approach someone to introduce yourself because it is so loud.

 

No beds! At all. All the play areas are couches and benches. I think the sex swing is the most comfortable place to play there. It really doesn't lend itself to full swap or group play. In the outdoor cabanas there appear to be double beds. They are not, they are two poolside lounge chairs pushed together with cushions on them. Unfuckable.

 

No towels or sheets. All the rooms have single sheet paper towels and baby wipes. I'm not crazy about rubbing my naked body around on furniture, even if there are baby wipes available.

 

Limited bathrooms, there was always a line both for men and women.

 

So, there was good and bad. A few things I would do if we're in the area again. I would go with friends or I'd try to meet up with a local couple for drinks before going to the club, then you'd get a chance to talk to someone and have someone to hang out and dance with. There are quiet areas where you can go in the club, but no one is in those areas to meet, everyone is out around the dance floor. I would bring a towel or a throw to lay down on the play surfaces.

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The review I wrote above was from another group I manage. This a follow up review from someone who went a few months later with a few tips. This person has a very, very outgoing personality.

 

 

Must say we read all the reviews and have to say thank you to everyone for the information it was great knowing what to expect. We visited Menages this past weekend on Friday and had such a great time went back on Saturday. Since we had some up front idea what to expect we knew we would have to act differently from other clubs up north we've visited.

 

Everyone sits at nicely arranged tables so it is not an easy place to meet but the dance floor was going all night both nights. Since we were new the mandatory tour was our opportunity to say hello as we walked around. It slowed down the tour and though the sexy lady leading us through was in a bit a rush it broke the ice with just enough couples to avoid sitting alone. We were able to meet new people, dance and yes we found some privacy.

 

Saturday when we went back we complimented the DJ and mentioned being new but loving his selection and mixing but it was so loud we could barely talk to each other. Amazingly within a song the volume went down just enough and we had the pleasure of sitting next to the DJ booth talking with a wonderful couple from KY. This was one of the best DJ's at a club we've ever experienced, new music, old club classics and well mixed to keep bodies on the floor.

 

The workers are visble and if you had a question they were very helpful, the crowd was the same as most places. Groups who knew each other staying with each other. But between the tourists in town for a show and a little nightlife away from the standard bars, the always shy and reserved regulars and the show ponies dancing this was a great club. If you go to Nashville go for the visit well worth the experience and we will be back!

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We just went to Menages for the first time two weekends ago. I'd echo everything funcoupledayton said initially. While I wouldn't say we had a bad time, I'm not sure we'll be rushing back either.

 

Initially , it was the little things that were missing. No lockers, no beds, no clean sheets, no condoms. We've been to enough clubs were those things are just a given that I guess we've gotten spoiled. And, short of the subtle language of sloppy dance floor grinding, I'm not sure how you communicate with other couples over the volume in the main areas. Would definitely be more fun if you already knew people, or were going to meet a specific couple there.

 

The biggest shock for us was that Menages is a smoking club. Like indoor smoking. Like in the play areas smoking. Like red hot ash dangling precariously over your naked body indoor smoking.

 

Never gonna get used to that about the south.

 

The final straw for us was when we were showing off in the fishbowl room, and she caught several noticeably unattached fellas standing for a longish time with their phones out and angled just so (there is a no phone rule, but...) Innocuous? Maybe. But that was the end of the night for us.

 

Obviously YMMV

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My husband and I have been attending menages for about 8 years. We meet so many wonderful people. The staff is outstanding walking around checking on you. They have valet which is a plus and a coat check. It's a byob! The dj is the best he plays different music all night long the lights are going!!!

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Thanks to all for the reviews. With the smoking allowed in all areas, the very loud music and the possibility of men taking cellphone pictures we are going to pass on this club. We have many others we want to try and we'll try to report back with accurate reviews.

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I know that this review thread is from April 2016 but I wanted to add a specific issue that has arisen related to Menages at least around August/September of 2016.. I also know that you can't post directly to the club reviews section either.

 

HEADS UP ANYONE NOT ALREADY A MENAGES MEMBER AND TRAVELING FROM OUT OF TOWN!

MENAGES MEMBERSHIP APPLICATION NOW REQUIRES A MINIMUM 24 HOUR WAITING PERIOD PRIOR TO CLUB ENTRY!

 

I've have a single male friend ( from outside of swinging- long story but he does know about Red and I) who recently signed up at Menages in Nashville. The issue being is that that club now has a 24 hour minimum waiting period to "background check" (my friends description)and approve your membership BEFORE you are allowed into the club. Obviously no longer just show up and get a temporary or short term membership.

 

After he told me about this rule I asked if it was for single men only but he said that it was for everyone. On a recent Saturday night my friend said that he witnessed an out of town couple being turned away from Menages because of this new rule.

 

 

I guess that you could fillout and send a membership application via email or online several days before you arrive but EDIT (I don't know for sure.)Yes you can per thier website. They may need to also phone interview you.

And you also are supposed to have an existing member recommendation. Sending an applicaion via email/online makes the recommendation more difficult to get unless maybe you broadcast on forums like this one or on SLS or AFF etc as needing a recommendation from someone else.

 

The saddest part of the rule is, because of Nashville's new and very popular convention center, more folks will be traveling to the city and will be getting tripped up by this rule.

 

Just a heads up to everybody.

NOTE: I am not a member of Menages and have never been there, Red is not a current member and was only there once or twice back in the early 2000s. I have no ax to grind about this club, I'm just trying to be inform other people so they are prepared by joining online at least 24 before arriving in Nashville if you're interested in attending this club.

 

Moderator please feel free to add this information to the Menages club review section.

Thank you,

Econobiker

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