Oh, no! Nude and erection problems?

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

One concern that I've heard many times from swingers (well, I guess I'm really talking about male swingers) who are considering visiting a nudist or clothing-optional venue is that they will not be able to suppress an erection when they are around all those naked females. This issue is on the FAQ of lots of nudist and clothing-optional resort Web sites, and they always seem to mention that the solution is just taking a dip in a cool swimming pool! I have a hunch that this is more a problem in the minds of those who are concerned about going to a nudist resort than it is an actual common occurrence. But I'm interested to know about everybody's firsthand and second-hand experiences.

 

So, who has actually seen this problem "in the flesh" at a nudist or clothing-optional resort? Who has had this happen to them or their partner? Has it caused embarrassment/humiliation/mortification, or was it a "no problem" reaction from those who witnessed the flag-raising? Was a dip in the pool actually the solution?

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

I'm not well suited to answer, since I'm a girl and we go to clothing optional places where swinging is allowed. If someone gets an erection in my vicinity, I'm flattered. I haven't seen anyone do anything but ignore it or take advantage of it, when it's happened at resorts we've been at.

 

This question brought back so many great memories!

 

I can tell you for certain, that pool water does not curb erections.

[njbm 2,861]

We are long term nudists and short term swingers (30 years vs. 2 years). We've seen very few woodies at nude beaches and resorts. There was one character at Sandy Hook who was nicknamed Woody, but other than him, it was rare to see. After being nude for a few minutes, most people swim, sunbathe, play volleyball, etc. and forget they are naked. In swinging, stimulative activities begin and things rise. One hopes.

[asncpl 728]

It's rare in my experience. The only time I remember offhand was in the hot tub when I playfully sat on this guy's lap. I felt his woody on my back.

 

Most people go to nudist beaches and resorts to relax, and with all the naked bodies around, I really feel that we get used to the nudity very quickly. This is something Mr. A was worried about too but I've never seen him with an erection.

[Fundamental Law 2,882]

One concern that I've heard many times from swingers (well, I guess I'm really talking about male swingers) who are considering visiting a nudist or clothing-optional venue is that they will not be able to suppress an erection when they are around all those naked females.

 

This is a perennial question. It seems more cultural than biological, in the sense that many cultures are used to casual nudity. It is a peculiarly American perspective that tightly links social nudity to sexual interest and activity. The usual dynamic seems to be something like the following...

 

1. There is a combination of angst and excitement about the first trip to a nude beach or resort. Indeed, the angst is so great that the American club or resort policy is usually stated as "clothing-optional" and allowances are made for first-time visitors.

 

2. On arrival, there are all these people doing what everyone does on their front lawn, or by the pool, or at any other place--except they are naked. They have scars, wrinkles, sags, bellies etc. They look like everyone else does stepping out of the shower. The conversations are about weather, cars, sports teams, youtube cat videos...indistinguishable from what one hears at any July 4 cookout.

 

3. It occurs to the new people (if they are still dressed) that they are suddenly the exception. Clothes come off quickly, the etiquette of carrying and sitting on towels is rapidly learned and the focus becomes getting enough sunscreen on to avoid resembling a boiled lobster.

 

All of this is the antithesis of erotic. There is enough of the "will we fit in?" and "how do we introduce ourselves while naked?" angst and so on that sex is pretty far from anyone's brain. At most, people suddenly notice that it's a lot more comfortable being naked in the sun and in the pool or or on the beach.

[older couple 132]

My wife and I have been nudists for 40 years. We have seen it all. There are some guys who just can't keep it down no matter what. But the majority of men soon learn how to keep their erections down even in most erotic occations that might spring up. But there is just one thing I have seen that is so common among men, leaking precum. That is so much impossible to stop. Even with the life long nudist men. But I have found women love to see it. We have nude dances and I try not to get it on the women but most love feeling it on them. In some places erections and precum are looked at as rude and nonexcusible. Other places it's seen normal natural function of the male, so no big deal.

[Alura 2,773]

In 1969, I was in Europe and lucky enough to be at the Isle of Wight Music Festival. It was England's answer to Woodstock. Many of the same artists were featured.

 

Some friends, including myself, went to the beach where we found a waterfall coming off the rocky cliff. We all showered.

 

Air-drying afterwards, we watched a fellow who would approach a nude lady walking along the beach and ask her if she'd care to have sex in the sand. Most didn't answer, but pushed beyond him and continued on their way. One, however, stopped, looked him in the eye for a moment. Then she stepped into his arms and delivered an enormous kiss. She stepped back from the encounter and said, "No, thank you," and went on her way, leaving his penis waving at the horizon.

 

This has nothing to do with the question, but I thought I'd share the experience.

[J&Wu 408]

We are long time Nudists, I can't speak for Wu but I tend to look people in the eyes, doesn't seem polite to stare at their other parts. I sometimes still get erections being close to Wu, like walking hand in hand, dancing. Some times it used to be mechanical when it was hot and we were playing tennis or volleyball and it would slap my thighs, once it started getting heavier it could be a progressive problem. But no one seemed to notice or at least care except Wu, although depending on the mood and situation she would think it was funny!

[Butchj 65]

Erections were not kosher on our nude beach. Men either taught themselves to behave or were banned. If anyone had the urge to have sex they had to move down the beach find a place that was private and do their thing.

[jnrswinger 62]

I can't remember ever seeing an erection at a nude beach or resort - maybe couple of partials. (Non lifestyle, otherwise it's kinda the whole point isn't it!!) However, clothing optional beaches are another story - and most of them were "tents" in their shorts they were too scared to take off in the first place - i.e. looky-loos, voyeurs, perves, whatever you want to call them. It's why we no longer do CO and stick to nude.

[jnrswinger 62]

I can't remember ever seeing an erection at a nude beach or resort - maybe couple of partials. (Non lifestyle, otherwise it's kinda the whole point isn't it!!) However, clothing optional beaches are another story - and most of them were "tents" in their shorts they were too scared to take off in the first place - i.e. looky-loos, voyeurs, perves, whatever you want to call them. It's why we no longer do CO and stick to nude.

 

Actually I lied come to think of it. we had an experience that was not great at a local nude beach. Only us on the beach except for a few bi guys wandering through looking for hook ups. A guy came and sat near us and we chatted quite normally. Out in the water has asked me if we play and I said no thanks. But he sat there and stroked his dick, looking at my wife. I told him is was not cool but he didn't stop, so we left eventually. Just for the record, I would have been OK with it if she was - plenty of cover around there and he was hung like a horse. But she was not ready yet and not in those circumstances anyway.

[HornyToronto 51]

Only happened to me once...because my cock was in my wife's mouth.

[padoc 1,701]

We've seen a few "chubbies" at Haulover but the only real erections we've seen was the occasional couple who got a bit rambunctious while applying sunscreen to one another. Once in awhile that leads to a surriptitous hand job which we've found fun to watch. All in all, those things are the exception, not the rule.

[skyguy6977 88]

I have give discrete handjobs at haulover and wreck beach.

Deb.

[Shore2Please 605]

We have been to several nude beaches both in Caribbean and here in NJ and I don’t think I ever saw an erection. There definitely was not any sex at all either. My husband and the guys we went to our first beach with joked about getting one. Gunnisons beach in NJ gets very crowded during the summer. Sex is prohibited. There are gawkers as you might expect. There are those who are curious as we were the first time. I know there are swingers there I think. There is an area that gays tend to go to. It’s a nude beach not a sex beach. It is not Hedonism. There is no sex, no hand jobs, no blow jobs. It’s a regular fun beach without the clothes.

[TricianMike 766]

We have been to several nude beaches both in Caribbean and here in NJ and I don’t think I ever saw an erection. There definitely was not any sex at all either. My husband and the guys we went to our first beach with joked about getting one. Gunnisons beach in NJ gets very crowded during the summer. Sex is prohibited. There are gawkers as you might expect. There are those who are curious as we were the first time. I know there are swingers there I think. There is an area that gays tend to go to. It’s a nude beach not a sex beach. It is not Hedonism. There is no sex, no hand jobs, no blow jobs. It’s a regular fun beach without the clothes.

We have been to Sandy Hook too. For the most part it is as you said. On occasion I have seen full staffs. It is usually men who are alone or like you said gawkers. Last summer we saw a younger group, I guess in their twenties. From what we could tell first timers on the beach. You can tell how they undress. Some of the girls leaving their bottoms on, the guys jumping out of theirs. One of the guys got a little excited. One of the girls, I think his girlfriend was more embarrassed than him. There were towels thrown at him by his friends and towels pulled away in fun. I am pretty sure it subsided pretty fast.

[tsopkc 17]

Nudists don't look at nude gatherings like swingers do. If they want to gather for sex the like minded ones will gather someplace else

[Stonecharles100 17]

I get a boner just thinking of being naked around others. I couldn’t do it. Maybe when I’m a bit older and it doesn’t work as well, lol

[J&Wu 408]

I get a boner just thinking of being naked around others. I couldn’t do it. Maybe when I’m a bit older and it doesn’t work as well, lol

It happens but as long as it isn't being used who cares. I remember a Bare Necessities Cruise excursion in St Lucia where the guide stripped down to go in the waterfall pool with us. What a sword he had! Some giggles from the ladies but no "big" deal?

[pete c 34]

Alura said:

In 1969, I was in Europe and lucky enough to be at the Isle of Wight Music Festival. It was England's answer to Woodstock. Many of the same artists were featured.

 

Some friends, including myself, went to the beach where we found a waterfall coming off the rocky cliff. We all showered.

 

Air-drying afterwards, we watched a fellow who would approach a nude lady walking along the beach and ask her if she'd care to have sex in the sand. Most didn't answer, but pushed beyond him and continued on their way. One, however, stopped, looked him in the eye for a moment. Then she stepped into his arms and delivered an enormous kiss. She stepped back from the encounter and said, "No, thank you," and went on her way, leaving his penis waving at the horizon.

 

This has nothing to do with the question, but I thought I'd share the experience.

 

That's hillarious.

 

Poor bastard.

[jnrswinger 62]

Reminds me of a similar story - I believe if I remember correctly it was at the same music festival - may years ago. Lack of sufficient toilets resulted in a row of men peeing against a wall. One kept asking passing women if they would like to hold his penis for him while he urinated. Eventually one said yes. As he started she directed it on his shoes and pants and left it still peeing on his feet. Not a lot he could say but it certainly got some laughs from everyone else.

[venusshaw 123]

It's all a part of the game. All fun, no embarrassment. An erect prick is a joy to watch. Men are envious, women are desirous, why spoil a good thing by dipping into the pool. Never seen anyone trying to hide anything. Au Naturel!

[agreatguy 269]

I've never gotten a full on, ready for sex boner while at a nude resort or beach, at least not when I wouldn't have wanted it. Varying degrees of erection? Yes and it wasn't anything to be embarrassed of or to show off. It just was.

[jnrswinger 62]

It's all a part of the game. All fun, no embarrassment. An erect prick is a joy to watch. Men are envious, women are desirous, why spoil a good thing by dipping into the pool. Never seen anyone trying to hide anything. Au Naturel!

 

Not at a genuine nudist location. It's not a "game". Maybe at a lifestyle location. It's not what regular nudism is about and is very much frowned on and could get you kicked out if you are flaunting a stiffy. Accidentals are expected to be discretely handled (no pun intended). Sure it happens at CO locations as I previously mentioned, but we avoid CO these days due to the creeps.

[Numex 2,379]

I opened this thread to see if the problem was getting it up or keeping it down. Could be either way depending on the situation.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

I opened this thread to see if the problem was getting it up or keeping it down. Could be either way depending on the situation.

I see that the OP included the information, " . . . those who witnessed the flag-raising . . . ".

[padoc 1,701]

When it happens, maybe someone will 'take a knee"!

[jnrswinger 62]

I opened this thread to see if the problem was getting it up or keeping it down. Could be either way depending on the situation.

 

So obviously you have never been to a nudist resort as opposed to (perhaps) a swinging lifestyle resort. They are two completely different things - even though there are undoubtedly some swingers at many nudist resorts, but they know well enough to either be discrete or typically be ejected. Nudism is not about sex, swinging is all about sex. True nudists men rarely have a problem "keeping it down", they are accustomed to seeing nude people around them doing everyday things all the time, it's no big deal to them in that setting. Often they are also family resorts so children are present. Official clothing optional locations, especially public ones are also not intended as swinging locations. However there are often the looky loos, creeps and perverts - who also btw often do not get naked. Those are typically the ones sporting their little stiffies and thinking for some pathetic reason that people are going to get excited seeing it. A lot of public locations, both official and unofficial, with plenty of cover have sexual activity going on in the bushes and people - almost always bi and gay men - trolling for sex partners. Surprisingly a lot of them are mature bi married men. Weekends at those locations typically see more couples and women, midweek mostly men. Nudists tend to avoid those locations unless they have no other options. The official public locations are usually patrolled by rangers or police for illegal activity. Interestingly now I think about it I do not know of any public Nude (i.e. NO clothing permitted) locations as opposed to Clothing Optional ones.

[jnrswinger 62]

When it happens, maybe someone will 'take a knee"!

 

Actually at public locations known for bi/gay male activity someone frequently "takes a knee", occasionally two knees.

[jnrswinger 62]

Oh, and BTW: Of course as a nudist you may still do a (hopefully discrete) double take even at a nudist resort when someone who you find attractive catches your eye, but it's no different than the same situation in a regular textile setting. You just get to see more and leave less to the imagination - not sure which is better .

[Bluespruce1 705]

We go to sandy hook and have seen a couple of guys get hard. it’s usually gawkers and they roll over on their stomach when it happens.

[ionsawmill 86]

Never been to a nudist colony or a nude beach, but in four years of taking figure drawing classes in college, with both male and female nude models, I don’t think we ever had an incident where someone had a visible erection, and we were all young guys in our teens and early twenties. In a matter of minutes after the model got undressed, we were all concentrating on the task at hand. They usually hung out with us on breaks, sometimes dressed and sometimes nude, depending on the weather. Never had a problem.

[oc1234 435]

My wife and I are very longtime nudists and have both modeled for figure drawing classes. Both of us really enjoyed being models. I never had a problem with getting an erection. I did find being nude in a college classroom very enjoyable. The modeling I did was for an evening figure drawing session open to everyone at a college. Everything was very professional and friendly. The funniest thing that happened to me was when a middle aged woman was sketching in the session where I was modelling. At the break, her teen daughter came in to wait for her mother to finish so they could drive home. Here I am sitting nude on a platform and the girl asked me if I was the model. That was an example of a girl who realized that nudity was not necessarily associated with sex.

[Butchj 65]

Truthfully if a couple is stealthy, sexually fun times can be had if you are watchful and do it at the right time. We loved our home beach and went every day. I always was naked and wife was topless. We usually had sex back home but my wife sucked me off one afternoon while I was the lookout. She even fed me a mouthful of come afterwards. We practiced female domination so my wife caned me several times on the beach. We enjoyed the freedom but was careful as well. Beaches are very erotic!

[luv2was 117]

Butchj said:

Truthfully if a couple is stealthy, sexually fun times can be had....

Depending on the location, this could be a problem... or not. If anyone is new to this, I strongly advise doing your homework, to be sure that you know & understand what the local laws or rules are.

 

BTW - the (newer) "PC" terms for nudist & nudism are: Naturist & Naturism. A lot of folks still use the "old" terms, but if you want to blend in better....

 

I can best speak from my experience visiting Hippie Hollow Park (HHP) in Travis Co, TX (where Austin is). The Park is about a 30 minute drive from downtown. ... I lived in Austin for 7 years, and visited HHP as often as I could (which was sometimes every week). I also was very active on the (privately run) BBS there (which is very similar to this Bulletin Board System).

 

The consensus of the HHP BBS is that getting an erection is not a problem, but what you do with it can be. As long as you do not flaunt it, cover up in some way (immersing in cold water can for sure do the trick), folks generally will overlook it. I think this is a universal truth, across the USA anyway.

 

At HHP however, it is part of the County Park system, which has its own police force (which is rather thin, over a large area). There are very explicit "No Lewd Behavior" laws in place at HHP (which you have to be 18 or older to get in). I say all this because I would not want anyone looking to start exploring the Naturist Lifestyle to get the wrong idea, and get in trouble unnecessarily.

 

The locals at HHP look VERY unfavorably upon, and are VERY sensitive to "lewd behavior", and will typically call the police if they see it. The reason being that if it happens too often, they are (justifiably) afraid that the park could be closed down (as a Clothing Optional [CO] park, anyway). And it would be a real bummer if it got shut down too, because it is a beautiful place to hang-out naked, among some (mostly) very friendly people. Being a "Public Park" however, there is no "filter" regarding who can get in, and sometimes that can be an issue. But the locals tend to look after that jewel of a resource.

 

There are very few legal CO Public Parks across the USA, but I am betting most of them operate very much in the same way as HHP. ... While outdoor sex is a favorite of mine (so I get that), I just want to be sure anyone new does not see that as acceptable everywhere... even if you are being "stealthy". ... It is wise to know ahead of time what kind of situation you are getting into.

 

Here are links to the HHP County Parks site, as well as the (privately run) BBS, which can be an excellent resource for getting answers about Naturism, even if you do not visit HHP.

 

https://parks.traviscountytx.gov/parks/hippie-hollow

http://www.hippiehollow.com/bb3/

... that "Message Board" is only one part of that web, which has a LOT of information about the park, and how to get the most out of your visit there.

 

As was mentioned earlier in this thread... While there is some overlap between the Naturist Lifestyle and the Swinger Lifestyle, there are some vast differences too, and you would be very wise to know which situation you are getting into, and what is acceptable (or not). Again... Do your homework.

 

As for the OP (original post)...

 

GuyInMD79 said:

... Has it caused embarrassment/humiliation/mortification, or was it a "no problem" reaction from those who witnessed the flag-raising? Was a dip in the pool actually the solution?

 

Again, what you do with it is way more of an issue than getting an erection in a public nude situation... that is strictly Naturist in tone.

 

Most naturist facilities (the private ones for sure) require that EVERYONE carry a towel to sit on. This is a sanitation issue (and a good idea in general). For the guys, the towel can come in handy as a quick cover-up too.

 

I have seen dozens of posts by guys worrying about this. But the reality is that usually in very short order, this becomes a non issue. For most folks (especially guys, and the erection issue), being in a publicly nude situation can be a real mind twister. It goes completely against a lot of social programming that we've been subjected to for our entire life. Once the reality sets in however, that in a Naturist environment, it is OK to be naked among a lot of other naked people (in a non-sexual way), the tension usually just melts away (and sporting a hard-on typically becomes less of an issue).

 

People do not typically stare at your junk, especially if they are talking to you. So acceptance is high, and judgement (and pressure) are low, much as it is (or should be) in the Swinger Lifestyle.

 

The truth too is that when (most) everyone around you is naked, it is easier to blend in by being naked also.

 

Another thing about public nudity is that it tends to tear down a lot of barriers, and "level the playing field" so-to-speak. There is typically not much room for pretense when everyone is naked, and that can be an extraordinarily liberating experience.

[J&Wu 408]

Actually I lied come to think of it. we had an experience that was not great at a local nude beach. Only us on the beach except for a few bi guys wandering through looking for hook ups. A guy came and sat near us and we chatted quite normally. Out in the water has asked me if we play and I said no thanks. But he sat there and stroked his dick, looking at my wife. I told him is was not cool but he didn't stop, so we left eventually. Just for the record, I would have been OK with it if she was - plenty of cover around there and he was hung like a horse. But she was not ready yet and not in those circumstances anyway.

Wu had a guy come over and masturbate in front of her at a public nude beach in the Caribbean. Lots of other people nearby and occasional guard around so she did not feel threatened, just kind of weirded. When I got back from the surf we both watched him work it and I shot a couple pictures of him before he scooted.

[Fla-swing99 136]

Only happened to me once...because my cock was in my wife's mouth.

 

Ok, yea I can understand the reason for that happening this one and only time. Mr and I think thats an awesome story. Not sure what others would think but, funny as hell to us.

[venusshaw 123]

When it is up, difficult to keep it down. When it is down, it refuses to go up. Idea is to ignore it, and let it take its own course.

[Numex 2,379]

"Oh, no! Nude and erection problems?"

On 10/26/2018 at 10:39 AM, SW_PA_Couple said:

Numex said:

I opened this thread to see if the problem was getting it up or keeping it down. Could be either way depending on the situation.

I see that the OP included the information, " . . . those who witnessed the flag-raising . . . ".

 

On 10/27/2018 at 9:29 AM, jnrswinger said:

So obviously you have never been to a nudist resort as opposed to (perhaps) a swinging lifestyle resort.

I didn't know that this was about nudist resorts from the title, only after I opened the post.

[larry818 58]

Here's something I read on rec.nude decades ago, it's always kind of stuck with me:

 

"This is a common question among newcomers to nudist activities. In practice, it is nothing to worry about. What usually happens is something like this: You get an erection,  somebody notices, points at you and yells, "Hey, look at the hard-on on that guy" or, "Look at that guy trying to hide his hard-on". Then everyone gathers around, pointing and laughing. If you try to run away, they all follow you. People start taking pictures. Eventually, some guy thinks he catches you looking at his girlfriend/self and beats the hell out of you. After this happens two or three times, you get conditioned to always go limp when you see a naked body."

Edited July 23, 2021 by larry818

[let's do it again 412]

On 1/10/2017 at 10:19 AM, older couple said:

My wife and I have been nudists for 40 years. We have seen it all. There are some guys who just can't keep it down no matter what. But the majority of men soon learn how to keep their erections down even in most erotic occations that might spring up. But there is just one thing I have seen that is so common among men, leaking precum. That is so much impossible to stop. Even with the life long nudist men. But I have found women love to see it. We have nude dances and I try not to get it on the women but most love feeling it on them. In some places erections and precum are looked at as rude and nonexcusible. Other places it's seen normal natural function of the male, so no big deal.

I agree about the precum , I have had it happen to me. Normally when going to a nude resort , my gal will relief me before we go to the beach. But on certain occasions I will leak precum and I always wondered if it was because of being around women who were ovulating?

[couplers 4,577]

I've never encountered a sticking-straight-out erection at the nude spas I visit in Europe, but have seen a few penises that were a bit bloated.  It doesn't bother me either way, it's not what someone is thinking or what his dick is doing involuntarily, it's how he acts. 

[HHgirl 22]

Hubby was the one interested in nudism and he tricked me into going to one at the beginning of our marriage and I was hooked 15 minutes after walking thru the gate.  Still love to be clothing free as often as I can be.  But from being nudists in our twenties it looks like to me that the young guys have the hardest time with the pop up erections.  They can't help it.  Guys falling asleep on lounge chairs.....it happens.  It happened to my husband.  I would tell him to roll over on the lounge chair.  Guys can also put a hat over it or wrap a towel around their waist until it goes away.  I live really close to Hippie Hollow and what I see out there are guys that don't need to take erection meds taking erection meds and they are intentionally parading around with an erection because they want to show off their boners.  And it is OK out at Hippie Hollow as long as they are not touching their self or fluffing their erection up.  The parading oneself walking around with a raging boner would not go over very well at a private family friendly nudist club.  If you don't cover it up you can get red flagged and not get to visit the private nudist club ever again.  You have to sign something that you know the rules before you are allowed in.....in the first place.  

 

[J&Wu 408]

Thinking back to when we first became nudists, I think some of the problem for me was the thrill of exhibitionism but that subsided fairly quickly. We enjoy ballroom dancing and that activity sometimes continued to bring "Johnson" up although not usually in full flower like some we've seen on the dance floors. That actually seems to be contagious, like if there is one there are several.

[HHgirl 22]

Places like nudist beaches (Haulover and Hippie Hollow) are perfect places for guys to show off attributes that they want to show off.  Like large penises.  I have seen guys at both of those places walking around with erections and body jewelry to help them maintain their erections.  They love to be complimented.  It has been a great place for me to pick up boy toys.  There are not as many women in nudism compared to men (from what I have seen).  Hippie Hollow has a lot of gorgeous men and sometimes I am the only female out there on weekdays.  Now on weekends there are lots of swinger, and poly couples.  It is a great meet up place to make new friends.

[couplers 4,577]

On 6/19/2016 at 8:16 PM, GuyInMD79 said:

they will not be able to suppress an erection when they are around all those naked females.

There have been times when I've gotten really wet at nudist resorts.  Easier to deal with than an erection, I suppose.  But it is the beautiful naked females that cause me to moisten up, not the men.  A woman can do it for me visually alone.  A guy, I need to know first.

[derekdas 2]

On 1/10/2017 at 4:19 PM, older couple said:

My wife and I have been nudists for 40 years. We have seen it all. There are some guys who just can't keep it down no matter what. But the majority of men soon learn how to keep their erections down even in most erotic occations that might spring up. But there is just one thing I have seen that is so common among men, leaking precum. That is so much impossible to stop. Even with the life long nudist men. But I have found women love to see it. We have nude dances and I try not to get it on the women but most love feeling it on them. In some places erections and precum are looked at as rude and nonexcusible. Other places it's seen normal natural function of the male, so no big deal.

We're like you guys, long time nudists and visit our local club on a regular basis and very much enjoy the evening dances/ discos on Fridays and Saturdays. After all these years I still get the best thrills ever being there. Nearly all the woman wear sexy clothing to begin with, along with the accompanying  stockings and suspenders. So horny! The men of course will normally be naked from the start. Most husbands let their wives dance with other male guests, whether married or single. I always get a buzz watching my wife dancing with other men and the fun she has with them. In the early days, my biggest problem generally was avoiding actually cumming when dancing with another female partner. Even if  I only had a semi. I would get so worked up with the atmosphere and the company I was with, that usually the slightest touch on my penis, whether it was a brush against the females body or her actual hand was enough to start me off.  A firm squeeze to my tip was the only cure usually. Nowadays, as you say, it's mainly precum only.