enhancer 1,587 Posted July 20, 2016 What are some of the sexual things you have done since entering the lifestyle that you could have never imagined happening before? The kind of things that you can still visualize in your head! The first time we got together with a full swap couple was a real eye opener for me on what kind of stuff can happen in a mffm scenario! There was a lot of stuff going on that night I could never have imagined doing. One thing stands out more visually in my head than any of it for whatever reason. We were all on our family room floor after a whole lot of playing. Ms playmate was laying on her back sucking my cock while Ms enhancer was on her knees with her face buried between Ms playmate's legs chowing down while Mr playmate plowed Ms enhancer from behind. I have no idea if there is supposed to be a name for this position, but it sure was fun. Also if you are just exploring the lifestyle right now what are some of the things you can imagine doing that you haven't experienced yet? 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnuswing 4,713 Posted July 20, 2016 This ought to be fun Many of the experiences have had some "never could have imagined" element to them, but a few stand out as extra special. One was we met a couple for dinner and drinks. It was a second marriage for both, and while he had experience, she had lived a very constrained life up until that point and definitely no swinging. So we hit it off well at dinner, and then as we left and were walking back to the lot where we had parked, sort of one of those vacant downtown city lot by day, overflow parking for bars and restaurants by night type areas, I slowed my pace and dropped back a little so I could get a private word with Mrs cplnuswing. "So, what do you think?" I asked her. She replied, "if you're good, I think we're going to go to the vehicle and play a little bit. Me and her have talked and they are good." Well, I was good, and so we piled in an extended cab pickup paired up front and back and then some hot and heavy petting and then oral on the guys ensued. I occasionally opened my eyes enough to take a glance around since we weren't the only ones parked in that lot. Eventually during one of those quick glance, I saw the shadowy outlines of what looked like several people walking right toward us, like maybe they were parked beside us. I said something out loud about it, and both girls almost in unison gave a somewhat muffled "don't care" response, somewhat muffled because they were laying down in the seats with their mouths very busy at the moment. I then figured out it probably didn't matter anyways, we had literally steamed up the windows of the vehicle so much it was like looking through frosted glass. We laughed about that later as we were saying our goodbyes, and also about how Mrs. playmate had literally soaked through her dress from excitement. I later found out I was the third person she had ever performed oral sex on, the first two having been husbands, and when we had a repeat date in more comfortable surroundings, the third man she had ever had intercourse with. I was honored by that then, and still am now. The all time favorite was a night spent playing with some good friends. It was summer, and it was an extended session of sex then take a breather and then repeat. It was late. Me and my playmate were out on their covered back porch taking some fresh air, and then one thing led to another and we got started on another round. Right then a summer thunderstorm cut loose, and so while she was bent over their patio table with me fucking her from behind, the lightening was crashing and the thunder was booming, and then mixed in with that we soon heard Mrs cplnuswing and her playmate's cries of passion coming out of the house as they were enjoying another round too. It was quite the sensory experience with all sorts of primal and raw energy being released all at once. I'll always remember that, my favorite summer night ever 9 Quote Share this post Link to post
Psyrex 56 Posted July 20, 2016 We were all on our family room floor after a whole lot of playing. Ms playmate was laying on her back sucking my cock well Ms enhancer was on her knees with her face buried between Ms playmate's legs chowing down while Mr playmate plowed Ms enhancer from behind. I have no idea if there is supposed to be a name for this position, but it sure was fun. I think it's called the "you lucky bastard". 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
EastInWest 1,524 Posted July 20, 2016 I have no idea if there is supposed to be a name for this position, but it sure was fun. Some smaller-scale version of this might be called a Wheelbarrow. Maybe refer to this one as the Earthmover. Also if you are just exploring the lifestyle right now what are some of the things you can imagine doing that you haven't experienced yet? We're both still considering the MFM/FMF/FFM starter pack, and we can see any/all of those seriously happening. Full swap with another couple seems a little more advanced, but if we're talking about things that we can *imagine* doing... we can imagine a lot. Seeing Mrs. EastInWest truly exhausted for once would be a memorable accomplishment, but I think it'd require more help than we can easily pick up in a hotel bar: she's the type that just gets more turned on the more she's brought to orgasm, and usually only stops and comes down from the high because I have to. This has, at times, gone on for hours. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted July 20, 2016 Almost all of it: Never thought that we would be having sex with each other and at the same time watching another couple also having sex right next to us (live porn!). Never thought we would even go to a nude resort. Never thought I would enjoy seeing another man kiss Ms. Gold. Never thought I would see another WOMAN kiss Ms. Gold. If I never thought I would see those things, the things that came later I never even imagined they would even happen in the "Real World", let alone MY world. My brain and my eyes have been at odds with each other for awhile with the brain all too often not believing what the eyes are telling it... 6 Quote Share this post Link to post
EastInWest 1,524 Posted July 20, 2016 If I never thought I would see those things, the things that came later I never even imagined they would even happen in the "Real World", let alone MY world. My brain and my eyes have been at odds with each other for awhile with the brain all too often not believing what the eyes are telling it... Mrs. EastInWest had a similar reaction the first time I took her to a strip club. She'd never been to one before at all, and I took her to the most lavish one I knew. It's a lounge-like setting with good drinks, and on a scale of 1-10 in physical attractiveness, the dancers there tend to run between 8 and 11 and, not to be crass, but they hire top-heavy. Mrs. EastInWest likes breasts as much as I do, and a pretty 30-something blond homed in on her quickly, figured out she was altogether new to women, and had a nice chat sharing some wine with her and telling her what it was like to work as a dancer, then found several more to show us both a pretty good time in our dark corner. All of them would comment on her breasts and tease them a little. She was paralyzed and I couldn't figure out if she was having a good time or not. Later on, I asked her about it and she said she loved it but that it was just so taboo for her to enjoy a woman that she didn't know what to do with herself. She said something very similar, though, that she had no idea places like that existed outside of the movies, and she kept bringing it up for days, trying to parse something that was far outside the Catholic Schoolgirl lectures she'd gotten growing up. I think we're all a little stunned when we find out that something we thought wasn't acceptable, possible, or real is actually entirely accessible and even a lot of fun. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
oc1234 436 Posted July 20, 2016 The one thing I never imagined happening occurred a few years ago during a mmf threesome with our best friend. He is a person we are very close to and we have been playing with him in various combinations since the mid 1980s. We were in our king-sized bed. I was on my back with my wife lying on top of me. My wife and I had been having intercourse for a while and our friend had been rubbing my wife's hips. Our friend then got up on his knees and took a position between our legs. Before either my wife or I realized what he was doing, he slid his penis into my wife's vagina so that both of us were inside her and thrusting. What really made it great for me and our friend was that we have always gone bareback with him so he and I could feel our penises rubbing against each others penis and against my wife's vagina. He and I came very quickly and at the same time. He and I agree that was the greatest sex we had ever had. My wife really loved it too. My advice, if you have a chance to try a DVP, do it. 7 Quote Share this post Link to post
JandKinBoise 859 Posted August 6, 2016 I thought I was prepared for everything. I had fantasized quite a bit. One thing I didn't imagine was my wife joining in for some girl on girl. She experimented way back in HS but made the decision she is straight. We were out one evening with her best friend and stumbled into a Spearmint Rhino, kind of a kiddie version of a strip bar. The women on stage were boring so J and her friend started to flirt with each other and eventually started making out with some petting going on. Eventually there were no more patrons watching the strippers and we were asked to leave. A few months later I watched her buy and use a strap-on on this same girlfriend. Who would ever expect to see their wife do that? holy crap 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
NWAtlSwing 526 Posted August 9, 2016 My wife using a strap on with me, while she is getting it from behind. Wow. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post