Some details on my wife's first experience!

[momisready4this 28]

She finally did it! It all began years ago with us sharing rather innocent sexual fantasies with each other which morphed into wife sharing, which really got things heated up for us. Now we did have a good sex life, but we had been married for years coupled with jobs and kids and well you know how it can go. However, with all the wife sharing fantasy talk it was like we rediscovered sex all over again, it was great! Without going into too much detail she was enthralled by the idea of experiencing a larger penis that had some stamina attached to a good guy. Then when she finally realized I was serious about it actually happening. She was both shocked and turned on by the idea of it.

 

So fast forward down the road the road a few months. I had been interviewing a lot of inquiries from one of the sites and found a guy that I thought would be what she wanted. I showed her the pictures that he sent both normal and naughty and she said to set up a meeting.

 

Prior to meeting they texted and talked on the phone and things went really well. So the time came for dinner and we met and had a few drinks. Things were going really well with some flirtation between them so we decided to go outside to the car and have a more in-depth discussion to where we would not raise any eyebrows with our conversation.

 

They both climbed in the back seat and I got in the front as if we were being directed to our respected positions. As it was night we were not worried about anybody observing. So we began talking and I noticed my wife started rubbing his thigh and his crotch. He smiled and leaned over to begin kissing her. That of course really turned her on and she began to take his bulging penis out of his pants.

 

At that point she was pleased to put both hands on it and it still stick out plus feeling it's girth you could see and hear her breathing increase! She was a sight to behold. The kissing began to intensify with her stroking his cock with both of her hands and him pulling her tits out of her blouse. She was on her knees in the backseat and then he reached over to pull her skirt over her back exposing her finally shaped ass. At that point I reached over the seat and began to finger her throbbing wet pussy. She then asked if she could go down on him and without waiting for my reply she began to suck cock. That went on for about an hour when we had to call it a night but not without making plans to meet again at a hotel for the main event.

 

FINALLY, after a long and excruciating few weeks were able to get our schedules to match in order for us to meet at a motel. My wife was very excited as well as I was to be able to witness her forth coming pleasure. He had already gotten the room and called us because we were running late. When we got there she went into the restroom to freshen up and had a brief conversation about my wife and how much we were looking forward to this happening. My wife came out of the bathroom dressed in a short nightie and sat down on the bed beside him and they were all smiles. They begin talking and at that point I excused myself to the restroom and only being in there a moment I opened the door to find them passionately kissing. So I took a seat beside the bed and with feelings of arousal and anxiety watched my wife pull his fully erect penis out of his pants and place her hands one on top of the other with a focused intensity around his thick 7" fully erect penis with all his head and some of his shaft sticking out and saw her begin to orally pleasure him. By the look on his face you could tell he was enjoying it immensely as well as was my wife. Needless to say I was hard as a rock! After about 15 minutes of my wife giving him head she got up on her knees and straddled him gently lowering herself into him while kissing him. You could tell by the look on her face and the sigh that she let out how she enjoyed his entry his depth into untouched areas of her womanhood. At this point he pulled off her short nightie and began squeezing and caressing her 34C tits as she rode him in ways she never road me making sounds as she tried not too while enjoying his manhood! Then at the point when she had tired herself out on riding him, he wrapped his arms around her waist and pulled her down to where her tits were on his chest and began thrusting he engorged dick up into her wet swollen pussy causing her to moan in pleasure with occasional grunts as I watched in disbelief as I saw my wife bent over on top of him being fucked like I've never fucked her by a man with a larger penis than mine that knew how to use it! It was the most incredible thing I had ever seen! As if that wasn't enough.....he turned her over on her back and proceeded to fuck her to her euphoric enjoyment in the traditional missionary position. It was so surreal to watch her clasp onto to him as well observe how much he shook her breasts with his thrusting. After a while he changed positions by laying on his side holding her legs up with her on her back and re-entering her to her undeniable approval. After what seemed like 15 minutes he asked her to bend over and without hesitation she stood up at the edge of the bed arching her sculptured back that tapers down to her waist sticking her oh so perfect ass out for him to grab onto for him to enter deep into her throbbing pussy. Now folks, seeing her ravished in this position was a sight to behold especially when he grabbed her shoulders for her to take the full brunt of his thrusting and that she did! After her legs about gave out she climbed upon the bed onto her knees bending over with him right behind her continuing to deliver her a sexual euphoric experience.

 

This remarkable experience lasted for over and hour and a half and was truly out of this world. Unfortunately, he backed out of wanting a long-term friendship with her due him getting back with the love of his life. So now we're looking for the right guy for her for a long time friendship any advice or suggestions would be welcome.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Sounds like an outstanding start!!

[GoldCoCouple 4,072]

 

Glad to have you here. Sounds like a great start. Let us know how things go moving forward.

[GoldCoCouple 4,072]

Congratulations on joining the club and thanks for sharing your hot experience. We wish you continued luck as you move forward.

[EastInWest 1,527]

Good work! Sounds you both had fun.

 

We had our own spontaneous "backseat adventure" in a soft swinging situation years ago, it was our only exposure to actually doing this and it was a great time.

[Phxhng 15]

I think if you don't expect too much, too fast in terms of a LTF/LTR you'll know when you've got the right man with the right fit (no pun intended). I've been with 2 couples long term and after the initial meeting and getting to know each other we could just sense that we had good chemistry and went from there. Good luck!

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

That sounds like a great first experience!

 

I hope you two got a chance to "debrief" each other afterwards, talk over the evening and tell each other what you each felt. Did you have any flashes of jealousy, or any other feelings that this was in any way not the right thing to do? Did your wife have any feelings of guilt or concern that you would be unhappy with the things that were happening?

 

Next time, I hope you all are able to find a location where you can get busy more comfortably!

[forsure79 26]

Both you and your wife should consider yourselves lucky you escaped with no injuries or worse. Neither you or your wife had any clue about this guy or what he was capable of.

 

Let me tell you how this could have went. After pleasantries this guy and your wife crawled in the back seat in a secluded location (probably in the dark) with you in the front seat. Anything that happens in the back seat is now beyond your control! This guy is holding your wife's life in his hands! What would have happened if this guy started slapping your wife around and started chocking her. If you tried to intervene you probably would put your wife in greater danger.

 

At this moment a couple of things would probably happen. This guy would probably produce a weapon and demand you get out of the car. He would then drive away and you probably would never see your wife alive again.

 

Think I am weaving fables? I am a police officer (my wife and I are swingers) and scenarios like this happen every day. The bad thing about this happening to swingers is there a reluctance to report the situation I just described.

 

This is not an acceptable way to get started in swinging. Go to a local club and meet and great with other swingers. Plus one or both of you will not be murdered.

[Scaredstiff 129]

I also prefer not to be murdered on meets

[Erik13 157]

Both you and your wife should consider yourselves lucky you escaped with no injuries or worse. Neither you or your wife had any clue about this guy or what he was capable of.

 

Let me tell you how this could have went. After pleasantries this guy and your wife crawled in the back seat in a secluded location (probably in the dark) with you in the front seat. Anything that happens in the back seat is now beyond your control! This guy is holding your wife's life in his hands! What would have happened if this guy started slapping your wife around and started chocking her. If you tried to intervene you probably would put your wife in greater danger.

 

At this moment a couple of things would probably happen. This guy would probably produce a weapon and demand you get out of the car. He would then drive away and you probably would never see your wife alive again.

 

Think I am weaving fables? I am a police officer (my wife and I are swingers) and scenarios like this happen every day. The bad thing about this happening to swingers is there a reluctance to report the situation I just described.

 

This is not an acceptable way to get started in swinging. Go to a local club and meet and great with other swingers. Plus one or both of you will not be murdered.

This is great advice. Only thing is single guys are usually not allowed at the events we go to. What is a safe way to meet a single guy?

[JandKinBoise 862]

Well, I thought the story was exciting. I love hearing about enthusiastic wives in this type of situation.

We always focused on single men. We never felt anything close to danger. The guys were all on their very best behavior. The back seat can be a dangerous place to be trapped but it can also be a very hot place to have savage desires unfold. This life is risky, this hobby is risky, it's part of the draw.

My wife has said to me on several occasions, as we walk up to a hotel room, 'we could be killed in the next few minutes' 'yep' I'd reply as I knock. Heart beating out of my chest and every nerve tingling, 'fuckin alive right now'!

[forsure79 26]

To all:

 

If you think (no matter how little) that the situation you are going into has the slightest chance of putting you in harms way you should not do it. If you continue to put yourself in that situation or something like it you have to ask if something is wrong with you mentally. If your wife is stating that "we could be killed in the next few minutes" obviously where you are going to swing is not the right choice. I have to ask two questions:

 

1. Why is this behavior acceptable in you life? The normal swinger life is not that dramatic (other than great sex).

2. Are you leaving people behind when you engage in this risky behavior? Are you leaving kids, parents, grandparents behind if something goes wrong? Your wife's statement that "we could be killed in the next few minutes" leaves getting beat up, raped or killed really high on the list when you go into this situation.

 

Obviously I cannot changed you mind (don't confuse me with the facts my mind is already made up) but if you can answer yes to one or both of the previous questions you need find a safer way to swing.

[JandKinBoise 862]

Well good luck to you both on your new hobby of swinging forsure. And for your thoughtful words.

[Toonudists 16]

Well I agree with the need to better check on the guy. But a very nice story and mine was similar in that it was a man for me and and my eager husband enjoying the sights and sounds. I will ask him to post his story since hi excitement I am sure was similar to yours. Joan

[SocialClymr 19]

While I was going through my divorce, my ex-husband had told me that I was not sexually open enough. When I talked to a co-worker and her boyfriend, they told me that they were swingers and they encouraged me to come with them to a club in Tampa.