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Well, after visiting a couple swing clubs over the last few months and having a blast at them (just the two of us) we finally decided it was time to expand our horizons.

 

I would love to see her being fucked by someone else, and she's pretty excited about that idea too.

 

Problem is, we don't have much time to nurture an online relationship with another couple who shares the same interests, and I was wondering if anybody has been in the same boat we are now.

 

I suggested her we could visit an on-premise swingers club, and mingle around a bit, and if she saw someone she liked, we could write them a straightforward note with something like "hey! My wife likes you, would you like to party with her?" (or maybe get right to the point: "would you like to fuck her?)

 

But we're a little afraid we could offend someone. My wife is in her early 40s, full figured and really pretty. Not someone you would turn away from if the opportunity presents itself.

 

What do you guys/gals think or suggest?

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I suggested her we could visit an on-premise swingers club, and mingle around a bit, and if she saw someone she liked, we could write them a straightforward note with something like "hey! My wife likes you, would you like to party with her?" (or maybe get right to the point: "would you like to fuck her?)

 

Honestly, I'd skip the note and just ask...

 

Here's my experience of on-premise swingers clubs... you go, hang out, maybe dance. You see a couple (or single) who you like the look of. You walk up to them and say "can we sit with you" or "Hi, I'm so-and-so, this is my wife, care to chat." If they say yes, you make casual conversation, if you're feeling it talk about your limits and sexual interests and eventually - if the chemistry is right - you (or they) pop the question: "Would you like to play?" If yes, go to the clubs play-area and have fun.

 

If, at any point, they say "no" or you just aren't feeling it with them, say "thanks for chatting" and "well, have a great evening" and move on to the next couple you like the look of. Repeat until successful (which might take hours, weeks or months depending on any number of factors).

 

Then do it all over again next time. ;)

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I think I want to know where and when this is going to take place ;) Seriously though, the on-premise club sounds like exactly what you need. Everything moves faster there...no having to leave and find somewhere to play like at an off-premise club, no weeks of back and forth emailing and trying to find an open night on two schedules for meeting for dinner and drinks, and all that other stuff that can make swinging feel like work sometimes.

 

Not everyone goes to the club determined to play that night; in fact, that's a bad idea since building up high expectations ahead of time is a sure way to ruin a fun night. But, it's probably in the back of the mind of nearly all swingers there. You'll note that I said "swingers" instead of "everyone" in that last sentence since there will likely be a fair number of people there who just like the environment or whatever but have no interest in playing themselves, so you may have some of those to navigate around, but just getting your intentions out early will help prevent spending all evening chatting someone up only to find out they don't play.

 

I wouldn't worry about a note...just go up and start talking to him/them. A little chitchat, maybe a dance or two, and if it's going to happen then it probably will happen after just that.

 

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

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When you go to an on premise site, if you see someone you are both attracted to, say hi and go from there...you miss all the shots you don't take.

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Being direct like that if in an on-premise club would never offend me. I am in an environment that I should expect to get hit on or asked to fuck. Just don't be offended if I say no. If I'm not interested then I will.

 

Again doing it with some respect and not a cocky attitude would never offend me. How could I ever be offended by being asked if I wanted to fuck a pretty woman if I am in a sexual place?

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We like on premises clubs because when we are ready to play, we're ready to play. Our time is limited and people that show up at a on-P club are usually DTP/DTF. We have met some couples at a bar or restaurant and it's gone well, but other times, we've met and had a nice time but either they're not ready to play with us or it's gotten too late. Sometimes I think that we are expected to meet their parents before playtime begins.

 

Now don't get me wrong, cause we always have a great time together. We just love that feeling of multiple couples on the same bed all sweating and writhing.... Whew!

 

A note? Just say Hi! This ain't sixth grade.

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I think an on-premise swing club is definitely the right place for you. If you see a couple that appeals to you both, go over and say hi. Compliment her on her dress or whatever to get the conversation going. If you like them and still are hoping to play, just say, "Hey we're heading to the back soon. We hope to see you guys there." You opened the door, if they are interested they will look for you.

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Honestly, at an on premise club... if you go up and talk to someone.. that's pretty much a clear message.

 

Edit: And HOLY CRAP!!! Have I really only posted 4 times in 8 years? Once every two years on average? Talk about a lurker!

 

Yeah definitely need to post more.

 

So we do not do any online stuff anymore, just too much time, too much hassle.

 

That being said we do go to no premise clubs and have a great time!!

 

No you do not have to hand people a note, just try and talk to as many people there as possible. It one of the things that make swing clubs so much more fun than 'vanilla' clubs. If people are not interested they will not give you much more attention than a quick smile and look somewhere else. If they are interested they will chat about something else.

 

They can be a little weird and overwhelming, just enjoy the adventure.

 

Let us know how it goes and good luck and have fun!!

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Thank you all for your friendly advice!

 

We will be visiting the Player's Club in Austin during the weekend of August 19-20, so if anybody wants to join in the fun, be sure to PM us!

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Please let us know how it is. New to the SA area and are looking for places to go.

 

We've already visited both the San Antonio and Austin's players club, and we liked the Austin place a lot more.

The SA club had more patrons, but it looked a bit more run-down and the play area was pretty crowded (I guess that's not really a bad thing, lol)

We also noticed the SA location was more "clique-y" while in Austin there were a lot more lone couples which increase our chances greatly.

 

The only cons we found on the Austin location was that it was on an industrial part of town, surrounded by warehouses and body shops, but other than that, the place was great. Staff was friendly, place looked clean and well organized and the play area was ample.

We're going back there even if it means driving 80 more miles.

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Wow thank you for the rundown. It will definitely be on our "to do" list when we head out there. I think it'd be better for us to be at a club scene away from home

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